# You're not unlucky, but you don't see much of the world

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**Published on:** 2022-02-26
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There are many women who come to ask questions, but many times I can't answer them. For example, "does your boyfriend love you", "elopes with a married man", "doesn't care if you're pregnant with your boyfriend", "can't forget your ex boyfriend when you're lovelorn", "what should you do if your boyfriend always cheats", and so on. Of course, there is no denying that they are also suffering, but such suffering is a worthless waste of time in their own confusion. Of course, you can also attribute these injuries to the cost of growth. If you are unlucky, but the cost is inexplicable and even absurd, you have to live a happy and quiet life, which is just a long way off. Don't ask everywhere. The root cause is that you read less books and rarely see the world. If this matter can't be solved, no matter how powerful emotional experts can't help you, you will continue to encounter scum men, toss you to sleep, or lose your final innocence in the arms of some obscene old men. Even if women can't enter the University for further study and enter the society early, they can also use their spare time to stroll around the bookstore and bring back a fragrance of books. Don't just be busy with games and online chat on the Internet. Go to see the news and read articles to learn about other wonderful things around us except men. There are many ways for us to acquire knowledge. The older we get, the more we will benefit. Brother may be just a legend, but "poetry and Book Spirit from China" is not just a legend. Don't just indulge in the daydreams of Duojin man and Cinderella in romantic novels and don't want to wake up. As a result, every love is imagined as a fairy tale. No one can be happy casually. The quality matched with it is the bright smile after honing. Don't waste your time on boring magazines with gossip headlines. It's not a book at all. If you always walk through the dark side of life, you'll become a shadow. To read history, to see the modern, to pick up a wisp of poetry fragrance, to leave a trace of emotional deep meaning, the fashion is those classic, popular are mainstream, and always beautiful. Another important link for girls to grow into women is to see more of the world. Parents have always advocated the concept of rich upbringing of girls. Children with rich life and wide knowledge since childhood will have a positive and healthy inner world, and will have stronger resistance to temptation in the future. If you don't have a good family, it doesn't matter. When you grow up, you can spread your wings and fly as far as you can. Don't be afraid of wandering when you are young. That's the game of the brave. Don't be afraid of loneliness when you are no longer young. That's the normal state of life. Of course, you should work hard to make money, and then spend money in a planned way to maximize your enjoyment of the prosperity of the city. You can also travel once a year to the other side of the world and look back at your confusion. Maybe you can laugh at it. In this way, you will no longer easily fall in love with men who are not men, nor will you think it is love because of a fancy dress and a candlelight dinner, nor will there be so many problems that you will cry to the heart. What many women need urgently is to read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles to make themselves more worldly, so that they can share the same sky with men. He flies, you are flying, the same height and the same dream. Who says only youth can do wrong? As we grow up, perhaps because we care more about some results, we are more likely to make wrong choices at the critical moment, making the process torture and the end regret. Originally, the bigger we should be, the more calm we are. At least when we look down, we will be lighter. As a result, the bigger we are, the more tired we are. We think we can't lose it, so we all keep it hard. People who are easily angered are either too fragile or too sensitive. You either make yourself strong or learn to ignore it. Because of the love of men and women, this world shows warmth and loveliness. Even if there is, don't hate the melancholy and loneliness you tell anyone, but no one has complained about meeting you. Even the fox spirit who has practiced for thousands of years is just a woman who yearns for love. With that independent heart, she comes to the world to find the most affectionate eyes. Even if it is only lingering for one night, her soul will fly away after dawn. Seeing through the world of mortals, gods and demons may not live happily, not to mention our physical fetuses? When we taste the pain for love and feel love in the pain, we will become rich and interesting. Before that, I had no choice but to bite my teeth. We always have to have some experience before we can understand that we may be able to do better in the past want and don't, love and don't love, but now we can't do it again. Even if we have high requirements for ourselves, we can't be perfect. We should forgive ourselves even if we forgive others. Some of the feelings of hard love are often not blessed. Most of the men and women who share the pain still have love and hate entangled, while those who hold on to the past have long lost love, leaving only unwilling. Sometimes we don't do well enough. We don't know how to stay what we should stay, but we don't want to let go of what we should go. The turning of love is not love. No one can find any long-term warmth in it. Many people still linger between turning around, but the old love is for the old, but the new love belongs to the new love. What can come back can never be the past. Maybe we can all do better, because no one can refuse growth. If what should be changed is not changed, and all that should not be changed, don't say that love is perishable, people are difficult to stay, and happiness is always hard to find. On the way of persistence, being too stubborn and willful will eventually make us lose direction. Persistence becomes meaningless and stubbornness has become a bad habit. When we suddenly have nothing, you must stop and look at yourself first. All gains and losses are the same, and there can be no reason. If you love yourself too much or don't love yourself too much, you will inadvertently miss the meeting of love and being loved, leaving a regret of going or not going. Sometimes, if we can't do well, we can stop doing it first and don't crush the pain; We can't do the best, we can do better and don't take away the warmth. How many people now have strong sadness in the light of the clouds and the wind, but they can let go, release their feelings, feel at ease, and let those people and things go farther and farther, so vague that they can no longer remember. Reduce the circle, slow down your speaking speed, relax your heart, simplify your life, hide the story deep in your heart, and do things better. You will have everything you want now in the future. When you can shine, you will never be afraid of the cold again. Many times you are not unlucky, but you see too little of the world. If you are narrow-minded, life will only be the sky on the wellhead. If you are wide-minded, the whole world will be yours. Don't thank those who hurt you and left you. You should thank yourself, who can do better.

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