# Is the world always so hard, or is it just us?

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**Published on:** 2022-02-21
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Last night I saw the film "the killer is not too cold" again. There was a dialogue in it that was particularly impressive. Mathilda asked Lyon: is the world always so hard, or is it just like childhood? At that time, Lyon replied with special certainty: always. In the film, matida was bullied by her stepmother when she was a child. Her sister didn't let her watch cartoons. Her only favorite brother was finally killed. There were no other relatives in the world, only her. At that time, she felt that life was terrible. I remember that at the beginning of my internship, my mood was very broken. Just like matida asked Lyon, I also asked a friend: why do you think this period of time is so difficult, this society has always been so difficult, or my life is so hard? In the face of my complaint, my friend said blandly: just get used to it. Because of his indifference, I still complained in my heart for a long time and felt that he didn't understand me enough. The internship is in a newspaper. The main job every day is to go out with the teacher for interview, and then come back to write a manuscript. Because the location of the interview was not fixed and remote, I was still living in school at that time. It took me two and a half hours to three hours to get to the interview site every time. So, many times, in order to catch the interview in the morning, I have to get up at 5:30, and then I dare not stop and go on my way. Sometimes the road is very blocked. Several times I simply get off the bus, run through the most blocked road and take a taxi. I'm nervous every day for fear of being late. two There was an interview scheduled at 8:30. The interview place was three hours' drive from the school. At 8:25, I was still in the car and there was still one stop from the interview place. Anticipating that he might be a few minutes late, he politely sent a message to the teacher and said, "sorry, I still have a stop. I may be a few minutes late. I'll catch up as soon as possible." At that time, he said to me directly: then you don't have to come and report directly to the society. Then I got off and spent nearly an hour back to the newspaper. The director scolded me: "the most important thing in work is punctuality. Punctuality is very important. Don't you know?" At that time, I stood by with my head down and kept saying, "I'm sorry." I felt wronged and wanted to defend myself, but I held back. Because I know very well that long distance and short time are not reasons. In work, leaders often only look at the final results, and the other problems called reasons are not solved. It is often because their ability is not up to the standard. At that time, I thought wrongfully in my heart that many times I arrived on time, but the teacher didn't come, so I waited for him there for more than an hour. On several occasions, I followed other media to interview and take notes first. This time, I might be a few minutes late. Why teach me such a lesson that I don't know how to be punctual? Sometimes I really want to give up on myself and cheat on life. I really can't play this game anymore. Shall we shuffle the cards again? But on second thought, I didn't become a VIP of life. Why does life give me the right to start over again. Later, I comforted myself that maybe this is life. Life is very real. When you are nothing, you can only lower your head and let others has the final say. When you are strong enough, you will has the final say. I want to quickly accumulate the weight of the conditions to talk with life, then I will overthrow the past and say, "I will not play with you, I will make my own rules of the game", and I has the final say. three During that time, my roommate sometimes joked to me that you spent almost five or six hours on the bus every day. You often took a taxi to catch up with the time. Not only did you have a penny of internship salary, but you also needed to invest your time, energy and money In fact, I have also thought about this problem. Sometimes I feel unfair and compare it with my roommate in my heart: it's also good to practice in an ordinary company near the school from nine to five, but why is my life so hard? Once upon a time, I asked my friend a very childish question: why should our life be so hard and why can't we live in the ideal state? Be happy and worry less, just like others. At that time, he didn't care about me. I understand what he means. If you struggle in life, you will either try to be a respected strong man or be out. For most people, there are two choices in life: one is to go uphill a little harder, facing the wind and various pressures; Or take an easy downhill road and live a dull life. Everyone's life has another side that we can't see. In front of people, you may think I'm bright and carefree, but on the other side, I also bear all kinds of grievances and refuse to compromise to fight with life. I have been anxious for countless nights, and I have begged God to let me go once, give me good luck and send me further away. But later found that we don't have to count on others, we are our own noble people. Life is often hard, no matter now or in the future, we should accept this positively. You may think it's hard to go through this time, but you also need to know: there are thousands of people facing the problems of the world with you, and you're not the only one. You have to grit your teeth and step by step. Only in this way can you get closer and closer to what you want. Just like the clearance game, at the moment, you may feel very sad about this level. The boss of this level is difficult to fight. You also know that the more you go back, the stronger the boss you encounter. But you didn't give up, most of the time, just because you want to see more powerful people and different scenery. Then try to upgrade, learn skills and strengthen yourself. In the end, all hardships will pass.

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