Excellence is not a surprise, but a habit. Good habits are very important, which is an attitude to life. Now the housing market is depressed, and many people's houses are on the market and cannot be sold after the new year. Our neighbor sold her house after 21 days of listing, and it was sold at her asking price without losing a penny. This is simply a small miracle. What the hell is going on? It doesn't rule out that some people are eager to be my neighbors when they see the virtuous ones, and their mother moved three times. They can't wait to become my neighbors. It may also be that the neighbors are lucky. But as the saying goes: the harder you work, the better your luck. The neighbor is a single mother, living with a son and a daughter. My son got married and had a child before he finished high school. It's true to say that the independence of American youth is not empty. Seeing a family of three living at home, the mother kicked them all out and let them live by themselves, only occasionally letting them come back to visit. In this way, many contradictions have been reduced. Chinese people often say how lucky it is to have three generations together. Only when you are in it can you know what it is like. I am more and more able to accept the relationship between brothers and clear accounts in the United States. Don't say it's impersonal. In fact, it's impersonal, because you let people run their own lives independently, leave their own living space and privacy, and have clear boundaries to advance and retreat freely. Our biggest problem is unclear. When it comes to iron, say what you and I share with each other. When you turn your face, you will find out all kinds of problems, such as gratitude, resentment and debt, interests and gains and losses. Why don't you learn to be a villain before a gentleman, and let good fences make good neighbors. The conflict between Palestine and Israel, the conflict between India and Pakistan, the war on Treasure Island, the South China Sea dispute, the McMahon line, the 38th parallel, and most wars in the world are related to unclear boundaries. After the son's family of three kicked out, the neighbor lived with her daughter. Her daughter is in high school. Children of this age usually have more things to do. When I first came here three years ago, my neighbor said: sorry, our two teenagers, if they quarrel with you in the future, just tell me. Later, I found out that these two people didn't cause us any trouble at all. The neighbor's daughter also showed us children for a period of time. When the neighbor ran out on vacation, he came specially and left his phone and email, saying that if we saw that the children were too noisy and there were too many people, we should call her immediately. I later thought that this was also a responsible behavior, because I was afraid that once I left, there would be no tigers in the mountains for the two children, and the monkeys would be called overlords and disturb the neighbors at a party. Warn me in advance so that we won't be surprised by this situation and then rebound strongly. By the way, living in the United States, if you know in advance that your home is a noisy treat, you'd better say hello to your neighbors in advance, so as not to surprise people and then get angry. Pick up the phone and dial 911. Because her neighbors are usually very sensitive to getting along with their neighbors, she has a good relationship with them. When people buy a house, they ask around, and everyone will say good things about her. Although it seems strange to be far away from their relatives and close to their neighbors, in fact, this is "clear". (inspirational quotes www.lz13.cn) for your son, when it's time to let go, let him go out and live by himself, don't let him destroy the family atmosphere, and let everyone have their own life and be responsible for themselves. In the long run, it is a kind of help. This single parent's mother is very capable. I often see her cleaning the grass and watering when I come home from work. Her home is always green with grass, and the flower bed at the door is always in bloom in all seasons. Once the season changes and the previous flowers die, she immediately changes into new flowers and plants. She worked in a brick factory, so she also wholesale some bricks and built a swimming pool by herself. I went to borrow things several times and inadvertently walked into her house. I found that the house was also clean and meticulous. In this way, she often apologized and said chaos. I looked around and didn't see where the chaos was. It seemed that she had too high requirements for herself, so she still said chaos. Coming out of our culture, it's better to face one set before another. Many Chinese families are careless about their environment, don't take their relationship with the environment seriously, and often try to clean up before guests arrive. And the house is often easier to clean up, and the more you don't clean up, the harder it is to clean up. If you don't sweep a house at ordinary times, don't say sweeping the world at that time. It's difficult to sweep this house back. The house has been sold and will be moved soon. But what's interesting is that every day I see her still watering when it's time, mowing when it's time, and cleaning up cleanly, not because someone else wants to take over right away. I once saw the title of a book called "excellence is a habit", which I fully agree with. Excellence is not a surprise, but a habit. The neighbor next door can maintain her environment like this. She doesn't want to pick up when she wants to sell the house, but always keeps the habit of being neat and orderly. Whenever someone comes to see the house, her house is kept in the best state. She works in a brick factory. She is also a single mother. The pressure of life is as great as it is. She can maintain her home like this. It can be seen that the art of life has little to do with material conditions, but more to do with our understanding of life.

