# Shamed **Published by:** [the night shift](https://paragraph.com/@the-night-shift/) **Published on:** 2022-08-04 **URL:** https://paragraph.com/@the-night-shift/shamed ## Content For looking too thin For looking too fat For caring about how you look For not caring about how you look For being too feminine For not being feminine enough For being a slut For not being slutty enough For being confident For being meek For menstruating For not being able to menstruate For wanting an abortion For keeping a child For being a single mom For not wanting to be a mom For not being enough of a mom For not giving birth vaginally For wanting pain relief For not ‘snapping back’ For breastfeeding in public For not being able to breastfeed For not wanting to breastfeed For sending your child to daycare For having to return to work For wanting to return to work For not wanting to return to work For wanting to be a stay at home mom For not earning enough For wanting time to yourself For making time for yourself For doing it all alone For not being able to do it all For falling apart For asking for help For wanting to run away from it all For advocating for yourself For speaking up For speaking out For being bold For being fearless For not giving a fuck . Shamed But not ashamed For owning your power For being a woman ## Publication Information - [the night shift](https://paragraph.com/@the-night-shift/): Publication homepage - [All Posts](https://paragraph.com/@the-night-shift/): More posts from this publication - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@the-night-shift): Subscribe to updates - [Twitter](https://twitter.com/ayvak_namar): Follow on Twitter