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            <title><![CDATA[19 May]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2023 03:17:41 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Four days later, the Beijing Winter Olympics, as was the case yesterday, remained silent. On 22 April, a master system was set up with artefacts, a land-corcheon guide, peace as head of the General Counsel and Expert Advisory Group, a screening of 19 May by the official film Beijing 2022 of the Beijing Winter Games, and slotting and posters. The prestigious situation of “lood occupants” in and around the stadium was revealed. In the face of serious difficulties and challenges, they are also o...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Four days later, the Beijing Winter Olympics, as was the case yesterday, remained silent. On 22 April, a master system was set up with artefacts, a land-corcheon guide, peace as head of the General Counsel and Expert Advisory Group, a screening of 19 May by the official film Beijing 2022 of the Beijing Winter Games, and slotting and posters.</p><p>The prestigious situation of “lood occupants” in and around the stadium was revealed. In the face of serious difficulties and challenges, they are also ordinary people, fearing, but they have never abandoned love.</p><p>The snow-fighted ice is a “valour” word, written in a dream, after the swelt of the flash winter. In the platoons of exposure, well-known sportsmen, scouts, chewings, thumbs, thumbs, plumes, etc., rarely find themselves in good faith in revealing the tense mindset that preceded the event. “I can no more?”, “I can no longer do it! When the achievements and glorifications on the stadium were unloaded, they were merely a “common man” who feared and shouted. Staff members outside the Committee are also faced with a difficult problem that seems to have always been resolved, but no one wants to abandon, however difficult and difficult. “The love and perseverance can give people much better and no good life.”</p><p>Pressures and difficulties will never block the footsteps of the Olympics in the winter, since love and dreams have been with them. A winter that is unparalleled is a nightmare that has been built with hot blood and tenacity. The Beijing Winter Olympics Award, which is reproduced as a lens, brought to the audience the story of “speaks and honours”, while the official film Beijing 2022 gave the viewers another face of the Beijing Winter Games, a story that is equally well documented and celebrated.</p><p>The film “Beijing 2022”, which combines the documentary, is the main line of “Beijing — the building of the game” and “The sportspersons — the stadium”, with a fine and hortired winter story of Anong, inviting the viewers to resume the winter season, which is rolled out.</p><p>Video</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Figures for burns in China]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 30 Apr 2023 18:38:31 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[A reference was made to the night-clubs of deep-season swaps, and many would think that burns were not a choice. Instead of burning, it is not possible to mention the current new stream of Internet promotion, “black burns”. In fact, China has never been able to eat burns, and we have chosen burns from parts of the north-east, north-west, south-east and south-east of China, reading burns from different regions. In each of the cities of China, burns, foods and tastes are different, and each ind...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A reference was made to the night-clubs of deep-season swaps, and many would think that burns were not a choice. Instead of burning, it is not possible to mention the current new stream of Internet promotion, “black burns”.</p><p>In fact, China has never been able to eat burns, and we have chosen burns from parts of the north-east, north-west, south-east and south-east of China, reading burns from different regions. In each of the cities of China, burns, foods and tastes are different, and each individual has a boiling map in his minds, and everyone has a staggering and habitat in his heart.</p><p>Design</p><p>For Liu</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Happiness should be fought for by yourself]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2022 08:47:38 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Love bravely if you can love, strive to win if you can win, and accept if you can’t win. I talk about divorce a lot, and I have repeatedly advised others: if it is painful to stay in a painful marriage, then the divorce stop loss is obviously a wiser choice. As for “not divorcing for children”, that’s really unnecessary. Many mothers always have such an illusion: they have a very bad relationship with their husband, but as long as they don’t divorce, the husband will be good to their children...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love bravely if you can love, strive to win if you can win, and accept if you can’t win.</p><p>I talk about divorce a lot, and I have repeatedly advised others: if it is painful to stay in a painful marriage, then the divorce stop loss is obviously a wiser choice.</p><p>As for “not divorcing for children”, that’s really unnecessary.</p><p>Many mothers always have such an illusion: they have a very bad relationship with their husband, but as long as they don’t divorce, the husband will be good to their children. Therefore, for the sake of their children, they struggle not to divorce.</p><p>Not to mention whether they chose not to divorce for the sake of their children. Even if so, I think it is a kind of self deception to a great extent.</p><p>Whether a father treats his children well or not has little to do with whether he divorces his wife or not. A father who is really good to his children will be better to his children because of guilt after divorce; A father who is really not responsible for his children, even if he is in a state of marriage and lives with his children every day, has never been interested in his children.</p><p>As for the kind of father who is willing to be a little better to his children without divorce and regards his children as strangers after divorce, isn’t it hard for you to live under the same roof with people with such low-level cognition? Isn’t the child uncomfortable?</p><p>Of course, I’m not saying that divorce has no negative impact on children, but that a bad marriage has a greater negative impact on children than divorce.</p><p>For children, whether their parents divorce or not is not important, but who their parents are and how they treat them have a greater impact on them.</p><p>However, every time I express this meaning, someone always understands this as: I’m advocating divorce. I think “divorced people are happier than those who are happily married”.</p><p>No, I don’t think divorced people are happier than married people, and I don’t think they are more painful than married people.</p><p>I just said that these are two different living conditions.</p><p>In terms of living conditions alone, it is no match.</p><p>Which state is good depends only on who you are.