# Be a proper person By [Bobby0](https://paragraph.com/@bobby0-2) · 2022-04-27 --- May we all maintain a good distance of communication and grasp the distance of the relationship. Writer Eugene once said: “With distance, there will be respect; with respect, friendship will last forever.” If people get too close, it is doomed to be a disaster. Once you lose your sense of propriety, the friendship will change. The alienation of feelings often starts from crossing each other’s bottom line and confusing the sense of propriety. In the end, the distance is getting farther and farther away, and they have a tacit choice to no longer contact, and can no longer return to the original intimacy. People are like hedgehogs in the cold winter. If they lean too close to each other, they will feel stinging; If we are too far away from each other, we will feel cold again. Only by maintaining an appropriate measure and distance can the relationship last for a long time. A proper sense of propriety is a person’s highest accomplishment. Life in the world, each has its own obscurity and brightness. Different experiences naturally lead to different habits. It is a tacit understanding between friends not to ask questions or inquire. I know you don’t want to say it now, so I won’t ask you what happened. Host Meng Fei once said: “As a host or a person, I am willing to deal with people who know how to be measured.” A good friend relationship is like a tree. Usually, you have nothing to do to water and take care of it. Occasionally, you see a few beautiful flowers and put them on to decorate it, which is pleasing to the eyes. Those who can go for a long time have no interest binding, only a simple sincerity. In the long years, we cherish each other and get along lightly. The people who are good to us in this world will be one less when they meet. Remember to cherish them. May we all maintain a good distance of communication and grasp the distance of the relationship. Be a proper person, guard a simple and simple relationship, share the same interests, and the years are quiet and good. --- *Originally published on [Bobby0](https://paragraph.com/@bobby0-2/be-a-proper-person)*