Grief doesn't go viral, it goes deep ๐. Writing stories about love, loss and redemption to help make sense of this mad, mad world.

Showing up // shutting down
Ever sit across from someone and realize it's already over?

Showing up // shutting down
Ever sit across from someone and realize it's already over?

When survival means running on legacy code you swore you'd never touch again
I know I need to call him. Even as everything inside me is telling me to run.

When survival means running on legacy code you swore you'd never touch again
I know I need to call him. Even as everything inside me is telling me to run.

Missing someone isn't a bug to fix.
So you can stop optimizing for grief.

Missing someone isn't a bug to fix.
So you can stop optimizing for grief.

Stop trying to optimize for perfection.
(And start optimizing for resilience.)

Stop trying to optimize for perfection.
(And start optimizing for resilience.)

What to do when someone you love disappears from your life
We had this beautiful vision, solid plans, thought we'd figured out the product-market fit of our friendship. Then everything came crashing down. Now, I'm sitting in the wreckage wondering if I should pivot or shut down completely. Six months in, I'm still deciding.

What to do when someone you love disappears from your life
We had this beautiful vision, solid plans, thought we'd figured out the product-market fit of our friendship. Then everything came crashing down. Now, I'm sitting in the wreckage wondering if I should pivot or shut down completely. Six months in, I'm still deciding.