The leader of friend Linzi left his post. As a result, on the day the leader left, no one went to have a break meal, and no one even left a word of retention. Everyone looked like "it's good for you to leave, otherwise I'm always worried that you won't leave". Lin Zi said, you don't know the situation that day is really embarrassing, but when you do this, you can't blame others for being snobbish, but the leader has a lot of problems. For example, he likes to put on official airs. Although he is only a department manager, he is always arrogant towards his subordinates, and even his older employees are snobbish. He always speaks with arrogance. For example, you must do it well for me and discipline me at work. If you can't handle it well, be careful that I let you leave immediately. Even if anyone dares to disagree with him at work, he always says overbearing: Has the final say has the final say or is my professional? Although everyone was respectful to him in face, privately, everyone hated his high attitude. Lin Zi once had a leader who was very modest and polite. He never felt superior to others, and even always stood in the perspective of employees to protect their self-esteem. Later, he found another job. When he left, not only the employees were reluctant to part with him, but also the guard had to see him off. Six months after he left, some employees still sent him holiday blessing messages. Some people have said that in fact, it depends on whether a leader is truly respected, not how respectful others are to him when he is in office, but how polite others are to him when he abdicates. In fact, in the workplace, really smart people know how to keep a low profile. They won't steal the limelight and gain the upper hand in everything, and they won't elevate themselves by deliberately belittling others. They will not be arrogant, domineering and high-profile because they are in a high position. As an old saying goes, if wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it, if people float in the public, the public will destroy it. Therefore, people who are too high-profile undoubtedly make enemies and find fault for themselves, and cut off their great future. A low-key person can not only maintain good interpersonal relationships and gain a good impression of you from superiors and subordinates, but also leave yourself a room to attack and retreat. I have a high school female classmate. She used to be an ordinary office worker. Later, her family made a fortune, so she lived a seemingly prosperous life. And she especially loves to send a circle of friends. The key is that every time she sends the content, it's the drunken man's intention, not the wine. For example, she will send photos of driving, but will specially expose the BMW logo on the steering wheel. For example, when she sends the map of shopping malls, she will also deliberately put the famous brand label in the center of the map. The picture of dinner she sent out was actually written about a five-star hotel. No matter what she sends, she can't do without the luxury of height, the luxurious life, and the fact that she is an upper class person. In fact, many students are disgusted with her such behavior, not because they are jealous that she has more money than us. It's her impetuous, vain and ostentatious behavior, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. I also have a classmate who has lived a privileged life since childhood, but he is unusually low-key. She never talked about eating hundreds of cakes in public, rubbing thousands of face cream and carrying tens of thousands of leather bags. I won't take the initiative to talk about having been to several countries, reciting LV several times and buying several famous Swiss watches. Although she is not ostentatious, everyone knows that she has a good family, and many people are more favorable to her because of her low-key words and deeds. This reminds me of Yishu once said that a lady with real temperament never shows off what she has. Nor will she tell others what books she has read, what clothes she has, what jewelry she wears, and where she has been, because she has no sense of inferiority. I don't know if you have found that the more people lack something, the more they really show off. Because they always hope to affirm themselves through the praise of others. In life, in fact, people who are too high-profile will not only appear frivolous, but also give people a sense of arrogant distance. Because everyone has self-esteem, when you always perform better than others, people will inevitably have feelings of comparison, inferiority and even resistance. And those low-key people will not only win good popularity, but also appear to be particularly cultivated. Yu Dazu said that big trees attract wind. No one likes people who are too sharp. In small places, people with more money and power than you can be found everywhere. So you don't have to and don't have the right to show off. Because I love writing, I know a group of people who like writing. Although these people have never met me, I can probably see their character and connotation through some language communication. I remember an author who started a few years earlier than us. She is always a good teacher. She either praises her articles and adds 100000 reading volume all day, or criticizes others' articles for being too chicken soup. But once a new author wrote an article and asked her to help correct it. She not only described others as useless, but also said that she could write more distracted words with her eyes closed. Two days later, she also wrote an article on the same topic. As a result, the writers felt that her writing was not as good as that of the new author. In fact, the author doesn't have a good relationship with everyone in the group, because although she has some talents, she always takes others as a stepping stone to highlight her own advantages. Another senior writer, however, is very low-key every time. Her articles are often big headlines, and she is the original author of continuous articles. Whenever everyone envies her, she always says that her writing is not good enough, and there are still many places to learn from other better authors. Once, a new author suggested that there were typos in her article. If you change to someone else, you will be angry. After all, many people think that new people are not qualified to say that the older generation is not good. However, she sincerely thanked the new author. Such an attitude was admirable. In fact, a truly knowledgeable person will not show off his knowledge in front of others, nor will he look at himself badly. They know that there are mountains outside the mountains, people outside the people, and there are days outside the sky. They also know that there is no end to learning. No matter how capable a person is, there is always someone better than him. There is such a story: one day, a doctor took a boat to enjoy the scenery. The doctor asked the fisherman on the boat, "can you live?" The fisherman said no. The doctor said, "then you will lose a quarter of your life." After a while, the doctor asked, "can you understand philosophy?" The fisherman still said no. The doctor said, "then you'll lose another quarter of your life." After a while, the doctor asked, "do you know science?" The fisherman still said no. Just then, the wind was blowing wildly and there was a huge wave. The fisherman asked the doctor, "can you swim?", "No," said the doctor, The fisherman said, "then your life will be over!" It can be seen that high profile does not mean superior, and low profile does not mean incompetence. In the workplace, you should learn to keep a low profile. Because no matter how capable a person is, there will always be opponents who compete with him. Secondly, high-profile people are particularly easy to be impetuous, and being too high-profile will lead to envy and suspicion. As Apple CEO Cook said: "I like to remind myself where I come from. Putting myself in a humble environment helps me move forward." In life, you should also learn to keep a low profile. Because the real quality of life, not the more money the better, the more dazzling the better, but the more peaceful the better. As host Meng Fei said: "All sense of superiority does not come from appearance, figure, knowledge, wealth, status, achievement and power. It only comes from lack of insight and compassion." In learning, you should learn to keep a low profile. Half a pot of water rings. People with real knowledge know how to hide the front and guard the clumsiness. Low key is not only a good cultivation, but also an elegant temperament, but also a philosophical attitude. Remember, in this world, the smarter the person, the lower the key.