Not so long ago, the sexual interaction between man and woman was considered a sacred ritual. It was done after marriage and sometimes purely to grow the family tree, essentially, making love to reproduce. Most men were required to be gentlemen in such days, opening doors for ladies, courting them, making them feel special, relishing a woman's company, and protecting and serving his woman. All this in the hope of gaining a lady's finger in marriage. Nowadays, it is harder to find gentlemen in societies because the deep dark abyss of erotica exposed and expressed in movies, music videos and other ‘xxx’ channels has significantly altered how women are viewed and treated - puppeteered sexual objects rather than respected figures as, ultimately, Life-givers—a drastic shift in our current accepted paradigms. What the media portrays in various channels essentially warps the idea of women for the viewers, both boys and girls.
Where has the respect for our Eve gone? Why has the world exploded into a short-sighted vista of the most beautiful thing we have been given? Women bring life into this world, keep a home, and support their Adam. Yin and yang flows throughout our existence always. This yin and yang balance has toppled over in the Age of Information as the variety of gender identifications and sexualities expand year on year.
Sadly, people prefer the online world rather than Reality as a basis of living. This, in turn, removes all human connectivity, as the love, emotion, and empathy disappears when interacting online – how can we help the world if we are separate from it?
To be a Gentleman is made up of two words. ‘Gentle’ - mild, kind, and tender; moderate in action, effect, and manner; not aggressive or violent. The word ‘man’ refers either to an adult male or a human being of either sex. The essence of our existence is so deluded because of overexposure to constant sexual and violent media.
Children of all ages and cultures absorb information through their screens and remember what they see. We, as adults ought to realize, understand, and entertain the fact that this happens every day, throughout their adolescent and adult lives - more so now than ever. An underdeveloped mind is exposed to bits of information constantly, it distracts and numbs the brain—a naïve existence based on the actions and opinions of others on a screen. Yes, learning and gaining skills, but not preparing for real life. Essential life skills can only be acquired through experience. The availability of information on the web is boundless. When a child is subjected to this during early development, it shapes their long-term perceptions and choices, albeit falsely caged by what ‘normality’ is all about.
A music video made in the sixties and one made in the 2000s are two very different things, and a person should to take time to compare the two side-by-side to appreciate this fully. The great Neurologist, Sigmund Freud, realized that our innermost core desires drive our very nature – especially our sexual aspects – the oldest, first brain. Modern music videos use this mark to extort human sexuality, accessing our innermost ‘wants’. The human drive of desire and lust is a formidable weapon in marketing, fashion, pop culture, music, and movies. The danger is that children and eventually adults mimic what they see on television and the internet. These visuals are interpreted as ‘being cool’ or the in-thing - a sharp portrayal of how the masses are programmed. These ‘morals’ have been subtly exposed through the media for decades now. Now, the sad news:
Having constant sex or masturbating is the ultimate crippling factor in any person’s Life towards self-mastery. Of course, it is pleasurable – but we are not born to do it for pleasure - it is a unification of the yin and yang energies. Orgasm is so great because it is the ultimate bonding experience between man and woman in creating new Life. There has never been a more detrimental casualty to our existence than the weekly expelling of sexual energy for pleasure.
Our entire lives are built on a singular aim that transforms into a magnificent story of who we should be and how we should act. It includes deceit, love, hate, lust, gluttony, entertainment, distractions, fear, and ongoing, mundane realism. We are all guilty of forsaking our connection to soil and Earth, guilty of scavenging resources. We use every opportunity to stick to the ‘norm’, and worse of all, we have been allowed to do it for centuries.
More so now than ever, generations Y and Z have to take charge of this dangerous path we are on - this cannot be stressed enough. There are movements for women's rights or better employment conditions worldwide. There are protests against xenophobia and racism. Do these demonstrations solve issues of abuse, job creation, or violence? If anything, they make it worse. Governments cannot fix such problems overnight - the mass mind takes years to heal, and they can't be sorted by law. They must be cured at the source. For one, fatherless children are a leading cause of the growing cases of crime - mistreated or worse, detached from a safe, loving, complete home – the only proper place for a child.
The primordial part of the brain only conveys survival and desire responses – a primitive level of existence that promises gang life or robbery as a saving grace, where morals and values are mutated to suit personal gain rather than communal thinking. In most schools, boys and girls are either bullied or being bullied, discriminating or discriminated against because of some surface observation – skin color, culture, gender, sexuality, etc. This all happening whilst being taught words and numbers, science and history. Years later, with their gained knowledge and skill, they do their best to make a living. Natural law is tainted by the countless streams of negative information available to any person with the internet. The system turns a child into a robotic, hard-working creature bought and sold for their time. It’s easier to fit in like a sheep to make some money, pay the rent, and consume food, beverages, and drugs – pharmaceutical and otherwise to get by in life, support a family, and live through the lenses of someone else.
In the past, great mystics and prophets have taught, encouraged, and empowered people of different cultures and religions towards an ideal way of living. Some pray, sing, dance, or sit in silence, but they all aim for the end goal of believing in something.
