No matter how smart and capable a person is and how good his background conditions are, if he doesn't know how to be a man and do things, his final outcome must be failure. Being a man and doing things is not only an art, but also a knowledge. The reason why many people are mediocre all their life is that they haven't figured out how to behave and do things all their life. It can be said that being a man and doing things is a knowledge involving all aspects of real life. In order to master this knowledge and grasp its essence, we must refine and summarize real life and draw some laws of universal significance, so that people can have rules to follow instead of being confused. 1、 "Modesty" The word "modesty" is the only way to deal with the world. If you are arrogant and arrogant, you will only lose the foundation of dealing with the world and end up in a lonely and infamous end. 1. Don't be arrogant. 2. Don't be complacent. 3. Don't boast about your ability. 4. Consult no one. 2、 "Light" In dealing with the world, making friends and treating friends, it seems that there is no need to be too strict about snobbery. The word "light" should be the first. If you look down and open, life will suddenly become bright and interesting. Just like "light is true". 3、 "Frugality" Those who do not know the word "Thrift" do not know how to succeed. Any successful career lies in the accumulation of bits and pieces; Those who do not know the word "Thrift" will only lose success, and excessive arrogance and extravagance will defeat people's quality. "Frugality to cultivate morality" is a good training for people to do things. 4、 "From" Be a person with personality and give yourself a little confidence! The road to success depends on yourself. A bright future comes from self-improvement and self-reliance. Don't give in to any authority. Use your own efforts to find your self-esteem. Men make their own decisions! 5、 "Ceremony" Born in a country of etiquette, be a polite person. A polite person will be a man, have popularity and have many friends. A polite person will do things, pay attention to image, be cultured, do not make enemies, and everything goes well on the road to success. 6、 "Positive" Be an upright person, be a person with sound personality and be respected by others. To be a selfish person, to do deceptive things, to prevent diseases and talents, is not related to success. 7、 "Zhi" Make a wish, a goal and an idol for your life. Be down-to-earth. The awareness of success needs to be cultivated. Make up your mind first, and then date with success. 8、 "When" Be punctual in your life and punctual in your work. To shape their own image, modern people are inseparable from the concept of time. Reasonably arrange your time, make effective use of your time, be punctual, save time and do not delay. Remember: time is money. 9、 "Diligent" More efforts, more chances of success. Countless facts have proved that the shortest way to success is diligence. Don't just talk, don't like leisure and hate work, and be diligent. Heaven pays those who have a heart! 10、 "Real" Be a down-to-earth man and do things in a down-to-earth manner. No one with his hands in his pockets can climb the ladder of success. Leave a real image, add a solid foundation to your success, and be responsible for yourself from reality. 11、 "Special" There are professionals, there is perseverance, there is perseverance, there is me. You live in an era of knowledge explosion. If you are a genius, not paying attention will become your misfortune; If your qualifications are ordinary, please don't be pessimistic. As long as you make up your mind to do one thing well in your life, you can succeed. Young man, don't leave a fickle image. 12、 "Caution" Life is long and short. The key is just a few steps. Human nature jungle, career, many interests and temptations. An old man is not afraid of many things. He should think twice about everything. He is not afraid of ten thousand, just in case. Once you stretch out the wrong hand, go into the wrong business, do wrong things, there is a danger of irreparability in reputation, career and image. Be careful! 13、 "Hard" It is difficult to be a man and do things. In the face of thousands of difficulties and obstacles, how can we improve ourselves without being "hard"? If things are reluctant, you should dare to say "no"; If it is a legitimate interest, it should be benevolent; Even, sometimes you have to bow hard. When you have a thick skin, you also have a hard scalp. 14、 "Oblique"“ The owner of a leather shoes chain store may have polished shoes. If you want to do big things and make big money, you must first do small things and make small money, put down your airs and give up small profits. Start with the details, first sweep a house, and then sweep the world! 15、 "Sharp" Little sparrows, flying and jumping, race against time, constantly looking for food. The same is true of life. In the face of cruel competition, it is very slim to forge ahead, be a good pioneer, take the next goal as the goal, dare to take risks, dare to wander, and wait for the rabbit. 