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            <title><![CDATA[The Quiet Responsibility of Privilege.]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 22 Feb 2025 16:56:43 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Privilege is exactly as the name suggests—privilege. It is not a guarantee, nor a birthright, but an advantage largely born of chance, granted by forces beyond your control. It represents opportunities that others may not have, often through no fault of theirs or merit of your own, but simply due to extenuating circumstances. The path of privilege is uneven, with patches of light and shadow, where others navigate rougher and darker terrain. And so, to truly recognize the light you walk in sho...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Privilege is exactly as the name suggests—privilege. It is not a guarantee, nor a birthright, but an advantage largely born of chance, granted by forces beyond your control. It represents opportunities that others may not have, often through no fault of theirs or merit of your own, but simply due to extenuating circumstances. The path of privilege is uneven, with patches of light and shadow, where others navigate rougher and darker terrain. And so, to truly recognize the light you walk in should foster humility, not entitlement.<br> <br>Entitlement blinds you to reality and diminishes your ability to empathize with those who do not share your position. To wear privilege as armor is to misunderstand it; to wield it arrogantly as power is to squander it. Instead, let it guide you to lift others and remind you of the responsibility it carries. Like a figure pausing on the trail to shine a lantern or create steppingstones for those in darkness, privilege demands action. It is not to elevate yourself only, but to illuminate the way for others.<br> <br>Privilege, if anything, is a quiet calling to contribute meaningfully. It is a responsibility to ensure the light you carry doesn’t remain with you alone but paves the way for those who follow. Acknowledge it with gratitude, wield it with care, and let it inspire you to create pathways for others, leaving the world more equitable than you found it.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[The Silent Ruin We Ignore ]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 22 Feb 2025 14:55:05 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Today, let’s talk about something often dismissed yet deeply destructive. It is called corruption. Now, someone is probably thinking, 'Corruption is just a political issue. Much like religion or race, it is way too polarizing to get involved in. I am better off staying out of it.' No, you are not. For you may choose to ignore it, but the harm it brings will find you and all of us regardless. ]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, let’s talk about something often dismissed yet deeply destructive. It is called corruption. Now, someone is probably thinking, 'Corruption is just a political issue. Much like religion or race, it is way too polarizing to get involved in. I am better off staying out of it.' No, you are not. For you may choose to ignore it, but the harm it brings will find you and all of us regardless. Now, if that does not bother you, feel free to stop reading at this point. But if it does, here is how I see it.</p><p>At its core, it is the abuse of entrusted power for personal gain, a crime whose consequences unfold in shadows, often unnoticed at first. When compared to crimes like drug trafficking and murder, corruption may appear less harmful and sometimes a casual political or business jargon. Yet it stands among the most egregious offenses known to man, a silent catalyst, an unseen hand that unleashes a chain of crimes with devastating consequences, even lasting generations."</p><p>Corruption rarely announces itself with bloodstains or gunshots, yet its consequences often rival those of the worst crimes. It operates quietly, fueled by greed, slipping through loopholes and sealed with a nod of indifference. Often downplayed, its true impact goes unnoticed because people see only the one transaction, not the chain reaction it sets in motion.</p><p>A stolen fund here, a mismanaged project there. What seems like a simple act of self-interest ripples outward with devastating consequences. The collapsed bridge that buries a family beneath the rubble. The counterfeit medicine that turns a curable disease into a death sentence. The underfunded hospital where a mother dies in labor because life-saving equipment was deemed too expensive to procure, while someone, somewhere, pockets the difference. That 'someone' indulges in their ill-gotten wealth, rising from the pain and losses of others.</p><p>Corruption is not just theft; it is the slow suffocation of a society. It is the difference between progress and decay, and in many cases, life and death. For if second-degree murder is defined as reckless disregard for human life, then what is corruption, if not the same? The only difference is that its victims are unseen, its perpetrators masked by bureaucracy, and its weapon is neglect, not a gun. And yet, it is downplayed, excused, sometimes even admired.