# Year of the ZAO - Day 209 > Expressing Love Means Speaking From Self-Respect **Published by:** [The ZAO Newsletter](https://paragraph.com/@thezao/) **Published on:** 2025-07-28 **URL:** https://paragraph.com/@thezao/year-of-the-zao-day-209 ## Content /imageToday’s card pulled me back to something simple and true: “Be impeccable with your word.” Not just in what we say to others — but in what we say to ourselves. The deeper message on the back hits even harder: your words reflect how much you love yourself. That’s wild when you think about it. Most people treat language like a throwaway. But words shape reality. When they come from a place of love — not performance, not protection — they ripple outward. And that ripple shifts culture. So if the energy you’re putting out feels off, it might be time to check in with what you’re telling yourself. Start there. The rest follows. We’ll be gathering for our weekly ZAO Fractal today at 6 PM EST. If you want to show up, share space, and speak from truth — you’re more than welcome. – BetterCallZaal on behalf of the ZAO Team ## Publication Information - [The ZAO Newsletter](https://paragraph.com/@thezao/): Publication homepage - [All Posts](https://paragraph.com/@thezao/): More posts from this publication - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@thezao): Subscribe to updates - [Twitter](https://twitter.com/https://twitter.com/bettercallzaal): Follow on Twitter - [Farcaster](https://farcaster.xyz/zaal): Follow on Farcaster