16、 "Chuang" To improve ourselves, we must have the courage and knowledge to surpass ourselves. What is transcendence? Transcendence is eating crabs and innovation. At the same time, innovation means taking risks, which is called seeking wealth and wealth in danger. Think of what others can't think of, do what others dare not do, and dare to take the lead in the world, which lies in the transformation of thinking. 17、 "Pass" If you are poor, you will think of change, and if you change, you will be flexible. He who knows the current affairs is a hero, and he who knows the opportunity is a hero. The road to success is not one, so why hang yourself from a tree? Grasp the key to success, the East is not bright, the west is bright, whether it is black or white, the important thing is whether it can catch "mice". 18、 "Speech" Giving praise to others is like giving food to a hungry beggar. Through the ages, I don't know how many people have changed their ordinary destiny with their three inch tongue. Speak with humor and find a common language... A word of "Yan" can be used all his life. 19、 "Wide" Interpersonal interaction should focus on the future and forget the old and evil. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself - burning with anger for your enemies, burning yourself. Don't be too narrow-minded when doing things. The sea embraces all rivers, relying on a tolerant heart! 20、 "And" In the crowd, if we don't want to be isolated, then learn how to get along with others! When the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds. You don't need to like everyone, but at the same time, there are no best people in the world. Harmony is precious. We should leave steps for each other and give face to everyone. 21、 "Letter" How many people trust you, you will have many chances of success. What is "faith"? Faith is a power of personality, a friendship beyond money, understanding, appreciation and covering water, which is irreversible. Therefore, words must be carried out, actions must be carried out, and help if you can, but you can't promise easily! 22、 "Help" "With the help of good wind, send me to the blue sky". Interpersonal communication, mutual benefit. To help others is to save money for one's personal credit card, especially when people are in trouble, and save heroes in distress. If you sincerely help others, the return is self-evident. 23、 "To" People want face, trees want skin. People exist in society and need to play various roles, especially in mutual communication. They need a certain dignity to support, which is the weakness of human nature. Only by understanding this can we realize the necessity of "respect". 24、 "Hand over" People are warm and cold, and the world is hot and cold. Ordinary friends usually live together. To make friends and meet friends, you should not be eager for quick success and instant benefits. Friendship investment should take a long line, worship the cold temple, burn the cold stove, and burn more incense at ordinary times. Even a few words of greeting is also the way to make friends. 25、 "Jian" In the face of setbacks and difficulties, remember Churchill's famous saying: "never, never, never give up!" In fact, there is no lucky thing in the world. Even if there is, it is also the result of persistence. For the final victory, we should be determined, face all kinds of temporary humiliation, pursue persistently, and never die before reaching the Yellow River! 26、 "Plot" There are puzzles in life and difficulties in doing things. In the face of the barrier of "mountain and water recovery", it is not enough to have a strong determination, nor to break through. Solving problems depends on the brain. The brain generates thinking, makes thinking powerful, and easily solves problems in unexpected places. 27、 "Qu" After all, it is inevitable for four people to take turns to get rid of difficulties, even if they have to take turns to get rid of difficulties. After all, it is inevitable for them to seek success. Put down your airs, bend when you should, bend when you can, and be a hero when you bend as you stretch! 28、 "Quiet" "If you don't break out in silence, you will perish in silence!" In case of major events, you need to calm down. Calm down is a realm, a bearing and a self-cultivation. Calm decision is often the best way to get rid of difficulties. At the same time, calm is also a kind of wisdom to wait for change and win in chaos! 29、 "Music" There are no absolutely happy people in the world, only those who refuse to be happy. Life is short. It's better to be quiet than to draw a bow and draw a crossbow in everything. Remember, success starts with a smile. Life is often unhappy. Be happy, create happiness by yourself, and learn to solve problems easily. 