Distinguish whether you can control An important aspect of life wisdom is to distinguish what you can control and what you can't control. For what you can't control, you can only let it go. For what you can control, you should work hard. As for the result of your efforts, you might as well let it go.

Non competitive wisdom The reason for many pains in life lies in blind competition. Therefore, you should have the wisdom of not competing, which includes three aspects: First, don't compete with yourself and be casual with yourself. You should recognize your talent and temperament, find the most suitable position in the world, and don't compare with others. Second, don't compete with others and follow others. You should understand whether there is a fate between people and the depth of the fate is basically determined. You should have a general idea in each specific situation and don't force anyone. Third, don't compete with God and follow his fate. You should remember that people cannot control their own destiny, but they can control their attitude towards destiny and calmly bear the inevitable encounter that falls on their head.

Keep away from external encounters To live in the world, one must learn to distance himself from his external encounters. This has two meanings. First, in the face of your external encounters, you should maintain your inner autonomy. People are often easily dominated by existing experiences, dragged by what has happened, and go to places they don't want to go. In fact, the existing experience may not determine the future direction. In most cases, people still have the freedom of choice. You must not give up this freedom, and your future direction largely depends on whether you can make good use of this freedom. Second, in the face of your external encounters, you should maintain inner peace. If the existing experience is serious enough and what has happened has hit you hard enough to completely change your future direction, accept it calmly. At this time, we must have a detached vision. People will die in the end. All misfortunes, blessings, gains and losses are passing by. We don't have to care too much. In short, if possible, be the master of fate and don't give in to it; If it is impossible, be the friend of fate and don't compete with it.

Don't die on a small thing If you focus all your attention on one thing, how small it is, it will be infinitely magnified, as if it were a big thing. Then, turn your eyes to see the various forms of the world, the changes of history and the vastness of the universe. If you look back at that matter, you will find how insignificant it is. Let your heart live in a wide world, and you won't die in a small thing. Sadly, so many people die in a small thing.

Thinking hurts the body. Think more and keep fit Thinking hurts the body, worrying, worrying and suffering about small things and trivia in daily life. This kind of situation accumulates over time because of frequent occurrence. In fact, it is the most likely to cause disease. On the contrary, people who have the habit and ability of thinking can face things in the world with a rational attitude and a broad mind. Instead of hurting their health, they can keep fit. Those who think about big problems, even if they think about suffering and death, such as Socrates and Buddha, are in good health.

Watch out for small things Thinking about big problems, even the terrible big problem of death, will not harm health. On the contrary, entanglement, worry and anger over small things are the most hurtful. People often resort to reason when facing major events, so they are relatively calm. On the contrary, it is easy to be irritated and angry by small things. The conclusion is: be alert to small things. In the face of small things, you should control your emotions.

Indirect self blame Self blame is the most painful. There is direct self resentment, because they know they have done something wrong and violated their wishes or principles, so they are angry with themselves and even look down on themselves. There are also indirect self resentments. In the final analysis, they are also self resentment, complaining about their incompetence or bad luck. Yes, you had bad luck, but did you become a bad luck? If you are angry, you are. But you can also have another attitude, which is to face it calmly. Whether you encounter bad luck or not is beyond your control. Whether you do it or not is within your control. A person who loves and respects himself will not complain about others. No one can really hurt his self-sufficiency.

Distinguish whether you can control An important aspect of life wisdom is to distinguish what you can control and what you can't control. For what you can't control, you can only let it go. For what you can control, you should work hard. As for the result of your efforts, you might as well let it go.

Non competitive wisdom The reason for many pains in life lies in blind competition. Therefore, you should have the wisdom of not competing, which includes three aspects: First, don't compete with yourself and be casual with yourself. You should recognize your talent and temperament, find the most suitable position in the world, and don't compare with others. Second, don't compete with others and follow others. You should understand whether there is a fate between people and the depth of the fate is basically determined. You should have a general idea in each specific situation and don't force anyone. Third, don't compete with God and follow his fate. You should remember that people cannot control their own destiny, but they can control their attitude towards destiny and calmly bear the inevitable encounter that falls on their head.

Keep away from external encounters To live in the world, one must learn to distance himself from his external encounters. This has two meanings. First, in the face of your external encounters, you should maintain your inner autonomy. People are often easily dominated by existing experiences, dragged by what has happened, and go to places they don't want to go. In fact, the existing experience may not determine the future direction. In most cases, people still have the freedom of choice. You must not give up this freedom, and your future direction largely depends on whether you can make good use of this freedom. Second, in the face of your external encounters, you should maintain inner peace. If the existing experience is serious enough and what has happened has hit you hard enough to completely change your future direction, accept it calmly. At this time, we must have a detached vision. People will die in the end. All misfortunes, blessings, gains and losses are passing by. We don't have to care too much. In short, if possible, be the master of fate and don't give in to it; If it is impossible, be the friend of fate and don't compete with it.

Don't die on a small thing If you focus all your attention on one thing, how small it is, it will be infinitely magnified, as if it were a big thing. Then, turn your eyes to see the various forms of the world, the changes of history and the vastness of the universe. If you look back at that matter, you will find how insignificant it is. Let your heart live in a wide world, and you won't die in a small thing. Sadly, so many people die in a small thing.

Thinking hurts the body. Think more and keep fit Thinking hurts the body, worrying, worrying and suffering about small things and trivia in daily life. This kind of situation accumulates over time because of frequent occurrence. In fact, it is the most likely to cause disease. On the contrary, people who have the habit and ability of thinking can face things in the world with a rational attitude and a broad mind. Instead of hurting their health, they can keep fit. Those who think about big problems, even if they think about suffering and death, such as Socrates and Buddha, are in good health.

Watch out for small things Thinking about big problems, even the terrible big problem of death, will not harm health. On the contrary, entanglement, worry and anger over small things are the most hurtful. People often resort to reason when facing major events, so they are relatively calm. On the contrary, it is easy to be irritated and angry by small things. The conclusion is: be alert to small things. In the face of small things, you should control your emotions.

Indirect self blame Self blame is the most painful. There is direct self resentment, because they know they have done something wrong and violated their wishes or principles, so they are angry with themselves and even look down on themselves. There are also indirect self resentments. In the final analysis, they are also self resentment, complaining about their incompetence or bad luck. Yes, you had bad luck, but did you become a bad luck? If you are angry, you are. But you can also have another attitude, which is to face it calmly. Whether you encounter bad luck or not is beyond your control. Whether you do it or not is within your control. A person who loves and respects himself will not complain about others. No one can really hurt his self-sufficiency.