How to stay nimble in the concept of becoming magnificent? By bringing out the dormant genius within of course!
We can, if we choose, release the aspects of the old and become something truly remarkable – it really is just a choice – day after day. For example, an entrepreneur starting a business needs to have some resources on hand. Their aim is to convert those resources into profit. But what people do not see or hear about is the countless learning curves, failures, stressful nights or long hours put in over months and years to become a successful enterprise. To become an expert in any field, all one has to do is absorb knowledge and practice in that field for ten thousand hours.
From the table below, one can detract from the average waking hours of what every person has at any given age. Remember, time is the only actual measurement in Life:
AGE WAKING HOURS 12 70,080 16 93,440 25 146,000 30 175,200 40 233,600 50 292,000
At the top of their game, a sportsperson has practiced over hours, days, weeks and years in that sport. Training, learning, enduring, losing and perfecting their own game – that would never have happened if they sat in front of a PC all night playing video games or out drinking bi-weekly. Anything over the 11 000 hour mark almost certainly secures a sportsperson’s winning streak. We can assume that most pro-athletes put in over eight thousand hours before even competing. Experts in countless other fields prove the power of time will push out a result. Anyone investing time in any thing, is destined for greatness. - starting a new hobby, learning something new, opening a business, inventing a product, driving a car, flying a plane, charity work, etc.
All things are created thrice – 1st in the Mind, 2nd in the Universe, and the 3rd in Reality. In short: Manifest Ur Reality.
Through consistent application, Life is greatly rewarding.
The venture or project with enough understanding and passion can and will succeed. If Max, an older man of 75, wakes up excited about his day, passionate enough to accomplish his purpose of providing fresh foods at his grocery store for his customers, he will show up every day. Nothing will deter him from this path; he will not allow it. The proof of the pudding is why Max is doing it. Maybe he is doing it to feed his family, committed to providing the freshest veg, etc. The mammalian operating system within directs habitual thinking, in turn, a basis of existence to refer to every second of each day. Each human has that tiny spark that occurs between heart and mind. This ‘spark of life’ is essential for us to evolve, as it is the basis for how evolution takes place in the spiritual realms. How we can exist, in our billions, is only up to the collective. We are encouraged to be part of something, follow a ‘tribe,’ and be accepted.
All the various distractions and controls are in place, perfected over centuries, carefully planned, allegedly to make our existence on Earth worthwhile. Through a simple web search on social media and digital platforms, one can detract the number of viewers or listeners to specific videos, etc. These numbers vary greatly when comparing subjects. Rappers’ and Pop Stars' music videos swing in with billions of views. An informative channel, which increases intelligence or awareness, trickles in at a measly one thousand views. Life of the modern-day man and woman has been molded.
Realizing this fact takes time because it goes against your belief system instilled over many years. Begin to understand the extent to which this made-up Reality is entwined into the lives of all. Each one of us needs another to exist — to thrive. We enjoy being social, whether with friends/family or around other humans in general. The choice is ours on how we co-exist. Religion is fast becoming a non-primary aspect in many more homes. The age of information teaches not to have confidence in the outside world, raising children solely through technology, molding them into the perfect little screen-tappers. This is how it's been for decades, crafted over the years. Role Play Gaming (RPG) – wherein a player becomes a virtual avatar to explore a replicated world, complete with buildings, cars, shops, drugs, guns, etc., with the sole aim to shoot, steal, drive, or fly, is wasting days of Life for an unhealthy dose of emotional excitement.
The truth is, they are all programs created to stimulate our core natures. Whether virtual or real, the Mind is constantly absorbing, learning, and creating a filter on how to respond in the future. Exposure is the term insinuated here, and when a naïve mind is exposed to something often enough, it’s registered as an acceptable frame of reference. Our brain does not distinguish between the real or virtual. So, where lies the problem with this? Video games expose and soften violence, such as killing something, taking land, and any other inhumane acts are conclusively expressed as ‘normal.’ A psychopath that turns into a mass murderer may not be created through this, but the Mind of the gamer shifts away from Collective Oneness. It imprints the concept that others of a different culture or nation are the enemy, putting good/wrong boxes into play, kill it before it kills you – that built-in reptilian instinct.
Frankly, what we are doing to each other is a more significant concern. For centuries, the casualties have been seen and heard, followed by futile attempts to cover up a vast array of inhumanity. When watching a news channel, consider the stories over a few days. We all get riled up and distraught when we see a dictator faraway doing hurtful things to his country and people. So, what happens? We focus on him and his story, talk about it, tweet it, share a post on social media. Then a new President is meant to be elected back home, and all focus is on the exhaustive marketing and ceremonial budgets. “Cool, Madam President went to this school.” “Oh wow. . . she studied what I studied….” “I like how Madam President speaks.” But wait, the genocide caused by the dictator faraway continues. Oh, look, all eyes are focused on the new Pope now as the white smoke rises from the Sistine Chapel. Think on that for a second while an unknown figure in a dark newsroom hallway murmurs, “People exist through the mercy of our transmissions.”