30、 "Shit" Life is not dependent. Yes, there will be no pie in the sky, waiting for the rabbit to starve to death, but it can't be relied on at all. Relatives, friends, classmates and fellow villagers, this is a kind of "human resources". No one can rely on three disasters and six disasters. If he can't rely on it, he can rely on it, and if he can't rely on it, he can rely on creating conditions! 31、 "Stupid" Learn to be an owl, open one eye and close one eye. You say I'm stupid, but I'm not stupid! But there are many changes in the world. It is difficult to start a business and lose a family quickly. People say that when the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people observe, there is no apprentice. In fact, wise men are often foolish. There are many wise people who can pass the word "fool"! 32、 "Forbearance" A true hero, why should he be short of breath and finish well before he is invincible! Forbearance can protect one's body and accomplish things. Forbearance is great wisdom, courage and blessing! Forbearance is thick, forbearance is black, forbearance is villain, forbearance is strong, forbearance is unbearable in the world. If you don't be a person of temperament, you will become a difficult thing for ordinary people. 33、 "Retreat" Those who have experienced the Jianghu for a long time and experienced in human relations abide by the word "retreat". Retreat is a strategy, retreat is a kind of exchange, and it is also a means to maintain survival. The philosopher said, "don't spit phlegm in the well. You should come to the well to drink water when you are thirsty." 34、 "Circle" Being a man in all directions; Do things perfectly and everything goes well. People have ulterior motives. You'd better keep your hand in everything. When you're free, you can study the "fuzzy philosophy". If you install a square wheel above the carriage of life, you haven't heard of it, and I haven't heard of it. It's hard to move a step! 35、 "Danger" "After the success of luxury, leisure, peace, knowledge and disaster?" The lesson of history is the same as that of ordinary people. Living at home and working in the workplace can not escape the word "danger". People have no foresight and must have immediate worries. 36、 "Install" Life is a play in the world. After you sing, I'll play. Whether you can play or not depends on whether you can pretend. It's easier to be a hero than a weak one. As the saying goes, if you shoot a bird with a gun, you're not afraid of thieves. You're afraid of thieves. When you don't have strength, please hide your excess talent.

No matter how smart and capable a person is and how good his background conditions are, if he doesn't know how to be a man and do things, his final outcome must be failure. Being a man and doing things is not only an art, but also a knowledge. The reason why many people are mediocre all their life is that they haven't figured out how to behave and do things all their life. It can be said that being a man and doing things is a knowledge involving all aspects of real life. In order to master this knowledge and grasp its essence, we must refine and summarize real life and draw some laws of universal significance, so that people can have rules to follow instead of being confused. 1、 "Modesty" The word "modesty" is the only way to deal with the world. If you are arrogant and arrogant, you will only lose the foundation of dealing with the world and end up in a lonely and infamous end. 1. Don't be arrogant. 2. Don't be complacent. 3. Don't boast about your ability. 4. Consult no one. 2、 "Light" In dealing with the world, making friends and treating friends, it seems that there is no need to be too strict about snobbery. The word "light" should be the first. If you look down and open, life will suddenly become bright and interesting. Just like "light is true". 3、 "Frugality" Those who do not know the word "Thrift" do not know how to succeed. Any successful career lies in the accumulation of bits and pieces; Those who do not know the word "Thrift" will only lose success, and excessive arrogance and extravagance will defeat people's quality. "Frugality to cultivate morality" is a good training for people to do things. 4、 "From" Be a person with personality and give yourself a little confidence! The road to success depends on yourself. A bright future comes from self-improvement and self-reliance. Don't give in to any authority. Use your own efforts to find your self-esteem. Men make their own decisions! 5、 "Ceremony" Born in a country of etiquette, be a polite person. A polite person will be a man, have popularity and have many friends. A polite person will do things, pay attention to image, be cultured, do not make enemies, and everything goes well on the road to success. 6、 "Positive" Be an upright person, be a person with sound personality and be respected by others. To be a selfish person, to do deceptive things, to prevent diseases and talents, is not related to success. 7、 "Zhi" Make a wish, a goal and an idol for your life. Be down-to-earth. The awareness of success needs to be cultivated. Make up your mind first, and then date with success. 