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            <title><![CDATA[How can parents cope with the anxiety of small friends?]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2023 04:19:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[How can the British education doctrine be used to deal with anxiety for small children? In English classes, we are often experiencing anxiety among young children. Some are due to anxiety about some disciplines (e.g. mathematics, haha~~~) and some are disturbed by learning. The reasons can be very large, but the solution to the problem is really the same. This time, I wanted to share the British doctrine of education and then deal with anxiety in the home for children. 01 3 different states F...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can the British education doctrine be used to deal with anxiety for small children?</p><p>In English classes, we are often experiencing anxiety among young children.</p><p>Some are due to anxiety about some disciplines (e.g. mathematics, haha~~~) and some are disturbed by learning. The reasons can be very large, but the solution to the problem is really the same.</p><p>This time, I wanted to share the British doctrine of education and then deal with anxiety in the home for children.</p><p>01 3 different states</p><p>For example, what is you able to do when a small child needs school weights, some of the students are facing the throes immediately after hearing, and what they feel horrific, how do they learn and not want to try, when you can do? What do you follow?</p><p>1 If we are afraid, we do not go to school.</p><p>2 You now listen to me!</p><p>3 There is no business in hard-headings.</p><p>The education doctrine considers these three types of words to lead small friends to enter three different situations in the face of fear and to be harmful and unhelpful in overcoming difficulties.</p><p>Let me explain in detail below.</p><p>02 If feared, let us not go to school.</p><p>The first type of response, for example, “when fear is not going to go to school”, may induce small friends to enter a state of intense escape.</p><p>Many parents do not hesitate to see young children face major pressures in various disciplines and sometimes call them directly out of work to escape this problem.</p><p>Indeed, in the minds of their small children, they may lose because they have missed these learning opportunities and feel that their capacity is problematic.</p><p>This approach seems to have made it possible for a small child to face anxiety at the moment, but at the same time to lose the opportunity to experience fresh things.</p><p>And once it has become the custom of such a response, everything that has escaped will be more and more, life circles will be less and self-confident.</p><p>03 You now listen to me! Focused learning!</p><p>The second response, which ignores the fear of small friends, demands that small friends learn immediately, leading to a state of emotional distress.</p><p>If the parents ignore the fear of the child and use coercive methods, he may be screaming or intimidated.</p><p>In this state, he has been shattered by emotions, utterly lost reason, rendered uncommunicationable, and any reason and comfort cannot be heard, let alone learn from success.</p><p>It is believed that parents are not strangers. How effective? There are a few thoughts.</p><p>Pure, unworkable</p><p>Is it useful only for a small child to be called with a hard head?</p><p>The third type of response has the potential to get small friends into the state of death, and some children may be forced to stay in the head under pressure from others.</p><p>It appears that they have been successful in achieving their goals, but they are simply embarrassing their own fears.</p><p>At a later stage when he was going to learn, he naturally thought to be tortured, rather than feeling that learning could be interesting and happy.</p><p>What can parents do?</p><p>Their critical points are to be found in order to truly help their children.</p><p>What are the critical points? I give you an example.</p><p>A singer is a critical point if it is able to call a high sound without harming the sound.</p><p>When a soccer competes, this state is a critical point if the physical capacity and speed are to be stretched out, but it is not lost to its own muscle.</p><p>If the threshold of the children can be found, they can be assisted in putting and accepting fear on the threshold. This is the ideal state.</p><p>Everyone has a psychological threshold for what he fears and is a safe and dangerous cross.</p><p>When a child has been pushed to that point, it will be a state of emotional control, but it will enter a state of vigour if he is returned to the safe zone.</p><p>On the threshold, the child, while less feared, was not enough to get him out of control, and he was still able to take a small step forward.</p><p>Parents need to help their children feel positively, helping them stay in a critical mass, slowing down and dealing with their own fears, thus gradually reaching the target.</p><p>It is worth noting that a child may take a long time to stir up with courage, at which time parents are lighter in pushing the child forward to maintain ties with the child, giving the child sufficient comfort and safety.</p><p>I give you another example.</p><p>For example, children do not dare to jump into swimming pools when they learn water.</p><p>We can watch the children’s hands and shoulder to him, saying that “I feel that you are afraid, indeed, afraid. I will remain with you until you are ready.”</p><p>On the way to fear, small friends can stop down deep breathing but are ready to take the next step forward courageously and not stagnant in the place of origin.</p><p>This is the best way to deal with the fear and anxiety of small children.</p><p>Concluding remarks</p><p>People are always living with emotions, and small friends have lost control and escapes and are not necessarily bad.</p><p>There are enormous challenges and pressures on young adults.</p><p>Pressure is not dreadful, but sometimes helps growth.