Being fragmented as against being whole or actualized is in a way being always in conflict with yourself or at least having some kind of internal friction that slows you down or disrupts you from moving forward. When you start developing your inner abilities and talents, you become more You; more whole and complete.

There is less conflict and friction that in turn means there are less things standing between you and your goals. When you recognize this you take responsibility by understanding you have the power to shape your life.

• This recognition is very powerful as it empowers you with the knowledge that you are a co-creator of your destiny.

• You end up refraining from finding excuses or blaming others and situations for not reaching your goals or your happiness.

• You dump all that time wasting and start shifting your attention on the solution, knowing that you can turn things around as you have done before with good chances of success.