8、 "When" Be punctual in your life and punctual in your work. To shape their own image, modern people are inseparable from the concept of time. Reasonably arrange your time, make effective use of your time, be punctual, save time and do not delay. Remember: time is money. 9、 "Diligent" More efforts, more chances of success. Countless facts have proved that the shortest way to success is diligence. Don't just talk, don't like leisure and hate work, and be diligent. Heaven pays those who have a heart! 10、 "Real" Be a down-to-earth man and do things in a down-to-earth manner. No one with his hands in his pockets can climb the ladder of success. Leave a real image, add a solid foundation to your success, and be responsible for yourself from reality. 11、 "Special" There are professionals, there is perseverance, there is perseverance, there is me. You live in an era of knowledge explosion. If you are a genius, not paying attention will become your misfortune; If your qualifications are ordinary, please don't be pessimistic. As long as you make up your mind to do one thing well in your life, you can succeed. Young man, don't leave a fickle image. 12、 "Caution" Life is long and short. The key is just a few steps. Human nature jungle, career, many interests and temptations. An old man is not afraid of many things. He should think twice about everything. He is not afraid of ten thousand, just in case. Once you stretch out the wrong hand, go into the wrong business, do wrong things, there is a danger of irreparability in reputation, career and image. Be careful! 13、 "Hard" It is difficult to be a man and do things. In the face of thousands of difficulties and obstacles, how can we improve ourselves without being "hard"? If things are reluctant, you should dare to say "no"; If it is a legitimate interest, it should be benevolent; Even, sometimes you have to bow hard. When you have a thick skin, you also have a hard scalp. 14、 "Oblique"“ The owner of a leather shoes chain store may have polished shoes. If you want to do big things and make big money, you must first do small things and make small money, put down your airs and give up small profits. Start with the details, first sweep a house, and then sweep the world! 15、 "Sharp" Little sparrows, flying and jumping, race against time, constantly looking for food. The same is true of life. In the face of cruel competition, it is very slim to forge ahead, be a good pioneer, take the next goal as the goal, dare to take risks, dare to wander, and wait for the rabbit. 16、 "Chuang" To improve ourselves, we must have the courage and knowledge to surpass ourselves. What is transcendence? Transcendence is eating crabs and innovation. At the same time, innovation means taking risks, which is called seeking wealth and wealth in danger. Think of what others can't think of, do what others dare not do, and dare to take the lead in the world, which lies in the transformation of thinking. 17、 "Pass" If you are poor, you will think of change, and if you change, you will be flexible. He who knows the current affairs is a hero, and he who knows the opportunity is a hero. The road to success is not one, so why hang yourself from a tree? Grasp the key to success, the East is not bright, the west is bright, whether it is black or white, the important thing is whether it can catch "mice". 18、 "Speech" Giving praise to others is like giving food to a hungry beggar. Through the ages, I don't know how many people have changed their ordinary destiny with their three inch tongue. Speak with humor and find a common language... A word of "Yan" can be used all his life. 19、 "Wide" Interpersonal interaction should focus on the future and forget the old and evil. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself - burning with anger for your enemies, burning yourself. Don't be too narrow-minded when doing things. The sea embraces all rivers, relying on a tolerant heart! 20、 "And" In the crowd, if we don't want to be isolated, then learn how to get along with others! When the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds. You don't need to like everyone, but at the same time, there are no best people in the world. Harmony is precious. We should leave steps for each other and give face to everyone. 21、 "Letter" How many people trust you, you will have many chances of success. What is "faith"? Faith is a power of personality, a friendship beyond money, understanding, appreciation and covering water, which is irreversible. Therefore, words must be carried out, actions must be carried out, and help if you can, but you can't promise easily! 22、 "Help" "With the help of good wind, send me to the blue sky". Interpersonal communication, mutual benefit. To help others is to save money for one's personal credit card, especially when people are in trouble, and save heroes in distress. If you sincerely help others, the return is self-evident. 