How you frustrate your husband - Nag him constantly - Argue all the time - Demand without reason - Do whatever you like - Refuse intimacy - Don't listen - Lack understanding - Be selfish - Lack team mindset - Always play the victim - Badmouth him - Fight everyone around him Keep at it, you'll soon be there. Hopefully when you get there, you won't complain. A husband is deserving of good treatment too but hey, you are already thinking about how to twist even this narrative or get defensive. Rest madam. Open your mind and learn.