Excellence is not a surprise, but a habit. Good habits are very important, which is an attitude to life. Now the housing market is depressed, and many people's houses are on the market and cannot be sold after the new year. Our neighbor sold her house after 21 days of listing, and it was sold at her asking price without losing a penny. This is simply a small miracle. What the hell is going on? It doesn't rule out that some people are eager to be my neighbors when they see the virtuous ones, and their mother moved three times. They can't wait to become my neighbors. It may also be that the neighbors are lucky. But as the saying goes: the harder you work, the better your luck. The neighbor is a single mother, living with a son and a daughter. My son got married and had a child before he finished high school. It's true to say that the independence of American youth is not empty. Seeing a family of three living at home, the mother kicked them all out and let them live by themselves, only occasionally letting them come back to visit. In this way, many contradictions have been reduced. Chinese people often say how lucky it is to have three generations together. Only when you are in it can you know what it is like. I am more and more able to accept the relationship between brothers and clear accounts in the United States. Don't say it's impersonal. In fact, it's impersonal, because you let people run their own lives independently, leave their own living space and privacy, and have clear boundaries to advance and retreat freely. Our biggest problem is unclear. When it comes to iron, say what you and I share with each other. When you turn your face, you will find out all kinds of problems, such as gratitude, resentment and debt, interests and gains and losses. Why don't you learn to be a villain before a gentleman, and let good fences make good neighbors. The conflict between Palestine and Israel, the conflict between India and Pakistan, the war on Treasure Island, the South China Sea dispute, the McMahon line, the 38th parallel, and most wars in the world are related to unclear boundaries. After the son's family of three kicked out, the neighbor lived with her daughter. Her daughter is in high school. Children of this age usually have more things to do. When I first came here three years ago, my neighbor said: sorry, our two teenagers, if they quarrel with you in the future, just tell me. Later, I found out that these two people didn't cause us any trouble at all. The neighbor's daughter also showed us children for a period of time. When the neighbor ran out on vacation, he came specially and left his phone and email, saying that if we saw that the children were too noisy and there were too many people, we should call her immediately. I later thought that this was also a responsible behavior, because I was afraid that once I left, there would be no tigers in the mountains for the two children, and the monkeys would be called overlords and disturb the neighbors at a party. Warn me in advance so that we won't be surprised by this situation and then rebound strongly. By the way, living in the United States, if you know in advance that your home is a noisy treat, you'd better say hello to your neighbors in advance, so as not to surprise people and then get angry. Pick up the phone and dial 911. Because her neighbors are usually very sensitive to getting along with their neighbors, she has a good relationship with them. When people buy a house, they ask around, and everyone will say good things about her. Although it seems strange to be far away from their relatives and close to their neighbors, in fact, this is "clear". (inspirational quotes www.lz13.cn) for your son, when it's time to let go, let him go out and live by himself, don't let him destroy the family atmosphere, and let everyone have their own life and be responsible for themselves. In the long run, it is a kind of help. This single parent's mother is very capable. I often see her cleaning the grass and watering when I come home from work. Her home is always green with grass, and the flower bed at the door is always in bloom in all seasons. Once the season changes and the previous flowers die, she immediately changes into new flowers and plants. She worked in a brick factory, so she also wholesale some bricks and built a swimming pool by herself. I went to borrow things several times and inadvertently walked into her house. I found that the house was also clean and meticulous. In this way, she often apologized and said chaos. I looked around and didn't see where the chaos was. It seemed that she had too high requirements for herself, so she still said chaos. Coming out of our culture, it's better to face one set before another. Many Chinese families are careless about their environment, don't take their relationship with the environment seriously, and often try to clean up before guests arrive. And the house is often easier to clean up, and the more you don't clean up, the harder it is to clean up. If you don't sweep a house at ordinary times, don't say sweeping the world at that time. It's difficult to sweep this house back. The house has been sold and will be moved soon. But what's interesting is that every day I see her still watering when it's time, mowing when it's time, and cleaning up cleanly, not because someone else wants to take over right away. I once saw the title of a book called "excellence is a habit", which I fully agree with. Excellence is not a surprise, but a habit. The neighbor next door can maintain her environment like this. She doesn't want to pick up when she wants to sell the house, but always keeps the habit of being neat and orderly. Whenever someone comes to see the house, her house is kept in the best state. She works in a brick factory. She is also a single mother. The pressure of life is as great as it is. She can maintain her home like this. It can be seen that the art of life has little to do with material conditions, but more to do with our understanding of life.