The world has never wronged everyone who worked hard
A few years ago, standing in front of a famous school, my girlfriend scolded the Zheng brother who was taking the postgraduate entrance examination: Everyone mistakenly thought that this is the place where dreams began. I want to tell you that this is also the place where dreams are broken. Brother Zheng said she was too pessimistic, and his girlfriend blamed him for being unrealistic. So she turned and left without even formally saying goodbye to him. For a long time, Brother Zheng would hol...
The world has never wronged everyone who worked hard
A few years ago, standing in front of a famous school, my girlfriend scolded the Zheng brother who was taking the postgraduate entrance examination: Everyone mistakenly thought that this is the place where dreams began. I want to tell you that this is also the place where dreams are broken. Brother Zheng said she was too pessimistic, and his girlfriend blamed him for being unrealistic. So she turned and left without even formally saying goodbye to him. For a long time, Brother Zheng would hol...
There is a virtue - encouragement
A barber had an apprentice. After the apprentice cut the first customer's hair, the customer looked in the mirror and said, "The hair is too long." The apprentice said nothing. The master smiled and explained: "The long hair makes you appear subtle, which is called hiding." The customer left happily. After the apprentice cut the second customer's hair, the customer looked in the mirror and said, "The hair is too short." The apprentice was speechless. The master smiled and explained:...
There is a virtue - encouragement
A barber had an apprentice. After the apprentice cut the first customer's hair, the customer looked in the mirror and said, "The hair is too long." The apprentice said nothing. The master smiled and explained: "The long hair makes you appear subtle, which is called hiding." The customer left happily. After the apprentice cut the second customer's hair, the customer looked in the mirror and said, "The hair is too short." The apprentice was speechless. The master smiled and explained:...
尊重别人也是尊重自己
生活中,我们每个人都渴望得到别人的尊重,即使是一个微不足道的处于社会最低层的小人物。 记得多年前,我去一个商场买东西,路过一条马路时,迎面飞来一顶帽子,就落在我的脚边。那帽子看上去旧旧的,脏兮兮的,我看到对面一个拾荒老者正颤巍巍的试图穿过马路来拾他的帽子。我迟疑了一下,还是捡起那顶脏得要命的帽子,向对面晃了晃,示意我会拿给他。当我穿过马路,把帽子交到那个老者手上的时候,我清楚地看到了他眼中的感激,也听到他一连声地对我说:“谢谢你,姑娘,你长命百岁!”。“姑娘,你长命百岁”,这在一个拾荒者缺少词汇的嘴里,可能是最真挚的感激和尊重了吧? 我不知道“尊重”一词,究竟深藏了多少深情厚谊,但我由此知道了,一个人、一个生活在凡尘大千世界中的人,不论你地位多么高或多么卑微,只要你尊重了别人,别人就一定会以百倍的尊重来回报你。这,就是以心换心,这,就是做人该具备的最起码的品德吧? 世界是庞大的,相似的人很多,但是完全相同的人是没有的,社会各层次的人,因为各自的经历不同,性格不同,价值取向不同,受社会影响不同,接触的人群不同,因此,对尊重的理解也会各不相同。 很多时候,我们在生活、学习和工作中,只...
尊重别人也是尊重自己
生活中,我们每个人都渴望得到别人的尊重,即使是一个微不足道的处于社会最低层的小人物。 记得多年前,我去一个商场买东西,路过一条马路时,迎面飞来一顶帽子,就落在我的脚边。那帽子看上去旧旧的,脏兮兮的,我看到对面一个拾荒老者正颤巍巍的试图穿过马路来拾他的帽子。我迟疑了一下,还是捡起那顶脏得要命的帽子,向对面晃了晃,示意我会拿给他。当我穿过马路,把帽子交到那个老者手上的时候,我清楚地看到了他眼中的感激,也听到他一连声地对我说:“谢谢你,姑娘,你长命百岁!”。“姑娘,你长命百岁”,这在一个拾荒者缺少词汇的嘴里,可能是最真挚的感激和尊重了吧? 我不知道“尊重”一词,究竟深藏了多少深情厚谊,但我由此知道了,一个人、一个生活在凡尘大千世界中的人,不论你地位多么高或多么卑微,只要你尊重了别人,别人就一定会以百倍的尊重来回报你。这,就是以心换心,这,就是做人该具备的最起码的品德吧? 世界是庞大的,相似的人很多,但是完全相同的人是没有的,社会各层次的人,因为各自的经历不同,性格不同,价值取向不同,受社会影响不同,接触的人群不同,因此,对尊重的理解也会各不相同。 很多时候,我们在生活、学习和工作中,只...