A list of quotes from notable figures which I believe describes the current meta:
“It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.”
“The moment you measure your life by how many people like you, you stop living your own life.”
“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.”
“No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.”
“Avoid taking advice from someone who gives advice for a living.”
“Madness is rare in individuals — but in groups, parties, nations, and ages it is the rule.”