July/August 2026 - OH DEAR, kinda gutted this paragraph has gone VERY glitchy since the full AI implemented.... and the upgrade is overpriced for a new venture... so no new posts from me unless it improves. Have a read ... then find me here: The London Sex Coach: www.thelondonsexcoachonline.net and: IAmMattVC Alchemy: www.iammattvc.com BIO: The London Sex Coach delivers qualified, dynamic, and no-nonsense insights breaking down the raw, uncensored truths of sex, kink, relationships, and societal exclusion.https://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/https://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/lets-talk-about-draghttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/lets-talk-about-dragAn Opinion That Shouldn't Be Controversial Sun, 19 Jul 2026 19:33:44 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-toxic-world-of-sex-work-activism-how-infighting-is-destroying-the-causehttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-toxic-world-of-sex-work-activism-how-infighting-is-destroying-the-causeA single comment reminded me why online spaces in our community can be so draining.Thu, 18 Jun 2026 19:34:28 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-agendahttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-agendaWhy the growing backlash isn’t against the gay community itself, but the hidden agendas that hijacked it.Fri, 12 Jun 2026 18:10:01 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-projection-of-ushttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-projection-of-usWhen subcultures move from the margins to mainstream representation, who gets left behind?Wed, 10 Jun 2026 17:22:54 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/lets-talk-about-misandryhttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/lets-talk-about-misandryMoving Beyond the PC Minefield and Saving Men’s Mental Health.Fri, 29 May 2026 22:14:00 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-complexity-of-the-lifestyle-and-open-relationshipshttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/the-complexity-of-the-lifestyle-and-open-relationshipsTelling It Like It Is.... Is Ruthless But Cathartic (and safer). Fri, 29 May 2026 20:21:59 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/can-you-save-my-marriagehttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/can-you-save-my-marriageWhen clients ask if I can save their marriage, the honest answer is usually 'probably not' — and why telling them straight is the kindest thing I do.Thu, 28 May 2026 22:12:00 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/sex-work-a-valued-professionhttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/sex-work-a-valued-professionFrom Stigma In The Therapy Room - To Being Heard.Thu, 28 May 2026 16:39:58 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/when-the-people-who-help-are-as-deluded-as-youhttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/when-the-people-who-help-are-as-deluded-as-youWhen "community" becomes a dangerous echo chamber - and why your healthcare provider might be projecting their own life onto yoursWed, 20 May 2026 23:00:00 GMThttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/what-gay-men-breed-instead-of-babies-this-is-darkhttps://paragraph.com/@iammattvcalchemy/posts/what-gay-men-breed-instead-of-babies-this-is-darkIf you are a ‘sex-positive’ kinkster, a gay man who cruises, or a guy on PrEP having a jolly time — you might hate this. You might even hate me.Thu, 14 May 2026 23:00:00 GMT