# Year of the ZAO - Day 247 > Letters across distance, lessons in gratitude **Published by:** [The ZAO Newsletter](https://paragraph.com/@thezao/) **Published on:** 2025-09-04 **URL:** https://paragraph.com/@thezao/year-of-the-zao-day-247 ## Content Today I read a lesson from Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff about adopting a child through the mail. Not an actual adoption, but a way of supporting a child and building a pen pal relationship at the same time. The author described how much joy it brought his family, especially his daughter, who traded letters and drawings with another child. What struck me was how interactive giving became in this story. Most donations feel one-sided. You give, and you never know where the help goes. In this case, the act of giving was tied to an ongoing exchange, which made the gratitude on both sides tangible. It reminds me of supporting artists in Web3. The relationship feels much more interactive than in traditional models. You don’t only send support into the void. You often get updates, conversations, shared progress, or even direct collaboration. The value is carried in the relationship as much as the contribution. That same spirit shows up in the ZAO community. The strongest moments often come not from big announcements but from the quieter exchanges. A quick check-in, a thoughtful reply, a shared work in progress. Like pen pals, those interactions keep the thread alive. – BetterCallZaal on behalf of the ZAO Team ## Publication Information - [The ZAO Newsletter](https://paragraph.com/@thezao/): Publication homepage - [All Posts](https://paragraph.com/@thezao/): More posts from this publication - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@thezao): Subscribe to updates - [Twitter](https://twitter.com/https://twitter.com/bettercallzaal): Follow on Twitter - [Farcaster](https://farcaster.xyz/zaal): Follow on Farcaster