# Offensive Orientation

By [jer979](https://paragraph.com/@jer979-2) · 2025-07-08

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Most of my life, I’ve focused entirely on how others have, or might, offend me.

That was a flaw.

The focus should be on how I might offend others.

And not taking offense at anything myself.

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*Originally published on [jer979](https://paragraph.com/@jer979-2/offensive-orientation)*