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Remember 09 · The Fiction of Value

Remember 09 · The Fiction of ValueSome values and standards are deliberately constructed by people. They often reflect social structures, cultural environments, and prevailing worldviews, rather than simply meeting needs or solving problems. If our labor and creations lose their meaning within a rigged pricing game, then once we step into the realm of consumption, things may backfire. We might fail to keep up with changes, or our emotions may rise and fall with external possessions. New and u...

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Remember 08 · Solitude
Remember 08 · Solitude Solitude may be the inescapable spiritual background of every person. Whether you build a family or join a community, solitude still quietly arrives when the crowd disperses and laughter fades. It appears in those moments when words are exchanged but hearts remain distant. The closeness of hearts created by human effort is fragile and limited in effect. No one can truly bear all your pressures and pains, nor can they make every choice for you. Whatever reasons you give,...
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记得 08 · 孤独
记得 08 · 孤独孤独,或许是每个人都无法逃避的精神底色。无论组建家庭,还是融入某个群体,孤独依然会在人群散去、笑声远离时悄然降临,也会在你言我语,却心各一方的瞬间浮现。人为拉近的心灵距离,不仅脆弱,而且作用有限。因为没人能真正替你承受所有的压力与痛苦,也无法替你做出每一个选择。无论你以何种理由,正在做什么事,都只是走在自己选择的路上。也许,越早学会直面自己、依靠自己,而不是把寄托放在他人或讨好世界上,才能更好地读懂自己的内心地图,才会慢慢感受到属于自己的节奏,从而发现真正适合自己的方向吧?
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Remember 07 · Learning to Spend
Remember 07 · Learning to SpendThe purpose of making money isn’t to hoard it but to spend it. This doesn’t mean encouraging blind consumption, but rather spending money promptly in the right places where it’s truly needed. For example, if you plan to marry and have children before the age of thirty, you should prepare for those expenses early and implement them step by step according to a plan, rather than waiting until everything is perfectly ready to take action. If you are hesitating while...
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记得 07 · 学会花钱
赚钱的目的不是攒钱,而是花钱,不是鼓励盲目消费,而是要把钱及时花在正确且需要的地方。比如,如果打算在三十岁前结婚生子,就要提前准备好相关的开销,并且按计划逐步落实,而不是等到一切完全就绪才做出反应。如果你在观望对方,而对方也因为看不到你的努力而犹豫不决,就可能会错失良机。所以,花钱也是讲究时间窗口的,谁能把钱花得及时、花得对,谁就更能抓住机会,不留遗憾。如果只顾赚钱、攒钱,却不懂得如何花钱,钱将永远只是一串虚拟的数字。您认为,怎样才能让钱在最合适的时机,为每个阶段目标,发挥出最大价值呢?
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Remember 06 · Breaking Free from Garbage
Remember 06 · Breaking Free from GarbageIf you truly want to break free from the garbage around you, you must give up the entertainment that wastes your life and instead persist in creating value. Even if the value is small, as long as it’s real, it still matters. However, once you begin to stand out, there will always be those who envy you. They will steal and destroy your achievements, undermine your confidence, and persuade you to lie flat, seek pleasure, and consume mindlessly. They will ...
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记得 06 · 摆脱垃圾
记得 06 · 摆脱垃圾如果你想真正摆脱身边的垃圾,就要放弃那些空耗生命的娱乐,坚持创造价值。哪怕价值很微小,只要足够真实,也算有所作为。可一旦你开始崭露头角,总会有人嫉妒,他们会窃取、破坏你的成果,打击你的自信,还会劝你躺平、享乐、消费。用人为制造的困境与阻碍,把你恐吓、诱惑进他们伪装好的懒惰之门。最终,你会被消耗殆尽,只能在孤立、混乱与疲惫中挣扎。其实,在你每次沉迷娱乐时,都会有更多看得见、或看不见的垃圾涌向你,让你慢慢被淹没、被同化,最终也沦为垃圾。所以,你是选择燃烧自己,还是埋没自己呢?
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Remember 05 · The Burden of Beauty
Remember 05 · The Burden of BeautyWhat happens if you marry someone who only has good looks but lacks character and ability? First: appearance doesn’t equal health. If this person is frail, doesn’t know how to cook, relies on takeout for every meal, and frequently falls ill, unable to even care for themselves, how can they care for your child and you? You’ll end up having to take care of your child, yourself, and them as well. Second: education will be very challenging. If they are uninterest...
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记得 05 · 花之累
记得 05 · 花之累如果和只有外貌好看、性格与能力都不行的人结婚,会怎样?第一:外貌不等于健康。如果这位身体差,又不懂做饭,三餐靠外卖,动不动就生病,连自己都照顾不好,如何照顾孩子和你?你不仅要照顾孩子和自己,还得照顾这位。第二:教育会很麻烦。若不好学、没耐心、品德也不行,孩子不仅缺乏规划与辅导,也无道德榜样。第三:如果不愿吃苦也没才华,那么,靠你养、啃老、怕吃苦、不劳而获的观念将会直接影响到孩子。如果再遭遇遗传病、离婚、矛盾、绯闻、债务等问题,足以吞噬几代人的幸福与希望。您觉得,家族的未来,应该交给什么样的人呢?
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Remember 04 · Passing Through
Remember 04 · Passing ThroughWhy are we always encouraged to experience more in life? It’s as if fulfilling more desires would make life more exciting. But most so-called "bucket lists" are really just various forms of consumption. And the design of consumption leads to desires endlessly expanding, making it easier for people to become trapped. Perhaps we take ourselves too seriously. Our bodies were given by our parents. Coming into this world wasn’t something we actively applied for. Many t...
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记得 04 · 路过
记得 04 · 路过为什么我们总被劝说要多体验人生?好像如果能满足更多的欲望,人生就能更加精彩,可是,那些所谓的愿望清单,大多数无非就是各种消费,而消费设计又会导致欲望无限膨胀,反而更容易使人陷入其中。也许,是我们太把自己当回事了。身体是父母给的,我来到这个世界,也根本不是我主动申请的,有些事也不是我能完全掌控和决定的,所以,我为什么一定要为了肉体而折腾?而那些因肉体所产生的各种莫名其妙的欲望,满足了能怎样,没满足又能怎样?过日子,就像路过一下,无论好坏,很快都会过去,认真生活,真诚做人,感恩父母,别为欲望和无法掌控的事太过纠结。您怎么看?
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Remember 03 · The Narrow Bridge
Remember 03 · The Narrow BridgeDuring school years, the most glorious thing was getting high grades. But once out of school, many high-achieving students still believe their greatest skill is competing for a single coveted spot among tens of thousands — like crossing a narrow bridge. In society, this often evolves into pursuing various popular paths that promise low risk and high return. Winning once seems to promise not only a respectable and proper future but also a sense of security from a...