</p><p>The most horrific thing is that children do not have the appropriate help at a critical juncture, miss the opportunity to overcome fear and vehement and constrains their ability to achieve their goals.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The third new section of the Spokesman 3 is available in Chinese! November]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 21 May 2023 08:39:29 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[The official announcement today (11 October) of the canteens is that three sections of the jet fighters 3 will be launched: the fish ring (blue), the trout (blow) and small fish. The three paragraphs,amiibo, will be officially sold on 11 November. Each of the three new paragraphs, known as amiibo, is sold at S$ 4290 (approximately S$212) and at S$ 16990 (approximately S$838). The Spokesman 3 is now officially landed on the Switch platform, and it is officially indicated that it will continue ...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The official announcement today (11 October) of the canteens is that three sections of the jet fighters 3 will be launched: the fish ring (blue), the trout (blow) and small fish. The three paragraphs,amiibo, will be officially sold on 11 November.</p><p>Each of the three new paragraphs, known as amiibo, is sold at S$ 4290 (approximately S$212) and at S$ 16990 (approximately S$838).</p><p>The Spokesman 3 is now officially landed on the Switch platform, and it is officially indicated that it will continue to be updated, including new weapons and maps. The special ritual event of the play in cooperation with the “Viet Namables” series will also be sold on 12 November to celebrate the “Dominines: Ju/UV”, which will be sold on 18 November.</p><p>New wave declaration: the posting of this text on the new wave does not imply approval of its views or confirmation of its description for the purpose of communicating additional information.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[How hot is five holidays going? Two hundred and twenty-two thousand tickets were sold for three days at the Palais des Nations]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 10 May 2023 09:10:01 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[On 17 April, upstream journalists learned from the Day train station that 220,000 tickets had been sold for five days this year, and that a peak of 29 April was expected. This year, the “51” labour holidays are scheduled for five days from 29 April ( Saturday) to Wednesday, 3 May. Working on Sunday, 23 April, and Saturday, 6 May. On 15 April, passengers were able to purchase tickets for the first day of five days (29 April) through the railroad 12306 site, the railway 12306APP, based on the p...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On 17 April, upstream journalists learned from the Day train station that 220,000 tickets had been sold for five days this year, and that a peak of 29 April was expected.</p><p>This year, the “51” labour holidays are scheduled for five days from 29 April ( Saturday) to Wednesday, 3 May. Working on Sunday, 23 April, and Saturday, 6 May.</p><p>On 15 April, passengers were able to purchase tickets for the first day of five days (29 April) through the railroad 12306 site, the railway 12306APP, based on the pre-sales period for railway tickets. The last day of the leave (3 May) is the sale of the trip ticket on 19 April (week III).</p><p>According to the Officer-in-Charge of the Day train station, as of 29 April, more than 12,000 tickets had been sold, over 60,000 tickets were sold on 30 days, more than 30,000 tickets were sold on 1 May, 220,000 tickets were sold, and a peak of 29 April was expected.</p><p>From the current sales of tickets, the most hot doors were found in the old, velayats, rocks, valours, etc., with the largest distances in Kunming, Siem, Khan and Beijing.</p><p>In order to ensure passenger holidays, heavy train stations will increase their transport capacity on the basis of actual outflows, including through the addition of caravans, bus casings. At the same time, the bus station strengthens passenger-flow organizations, provides easy access to passenger posts, operates on-site and mobile lines, provides additional personnel at key locations, such as tickets, elevators, station stations, etc., provides guidance and security for service delivery, and implements inspection tickets and organizational measures such as precipitation organizations and radio campaigns.</p><p>The round train station reminds a large number of passengers that the daily tickets are relatively tight and that if the tickets are not purchased, the “alternative purchase” function is used and that, after a revocation or redundancy, the system will be purchased in the order of the platoon. Travellers are more concentrated during holidays and are required to carry valid identification documents used in purchase orders, check information on the date, time, station, bus, etc., advance arrival at the station, and allow sufficient time for the identification of valid tickets, entry check-ups, etc. in order to avoid delays in travel.</p><p>Upstream journalists</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Zhang Yuqi responded that the host read her name correctly]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 07 Apr 2022 10:26:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Zhang Yuqi took a group photo of the participants in the sketch in the oasis and responded that the host read her name correctly: “if you don’t read ‘octopus’, you can also call my real name - Zhang Xiujuan.” Sina entertainment news at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala on the evening of February 11, Zhang Yuqi [microblog] played Zhang Xiujuan in the sketch “happiness to spring”. The host read the “Qi” of his name into three tones at the press. Many netizens lamented that Zhang Yuqi’s name was fin...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zhang Yuqi took a group photo of the participants in the sketch in the oasis and responded that the host read her name correctly: “if you don’t read ‘octopus’, you can also call my real name - Zhang Xiujuan.”