# It's simple to distinguish

By [tsaml](https://paragraph.com/@tsaml) · 2025-12-03

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It's simple to distinguish whether you love others excessively. Just check whether you are suppressing yourself and neglecting your own needs when being kind to others. For example, if your taste is clearly different from that of your boyfriend, yet you always only cook the dishes he likes, this is loving others excessively.

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