**Anonymous post** Im 23F seeing a 24M for the past three weeks. So we had intercourse during the first week and it happened quite naturally. It wasn’t planned or anything. I thought it was good honestly. However the other day I made a remark trying to hint to him that I would like to do it again saying “I’ve been sexually aroused a lot but my fingers are getting sore lol” thinking it would hint to him I want to have sex. However he responds by asking if I have toys and to use them. I’ve tried not being too forward cause he has explained he doesn’t like that. He also talks about his ex a bit and apparently the separation was only recent. Not sure if that’s a red flag or not. I’m just upset cause how reason I went on the apps was to get that human connection So especially through intimacy. I feel like I might be petty for feeling upset about it or just over reacting. Just wanted to add for context if it means or changes anything. I have adhd and ASD so I take shit pretty legit.