23、 "To" People want face, trees want skin. People exist in society and need to play various roles, especially in mutual communication. They need a certain dignity to support, which is the weakness of human nature. Only by understanding this can we realize the necessity of "respect". 24、 "Hand over" People are warm and cold, and the world is hot and cold. Ordinary friends usually live together. To make friends and meet friends, you should not be eager for quick success and instant benefits. Friendship investment should take a long line, worship the cold temple, burn the cold stove, and burn more incense at ordinary times. Even a few words of greeting is also the way to make friends. 25、 "Jian" In the face of setbacks and difficulties, remember Churchill's famous saying: "never, never, never give up!" In fact, there is no lucky thing in the world. Even if there is, it is also the result of persistence. For the final victory, we should be determined, face all kinds of temporary humiliation, pursue persistently, and never die before reaching the Yellow River! 26、 "Plot" There are puzzles in life and difficulties in doing things. In the face of the barrier of "mountain and water recovery", it is not enough to have a strong determination, nor to break through. Solving problems depends on the brain. The brain generates thinking, makes thinking powerful, and easily solves problems in unexpected places. 27、 "Qu" After all, it is inevitable for four people to take turns to get rid of difficulties, even if they have to take turns to get rid of difficulties. After all, it is inevitable for them to seek success. Put down your airs, bend when you should, bend when you can, and be a hero when you bend as you stretch! 28、 "Quiet" "If you don't break out in silence, you will perish in silence!" In case of major events, you need to calm down. Calm down is a realm, a bearing and a self-cultivation. Calm decision is often the best way to get rid of difficulties. At the same time, calm is also a kind of wisdom to wait for change and win in chaos! 29、 "Music" There are no absolutely happy people in the world, only those who refuse to be happy. Life is short. It's better to be quiet than to draw a bow and draw a crossbow in everything. Remember, success starts with a smile. Life is often unhappy. Be happy, create happiness by yourself, and learn to solve problems easily. 30、 "Shit" Life is not dependent. Yes, there will be no pie in the sky, waiting for the rabbit to starve to death, but it can't be relied on at all. Relatives, friends, classmates and fellow villagers, this is a kind of "human resources". No one can rely on three disasters and six disasters. If he can't rely on it, he can rely on it, and if he can't rely on it, he can rely on creating conditions! 31、 "Stupid" Learn to be an owl, open one eye and close one eye. You say I'm stupid, but I'm not stupid! But there are many changes in the world. It is difficult to start a business and lose a family quickly. People say that when the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people observe, there is no apprentice. In fact, wise men are often foolish. There are many wise people who can pass the word "fool"! 32、 "Forbearance" A true hero, why should he be short of breath and finish well before he is invincible! Forbearance can protect one's body and accomplish things. Forbearance is great wisdom, courage and blessing! Forbearance is thick, forbearance is black, forbearance is villain, forbearance is strong, forbearance is unbearable in the world. If you don't be a person of temperament, you will become a difficult thing for ordinary people. 33、 "Retreat" Those who have experienced the Jianghu for a long time and experienced in human relations abide by the word "retreat". Retreat is a strategy, retreat is a kind of exchange, and it is also a means to maintain survival. The philosopher said, "don't spit phlegm in the well. You should come to the well to drink water when you are thirsty." 34、 "Circle" Being a man in all directions; Do things perfectly and everything goes well. People have ulterior motives. You'd better keep your hand in everything. When you're free, you can study the "fuzzy philosophy". If you install a square wheel above the carriage of life, you haven't heard of it, and I haven't heard of it. It's hard to move a step! 35、 "Danger" "After the success of luxury, leisure, peace, knowledge and disaster?" The lesson of history is the same as that of ordinary people. Living at home and working in the workplace can not escape the word "danger". People have no foresight and must have immediate worries. 36、 "Install" Life is a play in the world. After you sing, I'll play. Whether you can play or not depends on whether you can pretend. It's easier to be a hero than a weak one. As the saying goes, if you shoot a bird with a gun, you're not afraid of thieves. You're afraid of thieves. When you don't have strength, please hide your excess talent.