# zihongren ## Recent Posts - [When shepherds quarrel, the wolf has a winning game. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/when-shepherds-quarrel-the-wolf-has-a-winning-game) - [When there’s no expectation, losing won’t bring hurt, gaining makes you surprised. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/when-there-s-no-expectation-losing-won-t-bring-hurt-gaining-makes-you-surprised) - [If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/if-your-happiness-depends-on-what-somebody-else-does-i-guess-you-do-have-a-problem) - [Look into my eyes you will see what you mean to me. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/look-into-my-eyes-you-will-see-what-you-mean-to-me-2) - [At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/at-the-touch-of-love-everyone-becomes-a-poet) - [Within you I lose myself, without you I find myself wanting to be lost again. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/within-you-i-lose-myself-without-you-i-find-myself-wanting-to-be-lost-again) - [Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/love-is-like-the-moon-when-it-does-not-increase-it-decreases-2) - [When love is not madness, it is not love. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/when-love-is-not-madness-it-is-not-love) - [There is no remedy for love but to love more. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/there-is-no-remedy-for-love-but-to-love-more) - [Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/today-give-a-stranger-one-of-your-smiles-it-might-be-the-only-sunshine-he-sees-all-day) - [You can’t have a better tomorrow if you don’t stop thinking about yesterday. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/you-can-t-have-a-better-tomorrow-if-you-don-t-stop-thinking-about-yesterday) - [A relationship should be between two people, not the whole world. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/a-relationship-should-be-between-two-people-not-the-whole-world) - [How much truth of heart in one’s life is told in a joke? ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/how-much-truth-of-heart-in-one-s-life-is-told-in-a-joke) - [Sometimes your plans don’t work out because God has better ones. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/sometimes-your-plans-don-t-work-out-because-god-has-better-ones) - [He who commences many things finishes but a few.](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/he-who-commences-many-things-finishes-but-a-few) - [Birds of a feather flock together.](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/birds-of-a-feather-flock-together) - [The greater the man, the more restrained his anger.](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/the-greater-the-man-the-more-restrained-his-anger) - [The more you care, the more you have to lose. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/the-more-you-care-the-more-you-have-to-lose) - [Wisdom in the mind is better than money in the hand. ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/wisdom-in-the-mind-is-better-than-money-in-the-hand) - [To see a world in a grain of sand. And a heaven in a wild flower ](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/to-see-a-world-in-a-grain-of-sand-and-a-heaven-in-a-wild-flower) ## Blog Information - [Homepage](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/): Main blog page - [RSS Feed](https://api.paragraph.com/blogs/rss/@zihongren): Subscribe to updates - [Twitter](https://twitter.com/zihongren): Follow on Twitter ## Optional - [All Posts](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/): Complete post archive - [Sitemap](https://paragraph.com/@zihongren/sitemap-index.xml): XML sitemap for crawlers