So most girls in my local environment always feel that a man should take care of their needs because they are in a relationship with him, although it is not a bad thing to give things to somebody you love, I mean the proof of Love Is In giving but when it comes to obligation or doing the relationship as though it is a business, then there is a need to re-check what it is that we are doing, whether we are running a business venture or we are building a relationship that could lead to marriage.

This is so important for us to understand because when a girl thinks you owe her the responsibility of budgeting every month, concerning her needs upon your salary or your income, then that is not a good thing frankly,  so you do what you feel is right but make sure you are not proving your love foolishly, if your love is on a wrong foundation it won't stand the test of time, different season will come to test it but do well to love carelessly, properly, truly and lovingly, with your heart and your brain.

Some girls think you should take care of their bills, like their

• Rent

• Hair

• Nails

• Data

• Airtime

• Lashes

My first question is how were you taking care of these before we met?

I strongly urge that people should have a measure of self-respect, in truth there is nothing wrong if a man does these things from a pure heart really, not that you obligate him to budget for you in the month while you are yet married.

A proper communication can bridge the gaps created by unhealthy expectations.

I actually would love to know if some girls think like this in every part of the world, feel free to share your thoughts in the comment section…