&nbsp;</p><p>Until the day its effects become personal. Until the unrepaired road causes an accident that claims a loved one. Until the underfunded fire department arrives too late to save a burning home. Until people finally connect the dots and realize that corruption, in its purest form, is not just a crime against governance, it is a crime against life itself. And if that day never comes, the unholy act of corruption will continue to thrive, sustained by weak institutions, society’s indifference, and our failure to think beyond the obvious (these three forces form the very infrastructure enabling it). So I guess the question is, for something with multigenerational consequences, is a blind eye not better off staying open?</p>]]></content:encoded>
            <author>thisisorise@newsletter.paragraph.com (Orise Afam)</author>
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            <title><![CDATA[OUT OF PLACE, YET PERFECTLY AT HOME: A JOURNEY BEYOND BORDERS.]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 15 Feb 2025 14:29:50 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[This striking image captures the vibrant resilience of an iconic automobile, rooted in the bustling streets of Lagos, Nigeria, as it adapts to the snowy streets of Toronto. It symbolizes a powerful narrative of global connection and cultural versatility. On a snowy Toronto street, a vibrant yellow bus stands out against the muted tones of winter—a symbol of resilience and adaptability. Both out of place and perfectly at home in its new environment, it tells a compelling story of embracing cha...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This striking image captures the vibrant resilience of an iconic automobile, rooted in the bustling streets of Lagos, Nigeria, as it adapts to the snowy streets of Toronto. It symbolizes a powerful narrative of global connection and cultural versatility.<br><br>On a snowy Toronto street, a vibrant yellow bus stands out against the muted tones of winter—a symbol of resilience and adaptability. Both out of place and perfectly at home in its new environment, it tells a compelling story of embracing change, crossing borders, and finding belonging in unexpected places.<br><br>Immigration is much like this bus: a journey from the familiar to the unknown. Those who migrate bring with them their culture, history, and dreams. They navigate new landscapes, adapt to new climates, and, in doing so, enrich the communities they join. The contrast between the bright yellow bus and the snowy streets reflects the beauty of diversity—how blending distinct cultures creates something striking and meaningful.<br><br>This bus reminds us that the value of immigration lies not just in the economic benefits or the exchange of skills but in the human connections it fosters. Immigration brings variety to our cities, resilience to our communities, and beauty to our shared story. <br>Like this bus finding its way through Toronto, immigrants remind us that the world is richer when we welcome those who dare to journey beyond borders. This is the essence of what Canada embodies. Though not a perfect system, it remains a functioning one with valuable lessons others can learn from.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Strength in Service Over Self: My Journey to a Lifelong Lesson.]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 15 Feb 2025 14:27:32 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[It was 2:10 PM, and the school bell rang, marking the end of the day. Without wasting a second, I grabbed my bag and made my way home, covering an eight-kilometre journey through the crowded streets of mainland Lagos. The tropical sun was unforgiving, and the heat bore down on me as I weaved through the traffic of pedestrians, street vendors, and impatient motorists. By the time I reached my mixed-use community, I barely slowed down, rushing...]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was 2:10 PM, and the school bell rang, marking the end of the day. Without wasting a second, I grabbed my bag and made my way home, covering an eight-kilometre journey through the crowded streets of mainland Lagos, Nigeria. The tropical sun was unforgiving, and the heat bore down on me as I weaved through the traffic of pedestrians, street vendors, and impatient motorists. By the time I reached my mixed-use community, I barely slowed down, rushing straight to the entrance of our home.</p><p>I stepped inside, sweating profusely, and collapsed onto the living room couch, just in time for&nbsp;my favourite show (Samurai X)&nbsp;to begin. My school uniform was still clinging to my damp skin, but that didn’t matter. Nothing else did at that moment. I was completely absorbed in the show, my eyes glued to the screen. My mother, as expected, did not approve. Her voice would ring through the house, reprimanding me for not changing out of my uniform first or for watching television before doing anything else. But I didn’t care. Looking back, I was probably a little obsessed. But maybe, just maybe, with good reason.