An individual is thrown so many stories each week, with ever more issues to think about, but none contribute to the quality of Life. The effects of this are well known, yet it is already so well synced that we do not care or notice otherwise in this naïve world. Today, there is a new form of colonization, rife with economic hijacking, capitalist ventures, ocean-snatching, and land grabbing. Nobody wants to be continually reminded about ever-increasing strained resources and ineffective farming methods, with food being processed to the point of zero nutrient value. That slogan just doesn't sell.
Is it true that our species is born from both evolution and foreign influence to do nothing else but work through our time here. If the Almighty did put us here purely to look after the Earth, why then is the complete opposite so profoundly rooted in our thinking and actions? At this point, let's reiterate that this is not a mellow-dramatic story of how we are severely fucking up the planet - it is already too late to note this. Instead, intend to bring awareness to the possibilities of an alternative existence—one where we inject change from within the heart of industries. The examples above are necessary to provide the bigger picture.
For millions of years, this planet has existed, and it will be around for millions more after we have gone. The existing methodology for almost every human being on Earth is to become educated, get a piece of paper from a good institution, look for a job, and buy our way through Life. Then get married and have children so that they can do the same. Is this the type of Life God envisioned for each human being? Were we meant to function as the slaving ant at the cost of our most precious resource — Time? Were we destined to put food on the table, live in a beautiful house, have a beautiful car, and enjoy the simple pleasures of Life - day in and day out? Is there something peculiar with this picture?
Objectively, the human condition is the ability to create. Every piece of available land will develop into cities and towns — settlements of man. It is a strange idea. Colonization took 90% of land by killing indigenous people and redistributing these open spaces to monarchs and high-ranking officials in a faraway palace, or sold to the highest bidder, permitting the ‘newly formed land-owner’ to build a dwelling, a farm, or a town. These land-owners lived comfortably for the rest of their days when in truth, ‘land’ was never anyone's to give or take. In light of Darwin’s theory of existence, we were never, ever meant to own a piece of land. Never were people meant to sail to distant lands and never expected to win valuable resources with artillery and military strength. North America would be a very different place if the Native peoples had also possessed guns, cannons, etc., to give the Europeans a fair fight.
If each person lived comfortably, what kind of world would we be living in? Thus the Desperation Operandi would be eliminated. In turn, the market for stolen goods would cease, poverty and everything that comes with it would disappear. Robberies and pity crime would stop. When each need is met, we can thrive on this planet together, and the natural world around us will prosper still. We would have time to feed energy into creative pursuits for self-enjoyment rather than monetary reward. We would greet everyone that crossed our path, and neighbors would be held in high accord – all having equal status. There is always enough for everyone regardless of culture, race, upbringing, gender, or trade. This may sound like socialist ideology, but academically, the collectivist theology seems perfect. Collectivist theology values the group as a unit more than the individual. Every village and small community in Africa, Asia, and South America holds collectivist theology in high esteem – even more so as the only way to co-exist.
In contrast, capitalist theology focuses on individual gain and profit, where tycoons, moguls, magnates, and individualists are found. Would any of these be relevant to a group of people all on the same pay-check? Unlikely. Capping the capitalist is one way to truly flourish, opening doors to a new Collective Capitalist Culture.
Sex in its proper form is to make a baby. The naysayers will argue on this relentlessly, but let’s take it back 2 000 years to the year 0017 - no one was having raunchy sex on the beach on a casual Tuesday, sipping champagne and fitting a condom to avoid pregnancy. This idea of sex for fun is recent and stems as recently as the 1940s. Why has this happened? After all this time, why now - in this century?
Most would ask: Why shouldn’t we have sex for pleasure? For one, that fantastic feeling of orgasm takes a load of dopamine to flood throughout the body. Both men and women who go through this often, coupled with the constant absorption of social media, draining the dopamine further, is a one way ticket to hit depression, anxiety and delusionary concepts of reality.
Secondly, a man who relinquishes his seed (as often as he would through masturbating or casual sex) takes a significant strain on his masculine energy. The very creation of sperm cells is an intense and ongoing process that uses protein, zinc, and a range of other nutrients to produce. Here’s the catch: It takes 64-74 days for good healthy sperm to mature – the ideal time for a man to reproduce. How many fathers out there can say their offspring are age-matured-seeds? Not ejaculating for two months is a tough call in our current society because the access to sexualized content is literally unrestricted t anyone with a cellphone.
We all know how orgasm is a great reliever of stress, made normal in most western societies. However, the short-term consequences are dire. Ejaculating on a weekly basis diminishes a man’s willpower and initiative. His energy levels drop, and mental fogginess are his daily companion. Hence, this opens the doors to exist in a ‘suggestive reality,’ whereby external stimuli are the basis of decisions rather than the creative juices flowing from within…rather left for dead in a condom or toilet... It’s easier to control a herd that has little or zero willpower, is it not…?