</p><p>No matter how chic a single person is, there is a moment when they want to find a shoulder to lean on.</p><p>No matter how happy a marriage is, there are several times of impulse to strangle each other.</p><p>Everything in the world loses when the moon is full and overflows when the water is full. It’s good to score 90 points in a certain state. There’s really no need to raise a quarrel.</p><p>Single or not, there are unhappy moments. If you can stand those unhappy moments, marriage and being single are just a choice regardless of advantages and disadvantages.</p><p>Why do some people interpret this as my advocacy of divorce and think that my view is “long live single, single means absolute happiness”?</p><p>For a long time, there has been a view that people who are happy in marriage must be happier than those who are single.</p><p>But I think this is debatable.</p><p>What is “marriage happiness”?</p><p>Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu seem happy enough, but in their later years, they will also experience separation. Yang Jiang lived alone for 15 years after Qian Zhongshu and her daughter Qian Yuan died.</p><p>Zhu Shenghao and song Qingru can be regarded as immortal couples, but the reason why they are spread is related to Zhu Shenghao’s early death at the age of 32.</p><p>Moreover, at the stage of strong feelings, Zhu Shenghao didn’t like song Qingru’s poetry. He didn’t want his wife to be more talented than himself.</p><p>After Zhu Shenghao’s death, song Qingru also fell in love and had children later. She just didn’t know why she didn’t go with the man, but raised her and Zhu Shenghao’s son alone, and spent a lot of time and energy to fulfill her husband’s last wish.</p><p>▲ Zhu Shenghao and song Qingru</p><p>Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao held hands all their life, Lin Yutang and Liao Cuifeng have been in the same boat for 50 years, Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying have gone through 62 years of ups and downs together, and they have won the “signature” of the marriage? But in the long marriage life, they can’t help stumbling.</p><p>You see, even enviable marriages have sores.</p><p>This sore hole is not necessarily a gift from marriage, but a necessary course in life.</p><p>In other words, whether you are married or single, you have to bear these sores, but everyone’s sores are different: some lose money, some lose health, some lose relatives, and some experience failure</p><p>Unhappiness, like death, is a part of life.</p><p>Single or married, can not be avoided.</p><p>It’s certainly a kind of happiness to have someone around you to face these disappointments. In order to “stand together”, you have to pay a lot. For example, you need to take care of each other’s emotions all the time and tolerate each other’s minor defects.</p><p>Happiness is not given to you by others out of thin air, but you get it in exchange for the value you have.</p><p>Single people spend the energy of exchanging “value” with others on themselves, have the ability to meet these disappointments, and of course, can enjoy all the blessings in life alone.</p><p>As long as they don’t feel unhappy, others don’t have to feel that others are not as happy as those who are married.</p><p>Of course, if someone understands the above words as “people who are happy in marriage are not as happy as singles”, then let me say it all for nothing.</p><p>In real life, I found that many people will go into such an ideological misunderstanding: so and so live a glorious life after divorce. Therefore, only divorce can realize the counter attack of life.</p><p>But this concept itself is a partial generalization.</p><p>Dong Mingzhu and Tao Huabi are both successful entrepreneurs. Their common feature is: widowhood.</p><p>However, not all women can become Dong Mingzhu and Tao Huabi after experiencing “widowhood”.</p><p>It is you who can make you counter attack, not divorce, widowhood and other changes in your life.</p><p>In other words, whether you can counter attack or not mainly depends on “who are you”, rather than “whether you are divorced or widowed”.</p><p>Many times, I have to admit that divorce has an impact on children. It is just a choice of “second to none” and “the lesser of the two evils”.</p><p>I never advocate and encourage others to divorce at will, nor beautify divorce, or think divorce is a cool thing.</p><p>In those days, you never thought of “not getting divorced for your children”, but now you definitely won’t “remarry for your children” or “stay single for your children”. A divorced woman who can’t meet the person she wants to love temporarily has nothing to do with “staying single for her children”.</p><p>Chinese people especially like to talk about everything together and feel that their identity as a “child mother” is very noble and great</p><p>However, in</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Be a mentor? Jay Chou: I hope the next new song can win the championship]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2022 20:11:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[There are three photos of Jay Chou interviewed by the media on Weibo. When the reporter asked what Jay’s dream was? He said he hoped that the next “China’s new song” would be the first! screenshot Tutor Jay Chou Jay Chou Sina entertainment news on October 21, today, three photos of Jay Chou interviewed by the media were posted on Weibo. In the photo, Jay Chou is surrounded by the media, smiling and in a good mood. According to the disclosure, when the reporter asked what Jay’s dream was? He s...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are three photos of Jay Chou interviewed by the media on Weibo. When the reporter asked what Jay’s dream was? He said he hoped that the next “China’s new song” would be the first!</p><p>screenshot</p><p>Tutor Jay Chou</p><p>Jay Chou</p><p>Sina entertainment news on October 21, today, three photos of Jay Chou interviewed by the media were posted on Weibo. In the photo, Jay Chou is surrounded by the media, smiling and in a good mood. According to the disclosure, when the reporter asked what Jay’s dream was? He said he hoped that the next “China’s new song” would be the first! A microblog music blogger forwarded the microblog and wrote: “well, many fans asked in the private letter before. Now there is an answer. I’ll go next year.” Netizens have left messages saying: “I’ve always wanted to know whether xiaogongju will be a mentor next year. Now I can finally rest assured!”</p><p>Jay Chou brought out many excellent students and won the love of the audience when he served as a tutor in China’s new song. This time, netizens joked about Jay Chou’s reply and said: “our little public show is unhappy that we haven’t won the championship yet!” After the end of the fourth season of “China’s good song”, many netizens began to wonder: “will Jay Chou continue to serve as a mentor?” Today, Jay Chou revealed that his “dream” provoked fans to shout: “what you expect most is your team!”</p><p>(editor in charge: Dong Dong)</p>]]></content:encoded>
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