In order to provide her with a good learning environment, I decided to accompany her in senior two. Finding a room for rent has become a very important thing this summer vacation. On the wall outside the school gate, there are still a lot of rental information. Let's look at the address and telephone number left on it one by one. The house conditions are different, and the rent is high and low. Some are very close to the school, but the facilities in the room are not satisfactory. Some have a good environment and are far away from the school. It is always difficult to find a place where people are satisfied everywhere. We have to weigh the pros and cons and choose between them. Finally, I chose a newly decorated house with three bedrooms and two living rooms to rent. Compared with the houses in other places, the rent here is the highest and it is a little far from the school (about one kilometer), but I like the environment and atmosphere there. This room is a fund-raising room of one unit. Although the community is far away from the urban area, it is quiet and clean, and all kinds of supporting facilities are complete. More importantly, the people who go in and out there every day are some high-quality civil servants, rather than mixed up like other places. Renting a house is for children to learn, not for her to enjoy. A friend heard that I would rather live near and far away than cheap and expensive. I rented such a house as an accompanying room. I felt that I didn't understand. I didn't give her any more explanation. I told her some stories about my friends. A friend is an old lady in her seventies. I met her on the train. A plain old lady, in her seventies, is a senior backpacker. She almost runs all over the famous mountains and rivers in China. Her speech is extraordinary. The teaching of several young people sitting next to her falls into my heart: "you know, the circle you are in determines the height of your future career, and how big your circle is." For this point of view, She has facts to prove: "My son is going to move, and my daughter-in-law is going to move to the suburbs far away from the city center, where the houses are cheap. I advise her, don't, who are the people living there? It's the vendors and farmers in the surrounding urban-rural fringe. I don't look down on them, but they are not on the same level with you. You can stand out from the crowd there, and you may have a sense of superiority, but your knowledge is only limited there and won't be higher The pursuit of. Moving to those communities in the city, you are an ordinary people. There are more successful and bright people around you. Their words and deeds may be worth learning from. People have to go up. Later, they bought a house in the city and said that my decision was wise. My grandson worked in a bank in the city after graduation, and the notice of graduate students came down again. In a dilemma, I didn't know how to choose. I told him to go to graduate school. In the city bank, what you face all year round is the people around you. At a glance, you can see how good your development can be. When you go out, your circle of friends will grow, and your world will grow. It's hard to say how big it is. My grandson listened to me and went to graduate school. After graduation, he was hired by a bank of China in Beijing because of his excellent grades... "I was attracted by the old man's" circle theory ", and I was more curious about her life experience. She then taught us, "you see, grandma, I didn't graduate in the fifth grade of primary school, but after I was assigned to the workshop, I was surrounded by college students and graduate students. For so many years, I watched, learned and influenced them, and learned some things." Originally, she is also a beneficiary of entering a good circle. There is another friend, who is a standard "circle doctrine". Their family conditions were not very good at first, but they always insisted on staying with the "good circle". To send children to school, it's better to spend a high price and let them go to a key school with good conditions and facilities, buy a house and a loan, and stay with the rich in a good community. Their reason is very simple: a good school, my child can receive a good education, not to mention, the students and teachers around him are different, and he will have the motivation to struggle in that atmosphere. With the rich, we also have a benchmark in life. This friend who has been looking up has been tossing and turning over the years. The days are really getting better and better. Now, their sons have been admitted to famous schools. In the rich community where they live, they are also a successful group. For the circle, I was very exclusive. I am willing to live a quiet life. I feel that having three or five confidants and friends is enough to comfort my life. I am not willing to join in all kinds of circles. In fact, as a person in society, whether we like it or not, virtually, we are walking in the circle. In school, there is a circle of classmates, in society, a circle of colleagues, in the community, a circle of neighbors... These circles are so closely related to our life. In a healthy and upward circle, you will also become enthusiastic and high spirited. On the contrary, if you work with a group of people who haggle over trivial things every day, over time, you may also become cramped. This is why I went to the xiangzhangyuan community to rent a house to accompany me. I want my child to know from now on how important it will be for her to choose the right circle at any time.