# If you manage your life well, others will want to get close

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**Published on:** 2022-03-22
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## Content

Today, I saw a sentence: "every excellent person has a silent time. That time is a time when he has made a lot of efforts, endured loneliness and loneliness, did not complain, did not complain, and even himself can be moved when talking about it in the future." I feel that my life flows to the present, there are many such times, from junior high school, senior high school to the walk, and the whole freshman year. In the first semester of college, I worked very hard in preparing for the fourth year of junior college, reciting the new concept text and preparing for oral English. At that time, there was no love, no complaint, and I was steadfast in my life all day. A few days ago, he had dinner with his cousin. He was 30 years old. Facing the pressure of all parties, he had no marriage object, and the nature of his work was unstable. He was forced to compare with other people's children. He was eager to prove himself. As a result, he became more and more disorderly, smoking and drinking, and covering up his emptiness with busyness. I said, brother, if you want to manage your life well, others will want to be close to you. One Christmas, I made a wish that "those who love me are not lonely, and those I love also love me". Now the small yellow envelope is still lying safely in a diary. In the past few years, I have pursued and refused, and gradually found that I don't need to belittle myself, don't worry, don't fall, don't be humble, don't rely on, and don't envy. Just in this way, I will meet the person who is destined. Even if I don't meet him, I can be worthy of myself. At least I'm living seriously. Only when you are confident can you have peace. In the past, I always felt that I was not beautiful enough, my figure was not good enough, and I always felt inferior in front of beautiful women. Later, they gradually looked down on what could not be changed and time could not be kept. Why force them to be poetic and bookish. Once I translated a school's patriotic assembly. There were more than 500 American children, more than 80 Chinese children, as well as various leaders, parents and teachers. The translation was not perfect, but it was generous and comfortable. After the next meeting, everyone came to me and said "you are so brilliant". A little girl passed by me and said to me gently, "you're pretty". I smiled and said thx, I think life is actually beautiful if I can be praised by the child like this. At least this sentence of the girl is more sincere than many compliments I have heard. A friend in high school said that the nervousness before the exam stems from the fear of the exam results. If you don't think about the results, as long as you work hard, it will be the best result. Since then, every time I pray before the exam or before an important event, I only pray God to give me the results I deserve. I will give me as much as my efforts are worth. For English, I am a way of moving forward at a constant speed. (www.lz13. CN) I'm getting busier and quieter now. I can't get down to large-scale self-study, but I'm glad that some good habits have been with me. Recite words for a few minutes every day, read a Yahoo News every day, listen to a ted speech every week, practice interpretation regularly, read widely, and write down the terms I don't understand, so what exams or problems do I encounter, Think about how you came here, there's nothing to be afraid of. I didn't work hard when others were trying to review the exam, but I wasn't very empty when others were playing. Only when your heart is strong enough can you see clearly and choose well. I felt very lucky to catch it when the opportunity came. But also because many things are too simple, there is always a feeling of insecurity. Amang said that we all have this feeling because we have taken short cuts. However, he is ready to go back to the life of forcing small programmers to write code all day. Similarly, I am ready to do a translation of 50 yuan per thousand words or talk about new concepts in an unknown educational institution. When I was young, I didn't eat or sleep because of lovelorn, but now I live as carefully as an old man who is afraid of death. Eat breakfast carefully, try to eat more than 15 kinds of fruits and vegetables every day, eat coarse grain and animal liver regularly, don't sleep in and get angry, walk a hundred steps after dinner, and have a physical examination for half a year. Although sister Lin is lovable, I don't want to die because I was hurt. Only live well, that person will know what he has missed and what he has lost. If we meet each other at the most shining time, it's good, because we know that we love a person worthy of love, and he / she has the ability to manage his / her life well; If we meet each other when we are most embarrassed, it is also good, because we know that we love a strong person. Even if we are frustrated, we can help each other. I just hope that when all the good things and setbacks arranged by God come one after another, I can always be quiet enough to accept all this. Only peace can lead to a serious life. Only a woman who lives a serious life can be loved and loved by God.

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