# Suffering's Source **Published by:** [jer979](https://paragraph.com/@jer979-2/) **Published on:** 2025-10-24 **URL:** https://paragraph.com/@jer979-2/suffering-s-source ## Content That thing I want which can only be given to me by someone else, but I don’t get? The pain of rejection isn’t caused by them. The injury that sidelines me from my exercise routine? The pain of non-participation isn’t caused by it. The uncertainty about what is the right decision? The fear isn’t caused by the choice. All of them are caused by me. And me alone. I am the source of the pain, the fear. The water flows from the well, bubbling forth from a spring. I can use it to drown myself. Or I can use it to wash myself. I can use it to destroy the seedlings. Or I can use it to nourish them. What do I do at the source, with the source? That will determine the flow of the stream. ## Publication Information - [jer979](https://paragraph.com/@jer979-2/): Publication homepage - [All Posts](https://paragraph.com/@jer979-2/): More posts from this publication - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@jer979-2): Subscribe to updates - [Twitter](https://twitter.com/jer979): Follow on Twitter