</p><p>I was introduced to Japanese anime in the early 90s, and my favorite character back then is Kenshin Himura from&nbsp;Samurai X, even to this day. Kenshin was a former assassin, highly skilled and feared in the Meiji era, but he had chosen to leave behind a life of violence. Instead of using his skill to kill, he dedicated himself to protecting others, serving the common people of Japan. His past was filled with bloodshed, but he had made a conscious decision to live for peace.</p><p>To reflect his transformation, Kenshin gave up the traditional sword (katana) and took up the&nbsp;sakabato, a sword designed to prevent killing. Unlike an ordinary blade, its sharp edge was reversed, making it a weapon of defense rather than destruction. It could still incapacitate an opponent, but it would not take a life. The&nbsp;sakabato&nbsp;was not just symbolic, it was also of superior craftsmanship, reinforcing the idea that true strength lay not in violence, but in restraint.</p><p>Looking back, I realize that Kenshin was one of the figures who helped shape my values as I grew up. Of course, my parents had the greatest influence on who I am today, but I have to admit that this fictional character left a lasting impression as well. It makes me reflect on how much the media we consume as children shapes us in ways we may not fully recognize at the time and why we should be mindful of the kind of media our children consume. But I digress.</p><p>Returning to my point, we all possess strengths, skills, and talents that give us an advantage over others. The temptation to use these abilities for personal gain is ever-present. It is easy to dominate, to take at the expense of others. But like the&nbsp;sakabato, our power should be wielded to build, not to destroy and strength should serve a purpose beyond self-interest. To strike should be to correct, not to harm. To defend should be to protect, not to control. Much like a weapon, a skill that preserves life is far greater than one that takes it.</p><p>And just as the&nbsp;sakabato&nbsp;was crafted with resilience at its core, we too must cultivate restraint and endurance, even when we possess great strength. Restraint is anything but weakness, for it takes far more power to hold back than it does to lash out. <strong>So choosing peace is therefore not a lack of strength, it is, in fact, the highest form of it</strong>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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            <title><![CDATA[Review of Game of Thrones and Six Lessons for Nigerians]]></title>
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            <pubDate>Sun, 29 Dec 2024 16:30:43 GMT</pubDate>
            <description><![CDATA[Game of Thrones offers lessons for Nigeria: value education, unite against common foes, prioritize collective good, and  strength in numbers for progress.]]></description>
            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>May 19, 2019</strong> marked the airing of the final episode of <em>Game of Thrones</em>. Fans around the world experienced mixed emotions as the iconic TV series came to an end. Adapted from George R.R. Martin's <em>A Song of Ice and Fire</em>, the American fantasy drama first premiered on April 17, 2011.</p><p>Although it took me eight years to finally dive into the series, the hype leading up to the final season was undeniable. By 2018, the cultural impact was evident, with <strong>2,545 babies named Arya</strong> and <strong>560 named Khaleesi</strong> in the U.S., showcasing the show’s massive influence.</p><p>It is true that Season Eight ushered in so many talking points and even divided its diehard audience, but take nothing away from the show – It was and has continued to remain a behemoth among other all-time TV series. Game of Thrones is a beautiful mixture of everything (from action to drama, fantasy to humour, all garnished under the thrills of suspense). A strong cast all round, and a remarkable success on the journey towards excellent delivery, the VFX mastery was fully on show as seen in the enhancement of several locations and depiction of the three dragons.</p><p>I was particularly intrigued by the coming to life of ‘Ghost’ and the other pack of Wolves, confirmed to be a mixture of real animals and computer-generated Imagery (CGI). The whole experience was such a delight to watch and of course, the numbers confirm this with about 12 million viewers in the US (32million across all platforms by Season Seven), having risen from a mere average of 2.5million viewers back in 2011 when the show started.