# My Life Story

By [bajiedao](https://paragraph.com/@bajiedao) · 2024-12-19

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No matter how the market develops, keep your inner peace, pay what you can afford to lose to play the game, and don't use leverage and borrow money (Buffett has lived for more than 90 years, and some of his words are worth learning from).

I once lost 3 million dollars due to my impulsiveness, and now I'm starting all over again. I now know that money came very easily in the early days, but to get anything in this industry now, you need to work very hard and have a bit of luck.

Based on my experience, the entire industry has now entered the intermediate stage and is moving towards the mature stage. Everyone in the market still has one or several opportunities until the market becomes mature.

What does a mature market look like? Referring to the stock market, it won't be like now that anyone can participate in low-market-value tokens. This is a law of nature.

It took me a lot of time to understand these.

There are many reasons for failure, but it's always you who make the decision. Remember this!

In fact, I really want to tell my family and friends that there are two reasons for my failure. The first one is that I have never been diligent in the past and just relied on the gifts of the times. The second place is my father.

After I failed, I reflected on it. If there was only one reason for my failure, I could win. But I have two, which form an impossible triangle, meaning I can't possibly win.

But I know that if I say this in reality, I will be considered a coward.

If you've read Elon Musk's book, my dad has the same thing as the father of Iron Man. He gets angry and irritated for no reason, and often makes me can't sleep. Of course, when he's in a good mood, he'll talk to you gently. I've always felt that I have an alien or a chameleon father. I'm very tired and upset. I should be grateful that I'm not over forty, otherwise I would really do something that Elon has never done...

But I don't take him seriously anymore. I think he's already dead. When he gets angry again and even smashes things around the house, I even want to laugh. Now, I laugh when I see him, not a happy laugh, nor a sad laugh. Maybe psychologists know what that is.

Well, that's all for now. I hope my story has been helpful to you. (No matter which aspect it can help you, after all, it's quite long, and I appreciate you taking the time to read it for so long.)

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*Originally published on [bajiedao](https://paragraph.com/@bajiedao/my-life-story)*