one In life, there will be some people who walk away without saying anything, and finally become dispensable to each other. I once saw a group of "formulas": I don't ask + you don't say = misunderstanding I asked + you don't say = estrangement I asked + you said = respect You want to say + I want to ask = tacit understanding I don't ask + you said = trust I used to think we would be together for a lifetime and go through fire and water for each other, but when we are separated by two places and have little contact, we know that time and distance can really defeat everything. As a friend, if you don't talk about your recent situation, I won't ask you about it. Now, no matter how hot it used to be, it would break up in one shot sooner or later. As a partner, I have something on my mind. You don't care. You're angry and I don't appease. No matter how much vows I made in the past, I'll get along sooner or later. This is how our relationship fades. If you don't ask, I won't say, and then we break up. two There is a saying widely circulated: if you want to go, I will not stay. In fact, you may not think so. If that person is gone, you may look back step by step to see if he is still there. Strong and sensible, you tell yourself that you can live well without anyone, but the person who hides in the corner and cries is also you. In fact, your voice may be: please stay, I really care about you. You know, you have to live well without anyone, but the loss at that moment is not because of who you lost, but because you find that if you don't ask them to stay, they really don't stay. No matter friendship or love, one party must pay more, and one party must be more active. But long-term feelings will slowly let both sides take the initiative to pay with the initiative of one party; The weakened feelings are often the active party who pays but gets no return. Some people try to test people's hearts with "leave", and finally find that people's hearts sometimes can't stand the test. Some people choose to leave you, is a long-term decision, not a temporary intention. Missing is not a mistake, but a mistake. three Writer Zhu Shenghao wrote a song "partridge day" for his wife song Qingru. The last sentence is: you don't need to keep company with your ears and temples. You smile and bow your head. Once upon a time, I thought the meaning of this sentence was: Song Qingru bowed her head and smiled, which really moved him. But if you know their love story, you won't interpret "bow your head" like this. Song Qingru was a talented woman in the period of the Republic of China. She was independent and talented. After meeting Zhu Shenghao, the two sent poems and letters to convey their feelings. Zhu Shenghao felt happy as soon as he received her letter. In the love letter written by Zhu Shenghao to song Qingru, there are more than 70 kinds of names for her, such as baby, Niuniu, silly girl, kiss, song'er, little ghost boss and so on. It can be seen that she loves and dotes on her. Zhu Shenghao always expresses to song Qingru that he will always be good to her and do what he says. After getting married, song Qingru turned from a talented woman to a housewife. She ate three meals a day and worried about everything. Zhu Shenghao focused on translating "Shakespeare". The educated young women in that era were more valuable, but she was willing to make sacrifices for her lover. A large part of the reason why they help each other is that they are willing to "bow their heads" for each other. Zhu Shenghao is talented, but he never stingy with his love. He coaxes his lover happy in his own way and is willing to lower his position in his feelings. Song Qingru is willing to make concessions because of her deep love. All those who refuse to "admit defeat" are just not enough love. If only one side bows his head, you will never be soft. Slowly, when TA doesn't bow his head, you can't go back to the past, and then your relationship will fade. All relationships will not break up if they "soften" each other and bow their heads in turn. four Usually, the last person to accompany you may not be the most emotional, but it must be the most appropriate. In this life, few people can accompany you through decades of spring and autumn. Most people just walk along with you. An old friend who hasn't been in touch for many years. Are you okay? I'm fine. Thank you for walking with me for some time. How are you, the one you used to love? Maybe once loved, but now I just hope you live well. Time can't stand waiting. While the years are not old and the evening wind is not cold, what should be said is clear, what should be retained is retained, and what should be softened is softened. While you and I are still there. May all of you go farther and farther, for the sake of reunion after a long separation and happiness at the next stop.

one In life, there will be some people who walk away without saying anything, and finally become dispensable to each other. I once saw a group of "formulas": I don't ask + you don't say = misunderstanding I asked + you don't say = estrangement I asked + you said = respect You want to say + I want to ask = tacit understanding I don't ask + you said = trust I used to think we would be together for a lifetime and go through fire and water for each other, but when we are separated by two places and have little contact, we know that time and distance can really defeat everything. As a friend, if you don't talk about your recent situation, I won't ask you about it. Now, no matter how hot it used to be, it would break up in one shot sooner or later. As a partner, I have something on my mind. You don't care. You're angry and I don't appease. No matter how much vows I made in the past, I'll get along sooner or later. This is how our relationship fades. If you don't ask, I won't say, and then we break up. two There is a saying widely circulated: if you want to go, I will not stay. In fact, you may not think so. If that person is gone, you may look back step by step to see if he is still there. Strong and sensible, you tell yourself that you can live well without anyone, but the person who hides in the corner and cries is also you. In fact, your voice may be: please stay, I really care about you. You know, you have to live well without anyone, but the loss at that moment is not because of who you lost, but because you find that if you don't ask them to stay, they really don't stay. No matter friendship or love, one party must pay more, and one party must be more active. But long-term feelings will slowly let both sides take the initiative to pay with the initiative of one party; The weakened feelings are often the active party who pays but gets no return. Some people try to test people's hearts with "leave", and finally find that people's hearts sometimes can't stand the test. Some people choose to leave you, is a long-term decision, not a temporary intention. Missing is not a mistake, but a mistake. three Writer Zhu Shenghao wrote a song "partridge day" for his wife song Qingru. The last sentence is: you don't need to keep company with your ears and temples. You smile and bow your head. Once upon a time, I thought the meaning of this sentence was: Song Qingru bowed her head and smiled, which really moved him. But if you know their love story, you won't interpret "bow your head" like this. Song Qingru was a talented woman in the period of the Republic of China. She was independent and talented. After meeting Zhu Shenghao, the two sent poems and letters to convey their feelings. Zhu Shenghao felt happy as soon as he received her letter. In the love letter written by Zhu Shenghao to song Qingru, there are more than 70 kinds of names for her, such as baby, Niuniu, silly girl, kiss, song'er, little ghost boss and so on. It can be seen that she loves and dotes on her. Zhu Shenghao always expresses to song Qingru that he will always be good to her and do what he says. After getting married, song Qingru turned from a talented woman to a housewife. She ate three meals a day and worried about everything. Zhu Shenghao focused on translating "Shakespeare". The educated young women in that era were more valuable, but she was willing to make sacrifices for her lover. A large part of the reason why they help each other is that they are willing to "bow their heads" for each other. Zhu Shenghao is talented, but he never stingy with his love. He coaxes his lover happy in his own way and is willing to lower his position in his feelings. Song Qingru is willing to make concessions because of her deep love. All those who refuse to "admit defeat" are just not enough love. If only one side bows his head, you will never be soft. Slowly, when TA doesn't bow his head, you can't go back to the past, and then your relationship will fade. All relationships will not break up if they "soften" each other and bow their heads in turn. four Usually, the last person to accompany you may not be the most emotional, but it must be the most appropriate. In this life, few people can accompany you through decades of spring and autumn. Most people just walk along with you. An old friend who hasn't been in touch for many years. Are you okay? I'm fine. Thank you for walking with me for some time. How are you, the one you used to love? Maybe once loved, but now I just hope you live well. Time can't stand waiting. While the years are not old and the evening wind is not cold, what should be said is clear, what should be retained is retained, and what should be softened is softened. While you and I are still there. May all of you go farther and farther, for the sake of reunion after a long separation and happiness at the next stop.