</p><p>The final season aired, however, leading to a bittersweet ending, which seemed unbefitting for a TV show that had risen to stardom over the years. The story development felt rather rushed from a general standpoint; for one, Khaleesi, who was all about freeing people from their despotic leaders immediately started to show flashes of the same cruelty she fought against. Just one display of her growing mercilessness by burning King’s Landing to the ground got her killed – and by someone, who she truly loved in the person of Jon Snow. Brandon Stark, who never seemed interested in ephemeral things and apparently played no visible role in this regard, finally gets to sit on the throne – very strange!</p><p>In my opinion, the writing at the later stages seemed suspect. The show also felt too sexist sometimes and demeaning to women; not forgetting a higher-than-average portrayal of nudity and the use of profanity, which could have been toned down a notch in the interest of the wider audience. I refer to this because contrary to general opinion, I believe art can have moral content. Art in itself is rarely meaningless and therefore, has every power to influence its audience either positively or negatively.</p><p>Other than these concerns of mine, Game of Thrones is a remarkable piece of art overall.</p><p>So, shutting myself out of all the excitement generated by fans everywhere on social media, I decided to quietly binge through the entire seasons after the dust settled. I was quiet about it for one reason – to safely escape from the jaws of prowling ‘Spoilers’ around me!</p><p>Now having watched it, I can say my five most loved characters in ascending order are; Daenarys Tagaryen (for her desire to chase her destiny and free the oppressed), Arya Stark (for her show of doggedness and general growth, despite her travails), Jon Snow (For putting first the interest of humanity), Tyrion Lannister (for his wisdom and use of words) and finally Lady Mormont of Bear Island (for her portrayal of young feisty leadership and her overall impact within the limited screen time she got compared to the rest on the list).</p><p>Ramsay Bolton for me has to be the undisputed king of villainy in the entire show and for all Cersei’s evil deeds; her death was rather cute and unconvincing. However, I have to say it was gratifying to see Joffrey Baratheon and Ramsay Bolton poisoned to death and ravaged to smithereens by his human flesh-eating hounds respectively – oh well, do feel free to call me Wicked on this one.</p><p>Aside from the excitement this Show brings, there are a lot of life lessons to draw from it, but ultimately there are SIX (6) things Nigerians can learn, given the present state of our affairs.</p><p><strong>1 . Education is Gold</strong></p><p><em>“I read it in a book”</em>&nbsp;is a line fondly accredited to Samwell Tarly, who wasn’t exactly a Fight Champion but sought answers in the fine prints of books and emerged with critical information that helped in winning the ultimate war against the Army of the dead. Tyrion Lannister also talked about the mind needing books like the sword needs a whetstone to sharpen its edges.</p><p>Education gives an advantage of perspective and the Nigerian Government must build capacity that equals its people’s love for learning.</p><p>Given the financial value of our budget, about 20% should be ascribed to education for maximum impact. The average of 7.5% in the last 10 years is a sad situation that is sure to take us nowhere.</p><p><strong>2 . The Common Enemy</strong></p><p>If any Nigerian must take only one message from this article, it has to be this one. The Night’s Watch despised the Wildings. The Targaryens, Baratheons, Lannisters, Starks scuffled one way or the other for the Iron throne in a bid to rule the seven kingdoms – they all had their differences dating back to generations. However, when it came to defeating the White Walkers (Army of the Dead) led by the Night King; Jon Snow understood early on that the existing bickering among the several kingdoms meant nothing in comparison to getting annihilated by the White walkers. They recognized that it was the battle of the living against the dead, so they put their differences aside, fought side by side and won the War.</p><p>Yoruba, Efik, Igbo, Ijaw, Hausa, Tiv, Fulani, Benin, Igala and the many other tribes in the Country really do not count for much in the larger scheme of things, because our socioeconomic problems are common to all of us. Majority of us, regardless of our tribes, suffer; bad roads, lack of electricity, defunct healthcare, insecurity, and all other in-country vices. &nbsp;We must separate divisive politics from good governance and win the war as a collective. Of course, some of perpetrators of these divide-and-rule schemes come as supposed friends, but in truth, they are actually white walkers belonging to the Army of the dead.</p><p><strong>3 . General Interest supersedes Personal Interest</strong></p><p>It is not enough to ‘dey your dey’ as fondly promoted these days in our local parlance. Rather, we must think about the consequences of mindless self-gratification first before taking further action.