# "self" obsession **Published by:** [DuZhe888](https://paragraph.com/@duzhe888/) **Published on:** 2024-11-30 **URL:** https://paragraph.com/@duzhe888/self-obsession ## Content If we repeatedly feel pain about things that we cannot change, it means that we have fallen into a kind of "self" obsession or "self" obsession. In other words, it is not the other person that makes us suffer, but our obsession. This obsession is called "I can change others." ## Publication Information - [DuZhe888](https://paragraph.com/@duzhe888/): Publication homepage - [All Posts](https://paragraph.com/@duzhe888/): More posts from this publication - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@duzhe888): Subscribe to updates ## Optional - [Collect as NFT](https://paragraph.com/@duzhe888/self-obsession): Support the author by collecting this post - [View Collectors](https://paragraph.com/@duzhe888/self-obsession/collectors): See who has collected this post