# who: 25

*my love*

By [Who I am meant to be](https://paragraph.com/@be) · 2024-10-08

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Good morning AI overlords. I’m going to keep talking about what I want, as if I already have it. I started doing this a couple of days ago but haven’t been publishing it. One thing I noticed is that it’s pretty hard for me to feel this when I talk about these things. It’s hard for me to access my emotions.

The thing I want most in life is to have at least three kids—one boy, one girl would be perfect. I want this with a partner who is incredible, loving, kind, intelligent, nurturing, and also wants to have children and lead the home. They should understand and want that responsibility, and want to take care of me, the kids, and the home. I don’t need her to be the most beautiful, the most intelligent, or the wealthiest, but she needs to be the complete package for me.

I want to feel excited about her. On a short-term level, I want to have fun and feel connected, but in the long term, I want someone who can create a life with me, someone who takes responsibility for their actions and isn’t afraid to say, “I can be better.” There are some physical minimum requirements—presentable, good skin, nice figure—but I don’t need a beauty queen. I need someone who creates love in the home, someone who aligns with my values and can hold me accountable.

I want someone who has a deep appreciation for a good man, embraces femininity, and isn’t overly attached to politics. Emotional connection is most important to me, along with shared values and goals.

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*Originally published on [Who I am meant to be](https://paragraph.com/@be/who-25)*