</p><p>The gory events that took place at the Red Wedding, where the Starks were massacred would have been averted if Rob Stark acted in the interest of his Kinsmen by honouring the agreement to marry one of Walder Frey’s Daughters. He ‘followed his heart’ instead by marrying someone else – Talisa; making Lord Frey a laughing stock among his pairs and we all know what happened next. Another important lesson here is to remember that People never forget how you made them feel, because as humans, we are emotional beings.</p><p><strong>4 . Today’s seed can become tomorrow’s Forest</strong></p><p>The undoing of the Starks on many occasions was as a result of their penchant for spreading their trust way too thin. Ned Stark’s absolute trust that King Joffrey will stand by his word cost him his head.</p><p>He may have been beheaded very early in the show, but his values left larger traces for the future, spreading across every member of his Household.&nbsp; From Jon Snow to Brandon, Sansa to Arya; House Stark came out the ultimate Victors.</p><p>Every Giant you see today was once a toddler. Another example was Khaleesi, whose seed of determination got her two strong armies (the Dothrakis and the Unsullied) as well as three dragons.</p><p>Do not consider Nigeria’s problems too weighty to resolve. You have your role to play, regardless of what you think – in the words of Lord Varys; “A very small man can cast a very large shadow”.</p><p>Positive impact is not the only tangible that multiplies, Vices can equally spread quickly leading to disaster if not curtailed – just like the grayscale plague, and not everyone will be as lucky as Jorah Mormont, who recovered. Everyone one of us should learn to be accountable for our actions; caution our tongues and be mindful of our social media posts to reduce the chances of other people latching on to any form of destructive energy.</p><p><strong>5 . A Pawn is always at a disadvantage</strong></p><p>I couldn’t help but feel pity for the young bride of Lord Frey, who had a knife held to her throat by her Captor. Here was what Lord Frey did the one time she needed someone to stand up for her; he shrugged in consent and said, ‘…I will find another”.</p><p>To our Paid Publicist, Twitter Warlords and Electoral Offenders, who remain willing pawns, groveling at the feet of unscrupulous Politicians; be aware that their quest towards gratifying their insatiable urges for wealth and power will likely be sponsored by your calamities. When things go wrong (and they usually do), you will simply be yet another victim caught in the crossfire; and just like Walder Frey, they will move on to the next ignorant ‘you’ on the streets ever willing to do their bidding. Be guided!</p><p>And to the self-absorbed leaders out there, who get the children of others to commit their fingerprints to many atrocities and then of course, when their fingers get burned, they go on to the next set of fingers, because their greed must come to fruition, regardless – a classic ‘littlefinger’ move. Sounds smart but in Ramsay Bolton’s voice, “<em>If you think this has a happy ending, you haven’t been paying attention”.&nbsp;</em>Your scheming can only go so far and believe it when I say, just like Lord Baelish, you will be your own undoing.</p><p><strong>6 . There is Power in Numbers.</strong></p><p>Strength is such as asset to have but having the number can be far greater an asset.</p><p>The White Walkers (a.k.a The Army of the dead) were not exactly skillful fighters, yet they posed a problem to the living even as they soldiered on in massive numbers. At the battle of Winterfell, many fans of the show will not forget quickly how the belligerent Dothrakis (in their tens of thousands) charged towards them in droves and got extinguished in a matter of seconds.</p><p>There is power in numbers and to a greater degree, much more power when dealing with well-trained human capital. Except for UAE and Saudi Arabia, eight of the ten most powerful Countries in the world are in the top 50 most populated Countries. Nigeria may have its challenges but can be formidable by virtue of its number and diversity. One can only go so far but a group of people can go the distance.</p><p><em>“Let me tell you something about wolves, child. When the snows fall and the white winds blow, the lone wolf dies, but the&nbsp;</em><strong><em>pack survives</em></strong><em>,” – Ned Stark to Arya Stark.</em></p><p>Yes, Nigeria has some unresolved problems, but these issues are skin deep rather than deep lying contrary to the narrative of self-centred ‘pseudo’ Nationalists among us. The chaos we see today in our Country is not a product of happenstance. It is premeditated and designed to perfection, to the benefit of a few greedy lot.</p><p>So for those of us, who believe we can co-exist as a Nation under the right framework; what do we say to those people, who are hell bent on plummeting Nigeria to the depths of irredeemability?</p><p>Not today!</p>]]></content:encoded>
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