</p><p>Sina entertainment news at the CCTV Spring Festival Gala on the evening of February 11, Zhang Yuqi [microblog] played Zhang Xiujuan in the sketch “happiness to spring”. The host read the “Qi” of his name into three tones at the press. Many netizens lamented that Zhang Yuqi’s name was finally read correctly. On the 12th, Zhang Yuqi took a group photo of the participants in the sketch in Oasis and responded that her name had been read correctly. She said: “if you don’t read ‘Octopus up’, you can also call my real name - Zhang Xiujuan.”</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[On March 6, there were 7 newly confirmed cases in Changchun and 5 asymptomatic infections]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 11:39:40 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Bulletin of Changchun covid-19 on new crown pneumonia epidemic situation Covid-19, March 6th, 0-24 new cases of confirmed pneumonia were reported in Changchun, 7 cases were asymptomatic, and 5 cases were asymptomatic. 1 covid-19 confirmed cases were imported from overseas. Confirmed case 1: now living in group 6, Zhoujia village, hujiaxiang, Jiutai district. On March 1, I had dinner in liangzixiang, Changyi District, Jilin City. On March 6, the nucleic acid test was positive. On the same day,...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bulletin of Changchun covid-19 on new crown pneumonia epidemic situation</p><p>Covid-19, March 6th, 0-24 new cases of confirmed pneumonia were reported in Changchun, 7 cases were asymptomatic, and 5 cases were asymptomatic. 1 covid-19 confirmed cases were imported from overseas.</p><p>Confirmed case 1: now living in group 6, Zhoujia village, hujiaxiang, Jiutai district. On March 1, I had dinner in liangzixiang, Changyi District, Jilin City. On March 6, the nucleic acid test was positive. On the same day, I was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital and diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Confirmed case 2: now living in group 6, Zhoujia village, hujiaxiang, Jiutai district. She was the mother-in-law of confirmed case 1. She tested positive for nucleic acid on March 6 and was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on the same day. She was diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Confirmed case 3: now living in the old family building of No. 1 middle school in Jiutai district. It was an associated case of confirmed case 4 notified on March 6. It was tested positive for nucleic acid. It was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on March 6 and diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Confirmed case 4: now living in the family building of experimental school in Jiutai district. It was an associated case of confirmed case 4 notified on March 6. It was tested positive for nucleic acid. It was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on March 6 and diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Confirmed case 5: now living in the South Building of Jiutai District residential new area. It was an associated case of confirmed case 4 notified on March 6. It was tested positive for nucleic acid. It was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on March 6 and diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Confirmed case 6: now living in Xinhe community, Jiutai district. It was an associated case of confirmed case 4 notified on March 6. It was tested positive for nucleic acid. It was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on March 6 and diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Confirmed case 7: now living in Longfeng garden, Jiutai district. It was an associated case of confirmed case 4 notified on March 6. It was tested positive for nucleic acid. It was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on March 6 and diagnosed as a confirmed case.</p><p>Asymptomatic infected persons 1 and 2: now living in group 6, Zhoujia village, hujiaxiang, Jiutai district. On March 1, they went to liangliangzi Township, Changyi District, Jilin City. On March 6, they tested positive for nucleic acid and were transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital that day. They were determined to be asymptomatic infected.</p><p>Asymptomatic infected person 3: now living in group 4, Quanyan village, Longshan Township, Gongzhuling City, working in heiniufang hotpot shop, Songjiang Road, Chuanying District, Jilin City. On March 4, he returned to Gongzhuling City. On March 6, he tested positive for nucleic acid and was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital on the same day. He was determined to be asymptomatic infected.</p><p>Asymptomatic infected person 4: now living in the color steel room of Weifeng construction site, Yongshun Road, Jingyue district. On March 2, I drove with my friends from Jiutai district to Weifeng construction site, Yongshun Road, Jingyue district. On March 6, the nucleic acid test was positive. On the same day, I was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital and was determined to be asymptomatic infected.</p><p>Asymptomatic infected person 5: now living in golden Europe city, Lvyuan District. It was a close contact of asymptomatic infected people in Jilin City. The nucleic acid test was positive on March 6. On that day, it was transferred to Changchun infectious disease hospital and was determined to be asymptomatic infected.</p><p>The confirmed case imported from abroad was Chinese. On March 1, it entered Changchun by Asiana Airlines flight oz303 and was transferred to the centralized isolation point for isolation through closed-loop management. The nucleic acid test result was positive, and the diagnosis was confirmed. At present, it is being treated in isolation in designated medical institutions. Passengers on the same flight have been isolated at the centralized isolation point, and the nucleic acid test results are negative.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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