One of the most powerful examples of obliquity, or perhaps better to say inversion, that I have in my life, is that I find my pessimism to be alleviated somewhat when I face the thing head on.
I'm still powerless against it, but I find that when I engage with the topic, when I really read about the scenarios, even though they don't actually change my expectations or worldview all that much, there is still a rather palpable sense of 'pressure release'.