# When we are infatuated with someone

By [tsaml](https://paragraph.com/@tsaml) · 2026-01-20

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When we are infatuated with someone, we may also love the other person excessively and ignore our own feelings and needs. Because you think he is your ideal and you definitely can't miss him. I once met a girl who said, "My boyfriend is willing to fight and risk his life for me. I love him very much and am willing to do anything for him!" I said to her, "A person who is good at or often uses violence to solve problems has such a personality. Now, he can fight for you against others. When conflicts arise between you two in the future, he may hit you. What attracts you now may make you suffer for him in the future."

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