Check-In and Check-Up:

Sheamus’ Progress and the Teenage Autism Journey”

This week, I took my son Sheamus to his regular doctor’s appointment, and I left feeling a mix of relief, gratitude, and quiet pride. The doctor adjusted his medication to help improve his focus something we’ve been monitoring closely. The change wasn’t drastic, just a bump to better match his current developmental needs. Physically, he’s doing great. At 125 pounds and standing 5’4”, Sheamus is healthy, strong, and continuing to grow into himself.

Sheamus has come a long way. From navigating sensory overload to managing daily routines with more confidence, his journey has been full of challenges but also growth. As a 16 year-old autistic teen approaching a pivotal phase of life, his next chapter includes parent-led homeschooling, consistent therapy, and ongoing support from the Board of Disability Services.

We’re creating a structure that works for him, not against him. That means customized learning at home, life skills practice, and therapeutic interventions tailored to his neurodivergent needs. Every decision we make centers Sheamus’ well-being, autonomy, and long-term success.

Autism and the Teenage Years: What Parents Should Know

For autistic boys aged 16–18, the transition into late adolescence can come with unique challenges:

• Executive Functioning Struggles: Planning, focus, and task initiation often require more support. This is why Sheamus’ medication adjustment was necessary to help him stay engaged during learning and reduce mental fatigue.

• Social Changes and Isolation: Many autistic teens may feel left out as peer dynamics grow more complex. Building a strong home support system and therapeutic peer interaction is key.

• Mental Health Risks: Autistic teens are at higher risk of anxiety and depression. Routine check-ins with therapists and doctors are vital. We’re blessed to have a team that takes Sheamus’ mental health as seriously as his education.

• Puberty and Self-Identity: Teenage years can be confusing for any child, but even more so for autistic boys who may struggle with understanding bodily changes or expressing how they feel. Clear communication and open dialogue are our tools.

• Independence vs. Structure: Teens crave independence, but autistic teens still rely heavily on structure. We’re working daily to strike that balance giving Sheamus more choice and voice while keeping consistent routines.

Moving Forward, Together

As we shift into homeschooling, we’re not just teaching Sheamus academics we’re teaching life. From cooking meals together to learning how to self-regulate during meltdowns, every moment is a lesson. With the continued support of our therapist, specialists, and the board of disability, we’re building a future that reflects his pace, his strengths, and his dreams.

Autism doesn’t follow a timeline. Progress looks different for every child. But today, I just want to say how proud I am of my son. For how far he’s come. For how much he keeps showing up.

And if you’re on a similar path just know, you’re not alone. We’re right here with you.

By AutismHood Media a voice for the misunderstood, a platform for the unheard.