
Remember 09 · The Fiction of Value
Remember 09 · The Fiction of ValueSome values and standards are deliberately constructed by people. They often reflect social structures, cultural environments, and prevailing worldviews, rather than simply meeting needs or solving problems. If our labor and creations lose their meaning within a rigged pricing game, then once we step into the realm of consumption, things may backfire. We might fail to keep up with changes, or our emotions may rise and fall with external possessions. New and u...

Remember 09 · The Fiction of Value
Remember 09 · The Fiction of ValueSome values and standards are deliberately constructed by people. They often reflect social structures, cultural environments, and prevailing worldviews, rather than simply meeting needs or solving problems. If our labor and creations lose their meaning within a rigged pricing game, then once we step into the realm of consumption, things may backfire. We might fail to keep up with changes, or our emotions may rise and fall with external possessions. New and u...

记得 09 · 价值虚构
记得 09 · 价值虚构有些价值与标准,是被人为刻意塑造的。它们更多的是用来反映社会结构、文化环境和价值观,而不是单纯满足需求或解决问题。如果,我们的劳动与创造,在定价游戏中失去了意义。那么,一旦参与到消费中,可能会事与愿违,也可能跟不上变化,或者情绪被身外之物牵动起伏,各种意想不到的新问题,也会接踵而至,甚至,有人身陷险境或招惹灾祸,往往也仅是源于一次不合适的消费。即便是价值相符的消费,长期参与,也容易让人逐渐对身外产生过度的认同、期待与依赖。因此,真正想要改变生活的关键,是透支财富?还是守住内心,转变自己?

记得 09 · 价值虚构
记得 09 · 价值虚构有些价值与标准,是被人为刻意塑造的。它们更多的是用来反映社会结构、文化环境和价值观,而不是单纯满足需求或解决问题。如果,我们的劳动与创造,在定价游戏中失去了意义。那么,一旦参与到消费中,可能会事与愿违,也可能跟不上变化,或者情绪被身外之物牵动起伏,各种意想不到的新问题,也会接踵而至,甚至,有人身陷险境或招惹灾祸,往往也仅是源于一次不合适的消费。即便是价值相符的消费,长期参与,也容易让人逐渐对身外产生过度的认同、期待与依赖。因此,真正想要改变生活的关键,是透支财富?还是守住内心,转变自己?

Remember 08 · Solitude
Remember 08 · Solitude Solitude may be the inescapable spiritual background of every person. Whether you build a family or join a community, solitude still quietly arrives when the crowd disperses and laughter fades. It appears in those moments when words are exchanged but hearts remain distant. The closeness of hearts created by human effort is fragile and limited in effect. No one can truly bear all your pressures and pains, nor can they make every choice for you. Whatever reasons you give,...

Remember 08 · Solitude
Remember 08 · Solitude Solitude may be the inescapable spiritual background of every person. Whether you build a family or join a community, solitude still quietly arrives when the crowd disperses and laughter fades. It appears in those moments when words are exchanged but hearts remain distant. The closeness of hearts created by human effort is fragile and limited in effect. No one can truly bear all your pressures and pains, nor can they make every choice for you. Whatever reasons you give,...

记得 08 · 孤独
记得 08 · 孤独孤独,或许是每个人都无法逃避的精神底色。无论组建家庭,还是融入某个群体,孤独依然会在人群散去、笑声远离时悄然降临,也会在你言我语,却心各一方的瞬间浮现。人为拉近的心灵距离,不仅脆弱,而且作用有限。因为没人能真正替你承受所有的压力与痛苦,也无法替你做出每一个选择。无论你以何种理由,正在做什么事,都只是走在自己选择的路上。也许,越早学会直面自己、依靠自己,而不是把寄托放在他人或讨好世界上,才能更好地读懂自己的内心地图,才会慢慢感受到属于自己的节奏,从而发现真正适合自己的方向吧?

记得 08 · 孤独
记得 08 · 孤独孤独,或许是每个人都无法逃避的精神底色。无论组建家庭,还是融入某个群体,孤独依然会在人群散去、笑声远离时悄然降临,也会在你言我语,却心各一方的瞬间浮现。人为拉近的心灵距离,不仅脆弱,而且作用有限。因为没人能真正替你承受所有的压力与痛苦,也无法替你做出每一个选择。无论你以何种理由,正在做什么事,都只是走在自己选择的路上。也许,越早学会直面自己、依靠自己,而不是把寄托放在他人或讨好世界上,才能更好地读懂自己的内心地图,才会慢慢感受到属于自己的节奏,从而发现真正适合自己的方向吧?

Remember 07 · Learning to Spend
Remember 07 · Learning to SpendThe purpose of making money isn’t to hoard it but to spend it. This doesn’t mean encouraging blind consumption, but rather spending money promptly in the right places where it’s truly needed. For example, if you plan to marry and have children before the age of thirty, you should prepare for those expenses early and implement them step by step according to a plan, rather than waiting until everything is perfectly ready to take action. If you are hesitating while...

Remember 07 · Learning to Spend
Remember 07 · Learning to SpendThe purpose of making money isn’t to hoard it but to spend it. This doesn’t mean encouraging blind consumption, but rather spending money promptly in the right places where it’s truly needed. For example, if you plan to marry and have children before the age of thirty, you should prepare for those expenses early and implement them step by step according to a plan, rather than waiting until everything is perfectly ready to take action. If you are hesitating while...