# Early life By [herber8848](https://paragraph.com/@herber8848) · 2021-10-29 --- Cher was born Cherilyn Sarkisian in [El Centro, California](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/El_Centro,_California), on May 20, 1946.[\[2\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200117-2) Her father, John Sarkisian, was an [Armenian-American](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Armenian_Americans) truck driver with drug and gambling problems; her mother, [Georgia Holt](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Georgia_Holt) (born Jackie Jean Crouch), was an occasional model and bit-part actress who claims Irish, English, German, and [Cherokee](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cherokee) ancestry.[\[3\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-3)[\[4\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-4) Cher's father was rarely home when she was an infant,[\[5\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEParishPitts2003147-5) and her parents divorced when Cher was ten months old.[\[2\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200117-2) Her mother later married actor John Southall, with whom she had another daughter, Georganne, Cher's half-sister.[\[6\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200117%E2%80%9318-6) Now living in [Los Angeles](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Los_Angeles), Cher's mother began acting while working as a waitress. She changed her name to Georgia Holt and played minor roles in films and on television. Holt also secured acting parts for her daughters as [extras](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extra_\(actor\)) on television shows like [_The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet_](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Adventures_of_Ozzie_and_Harriet).[\[5\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEParishPitts2003147-5) Her mother's relationship with Southall ended when Cher was nine years old, but she considers him her father and remembers him as a "good-natured man who turned belligerent when he drank too much".[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200118-7) Holt remarried and divorced several more times, and she moved her family around the country (including New York, Texas, and California).[\[5\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEParishPitts2003147-5) They often had little money, and Cher recounted having had to use rubber bands to hold her shoes together.[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200118-7) At one point, her mother left Cher at an orphanage for several weeks.[\[8\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBego200110-8) Although they met every day, both found the experience traumatic.[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200118-7) When Cher was in fifth grade, she produced a performance of the musical [_Oklahoma!_](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oklahoma!) for her teacher and class. She organized a group of girls, directing and choreographing their dance routines. Unable to convince boys to participate, she acted the male roles and sang their songs. By age nine, she had developed an unusually low voice.[\[9\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTECherCoplon199839-9) Fascinated by film stars, Cher's role model was [Audrey Hepburn](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Audrey_Hepburn), particularly due to her role in the 1961 film [_Breakfast at Tiffany's_](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breakfast_at_Tiffany%27s_\(film\)). Cher began to take after the unconventional outfits and behavior of Hepburn's character.[\[10\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200122-10) She was also inspired by [Marlene Dietrich](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marlene_Dietrich), [Bette Davis](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bette_Davis), and [Katharine Hepburn](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katharine_Hepburn).[\[11\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-11) She was disappointed by the absence of dark-haired Hollywood actresses whom she could emulate.[\[10\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200122-10) She had wanted to be famous since childhood but felt unattractive and untalented, later commenting, "I couldn't think of anything that I could do ... I didn't think I'd be a singer or dancer. I just thought, well, I'll be famous. That was my goal."[\[12\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200121-12) In 1961, Holt married bank manager Gilbert LaPiere, who adopted Cher (under the name Cheryl LaPiere)[\[13\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-13) and Georganne, and enrolled them at [Montclair College Preparatory School](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Montclair_College_Preparatory_School), a private school in [Encino](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Encino,_Los_Angeles), whose students were mostly from affluent families. The school's upper-class environment presented a challenge for Cher; biographer Connie Berman wrote, "\[she\] stood out from the others in both her striking appearance and outgoing personality."[\[12\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200121-12) A former classmate commented, "I'll never forget seeing Cher for the first time. She was so special ... She was like a movie star, right then and there ... She said she was going to be a movie star and we knew she would."[\[12\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200121-12) Despite not being an excellent student, Cher was intelligent and creative, according to Berman. She earned high grades, excelling in French and English classes. As an adult, she discovered that she had [dyslexia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyslexia). Cher's unconventional behavior stood out: she performed songs for students during the lunch hours and surprised peers when she wore a midriff-baring top.[\[10\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cher#cite_note-FOOTNOTEBerman200122-10) She later recalled, "I was never really in school. I was always thinking about when I was grown up and famous. --- *Originally published on [herber8848](https://paragraph.com/@herber8848/early-life)*