# No money, no background, no ability, how to counter attack? By [D](https://paragraph.com/@d-3) ยท 2022-05-12 --- Most people have only one confusion and problem: I have no money, no background, no ability and no resources. What should an out and out ordinary person do to change the current situation? This is one of the issues that we are most concerned about. I would like to share my views on this. 1. Don't complain about your origin, don't give up hope First of all, I hope you have the following three points: 2. Don't complain about your origin, because you can't change it; 2. Not the richer, the happier; 3. Don't give up hope. The moment you give up, life will be sentenced to death. A person who is always complaining and full of hostility basically has no possibility of going up. First of all, from their own point of view, such people tend to have poor self-improvement ability. He may work hard because he wants to live, but he can't take the initiative to learn and add value to himself, because he has already given up his life. He always thinks that the world is unfair and full of malice. If others live well, they don't rely on their own efforts, but have a good life. Secondly, from the outside, such people will miss a lot of opportunities. No one likes to make friends with a person who is full of negative energy and doesn't like everything, so it's hard for such a person to get valuable help from others. Many times, the reality is like this. The more you complain, the narrower the road is, and the more no one is willing to help you. Therefore, as an ordinary person, don't always complain that you don't have a prominent background and a solid family. It's difficult for you to move forward and for others to approach you. Moreover, such a life is destined to be a chicken feather. Even if you earn money, you will have a bad life. That's why I hope you understand: money can bring happiness, but not money, you will be happy. Facing the current situation and life with a more gentle and positive attitude, without complaining or giving up, this is the ability that all ordinary people should have and do. 3. Don't want to get rich overnight. Be down-to-earth You can go to the lottery site. Most of the people who buy lottery tickets are not rich. I say most. If you don't believe it, go and have a look. Why do people with little money buy lottery tickets? I once said in my article that buying lottery tickets is the dream of the poor to make a fortune. The more money they have, the easier they are to dream of becoming rich overnight. Does the world get rich overnight? Of course, there are, and there are many. Some people have a good life, such as demolition. Some people are bold and sharp eyed, such as bitcoin, real estate speculation, and even some online celebrities. In just a year or two, they buy villas, change luxury cars, and change objects In fact, these can be regarded as getting rich overnight, but you can't ignore two points: 4. These sudden riches are often accumulated. For example, you have to have a house before you can be demolished; If you want to become a net celebrity, you have to have some conditions, such as talent, appearance value, etc. These are accumulation. Someone asked how to accumulate appearance value. If your parents can't give it, then use the knife. 5. Don't be superstitious about individual cases, but have self-awareness. Many people especially like to talk about cases with few samples, which is actually understandable, because it gives him hope. People often only accept what they are willing to accept. But objectively speaking, there are ways to make big money quickly, but the risk is often high. Don't always see those who get ashore and ignore those who fall. If a person always wants to make a lot of money quickly and change his life in an instant, he is easy to be cheated, such as MLM. Isn't that using everyone's psychology? You must have self-awareness, know what you are suitable for and what you can do, and be more serious. Don't think of becoming a Golden Phoenix at once. You should be down-to-earth. 6. Do what you can and redouble your efforts On the second basis, I hope you can do what you can. Although there is a saying that barefoot is not afraid of wearing shoes, for ordinary people, you should minimize the risk, because you can't stand blind tossing. Ordinary people and rich people have different ways. For example, entrepreneurship has been the slogan of national entrepreneurship for many years. Many ordinary people also have entrepreneurial dreams. In their view, entrepreneurship is the best way to change their life. I have heard many readers express their thoughts in this regard. Of course, I agree with you to work hard, but I don't want to gamble at the cost of overdraft for the rest of your life. The rich second generation can spend 1 million as tuition fees. If they have this capital, they will lose it. But you can't. The more ordinary people are, the more cautious they should be. I'm not saying that ordinary people don't start a business, but warn you to be more cautious, work harder and more down-to-earth. Start small, accumulate slowly and do it step by step. Those who preach that they should make a lot of money and put all their eggs in one basket. They are either liars or stand and talk without backache. My suggestion is that you can choose some projects that cost less, rely on technology, knowledge and talent. If you don't have technology and ability, learn and improve. Some people say that I have no culture and can't learn. Then sell your physical strength. Making money by physical strength doesn't mean you have no promise or future. Be careful, be diligent and have a good mind. You also have the opportunity to make a big move. 7. Stay away from negative circles and meet good people Fourth, I suggest you stay away from negative circles. For example, people who often call you to play cards and gamble, often pull you out to drink and complain about the boring life I'm not teaching you to be snobbish and not play with your friends, but I hope you won't be influenced by the social circle as much as possible. I mentioned the impact of negative circles many times in my previous article, so I won't repeat it today. In short, if you want to change the current situation, become better and live better, you have to take off the skin, stand loneliness, stand loneliness, don't fool around, don't be dead, don't look shallow, so you must stay away from the negative circle. On the contrary, you should get close to people who are better than you, get close to some excellent and positive circles, and get in touch with more people and things that are valuable to your growth and progress. Yes, I suggest you mix circles and build contacts. Influenced by some articles, many people think it's ineffective to socialize when they hear about mixing circles. In fact, mixing circles is nothing bad, and it often plays a decisive role in the transformation of your life. The key is to see how you mix and who you mix with. This is also the last point I want to make: don't deny anything completely. You should see the positive side and valuable things, instead of wasting time and energy on nitpicking and bullshit. Such people are difficult to see opportunities, seize opportunities, grow up and move up. We live in a good era. We no longer lack food and clothing. Food and clothing can basically be solved; We live in a very bad era. Competition is too fierce, pressure is too great, and the gap between the rich and the poor is too wide. In fact, no matter what era, there will always be problems and pain, and the best way to solve all problems is to work hard and have fun in pain! If you can do this, your life will shine! --- *Originally published on [D](https://paragraph.com/@d-3/no-money-no-background-no-ability-how-to-counter-attack)*