# One Comment to Destroy a Lifetime of Trust

**Published by:** [Durwin](https://paragraph.com/@durwin/)
**Published on:** 2023-11-08
**URL:** https://paragraph.com/@durwin/one-comment-to-destroy-a-lifetime-of-trust

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Trust takes a lifetime to build and just a few seconds to tear down.Heard of Web Summit? It’s just one of the largest, most prominent and successful tech conferences in the world. Every tech bro, startup founder, innovation folk or government wants to attend it at least once in their life. A place where tech moguls and startups gather to discuss the future, network, and maybe even change the world. It is run by Paddy Cosgrove. Ah, Paddy, the man behind Web Summit, a tech conference that’s basically the Coachella for techies and founders. Then from absolutely nowhere, came the tweet. Paddy made 1 comment on Israel that set the internet ablaze. Suddenly, Cosgrave was the villain du jour, and Web Summit? Well, let’s just say it’s not that hot anymore.Web Summit has always been the top-tier tech conference for decades, with powerful speakers and awesome line-ups.Every major sponsor and supporter started pulling out and tearing down Paddy’s beloved Web Summit. Amazon, Google, facebook, Intel and Siemens are amongst the few who wanted to withdraw support. Dozens of prominent tech luminaries started chiding Paddy and asking for a boycott. So what did Paddy say? “War crimes are war crimes even when committed by allies, and should be called out for what they are,” he wrote, referencing Israel’s decision to cut water and electricity supplies to Gaza and its warning to 1 million residents of northern Gaza to evacuate their homes. He made a comment about Israel and Hamas that many found insensitive. The fallout was immediate.Patrick Cosgrave is an Irish entrepreneur. He is a co-founder of Web Summit, an annual technology conference.Co-founders called for his resignation, and he eventually stepped down. Tech companies boycotted the event, and the man who was once a tech conference rockstar found himself in the eye of a very public storm. Was it fair? One tweet and the man’s entire career is in shambles. Should we be more forgiving? Are we meant to be so cruel? After all, everyone makes mistakes. Shouldn’t he have a chance to clarify at least? So learn one vital thing: words matter. Especially when you’re in the public eye. One wrong move and you’re toast.Web Summit is the Tomorrowland of Tech conferences! Beautiful, engaging and everyone is there!No re-dos, no second chances and no love. Best you can do is own up, own it and move on. Should we be more open and tolerant? Sure, but with caveats. There are topics that are just too sensitive to touch, especially when you have a platform as big as Web Summit. Founders, take note: your words have power, and they can either make you or break you. “Web Summit is 81 per cent owned by Mr Cosgrave, according to accounts filed last year. They show that the event organiser made a profit of €3.8 million after tax in 2021, on a turnover of €31.8 million.” No sure how it will go for them this year and what the future will look like. But more likely, they will have to spend the next few years rebuilding image and branding. Arduous and slow, but necessary.Are large conferences coming back after the pandemic?So how should one approach sensitive topics? With tact, sensitivity, and a whole lot of reservation. Never shoot from the hip or tweet when you are “feeling it”. And are there topics one should never discuss openly? Absolutely. Some conversations are best left for private discussions, away from the prying eyes of social media. The world isn’t as forgiving as you might think. In the end, it’s a lesson for all of us. Your words are powerful weapons. They can build empires or destroy lives. So choose them carefully. It might be time to rethink how we judge people based on a single comment too. - Have you been to Web Summit before? - #PaddyCosgrave #WebSummit #PublicFigures #SocialMedia #CancelCulture #TechIndustry #SensitiveTopics #WordsMatter #ThinkBeforeYouTweet #PublicOpinion #CareerFallout #Tolerance #Judgment #Boycott #Accountability

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