# The great regret of life is choice

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**Published on:** 2022-03-03
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## Content

We are often faced with various choices in life, work and emotion. Every choice will make us hesitate. Moreover, sometimes, some choices come with temptation, which makes it more difficult for us to judge. Therefore, the wrong choice has become a great regret. The first regret is not to choose. There is a simple situation, whether to go or not, accept or not, agree or disagree. In other words, the door is there. You just have to choose whether to enter or not. This seemingly simple problem always baffles too many people. Because we always have to think before and after, so we hesitate. Sometimes, we will face many choices, that is, many doors are in front of us and we don't know which one to enter. More often, we don't choose the door we like, but the one that is easy to enter. Suddenly think of that year's college entrance examination volunteer, in the face of so many alternative schools, we often choose the one we are more sure to enter, and what we like can only be looked at and sighed. What makes it difficult for us to make up our mind is a kind of unknown. I don't know whether I really like what I choose, whether I will regret it, and whether I will do well. What we really love is what we don't have. Following the hope in your heart is a choice without regret, even if it is difficult after the choice. The second regret is not to stick to the choice. It is common for many people to change their mind easily after being persuaded by others or when the situation changes. First of all, I always feel that what others say is reasonable. In fact, some choices must be made by myself, and other people's opinions don't even need reference. Some choices should follow the opinions of others. Different choices should be solved in different ways. Or I already have a choice in my heart, but I suddenly find that other alternative conditions have changed and become better, so I hurriedly put down the initial answer in my heart and rush to another goal. So tired of running around, often miss too many opportunities. Then it is clear that you have made a choice, but you quit halfway, resulting in the waste of previous efforts. There are many times like this. We often comfort ourselves by "starting from scratch" and "starting another line", but we seldom think about our failure to adhere and persist. When we fail, we are all pushed to "untimely" or "God doesn't give us". So he complained and sighed. To stick to the choice, we must stick to our inner voice, resist the temptation, be not afraid of difficulties and keep moving forward. In another case, the two choices are similar to the direction of the heart and have the same conditions. At this time, the choice is particularly difficult. If you choose one of the two worlds and two situations, you will lose the other. And after choosing one, you will feel that the other choice may be better. At this time, we should strengthen our confidence, not worry about gain and loss, choose not to regret, and go on. There is also a regret, that is, constant choice. Constant choice is not a choice at all. Because in the heart of those people, there is no concept and significance of choice at all. Taking choice as a child's play will eventually be chosen for a lifetime. Those people seem to be busy and have a full life, but they are just tired of running. You don't even know what you want to stick to and what you want to stick to. No matter how many roads you take, you just turn around in situ. Of course, this does not mean that you can only choose once in your life, but that you can't change capriciously on the same thing, or constantly repeat the process of selection, giving up and re selection. Any choice in life should be taken seriously in order to be truly without regret. Some choices don't matter whether they are right or wrong, but whether they are appropriate or not. Therefore, before choosing, we should think more, start from hope and dream, abandon temptation and desire, spare all the tedium, and then see our true heart. In this way, when you look back on your life, you won't sigh and show the most comfortable smile.

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