Q said that she is thirty-five years old. She has a stable family and is a teacher. However, she doesn't like the profession of teacher in her heart. At this point in life, can you shuffle again? This may not be a dilemma. People want stability or radical, and then make adjustments and arrangements according to the reality. For example, some people just want to be smooth. Even if they don't like the job, they can still work hard, because TA needs money to support reality and stability. Some people just want to choose a radical lifestyle and do what they like. Even if the middle has to pay more than the previous efforts and costs, even if it has reached a certain number of years. In TA's view, freedom and mental satisfaction are more than many other ancillary conditions of the outside world. TA advocates that one cannot do what one likes. Even if there is more material and financial return, he just feels that he is wasting his life. Life and reality, for most ordinary people, it is difficult to achieve a balance between stability and preferences. It is lucky for a person to do what he likes and seek financial benefits from it. He can be regarded as a person with certain blessings. We might as well take a look at the people around us. For example, f is afraid to change his work for housing loans, dare not enter restaurants, and only TV is left for daily entertainment; S for the sake of children, even when people are middle-aged, they still need to act according to the boss's face. The submission and accommodation in their hearts can only be swallowed up alone at night; W said that for her, it doesn't matter whether she likes it or not. She just needs to have a fixed expenditure every month to support herself well enough. These are people who don't like their work but make compromises, concessions and choices to life. They have one thing in common, that is, the family is stable, and their mind has tended to be peaceful. They are all middle-aged people, and it is difficult to have big fluctuations. The same is true of life. They are not surprised or slow in life. Of course, you can't say that this is not a kind of happiness, not a kind of good. Many times in life, it takes courage, faith and wisdom to start over. After all, it's not young and fierce. You can stumble back and forth. Of course, it is not ruled out that many people can be radical and reshuffle no matter what age they are. For them, the biggest change is that their life has entered a new situation. But you should know that the pressure, pain and fatigue during this period are also very affordable. To a certain extent, this is life. Stability has to pay a price, and subversion also has to pay a price. The key depends on how one's mind makes a choice. All this has nothing to do with age. Only courage, faith and the price of striving for freedom are involved. For example, when m was 33 years old, his family moved from Dali to Guangzhou, just because it was difficult for him to make new breakthroughs in his work and grow up in the city where he once lived. His life was lifeless and stagnant. If he goes on like this, he will live in chaos; Or maybe she just wanted to have a dream and get close to business smell. She successively invested in a bookstore with several people. Later, because she liked photography, she invested in re purchasing new photographic equipment and turned her hobby into a transaction that can be exchanged for money. It is also the opening of another new way of life. Overturn the past without precedent. You might say that she is lucky to have free time and do what she likes. But you should know that behind luck is the long-term deficit life of three years. The inner suffering has also asked whether the price of your choice is worth it. Chinese style life, mostly for stability, eat and wear well, sleep well, family well. This attitude of seeking happiness is also a kind of refinement. Settle down and support a good family. The peace and progress of society are inseparable from the ordinary nature of all peace of mind. What I can think of is that there are two kinds of reshuffle in life. One is forced, and fate needs to be re selected. Such a choice is prison practice. It forces people to a desperate situation and may be besieged on all sides. This requires firm faith and clear will. Once again, life after reshuffling is like entering a new world. Such a fate is "30 years east of the river, 30 years west of the river". "The benevolence of a gentleman will be slaughtered for five generations; the benevolence of a villain will be broken for five generations". All power, position and possessions cannot be eternal, because history and destiny will make you start again, and the order of life needs to be redefined. There is also a popular saying that love tossing, not tossing, not life. Inherent latent restlessness, such as m mentioned in the article. It's like a seed sown in the field and harvested in a certain season. In the coming year, she hopes to make a greater breakthrough, find a land more suitable for cultivating seeds, and start all over again. There are a lot of fertilization, cultivation, sowing and harvest, but I'm afraid there will be more sweat and tears than before. Life opens a new page, and the heart cultivates strength in this process. Tossing and turning is good, human adventurous spirit and always have the courage to move forward, which is also a way of improving life. In short, life is often difficult to determine which is good or bad. It has no certain standard answer. Even opinions are only personal opinions, which do not represent authority or unity, and the accurate results. But in any case, the way of life you express and convey, the cost and result you can bear after making your own choice of life, and the strength and variety you can lift have its significance and beauty. Only when you follow your own way can you recognize yourself, study yourself, and finally find yourself. Such a process may be ups and downs, difficulties and twists, and rotation. It is like a steel wire crossing a canyon. It can also make you realize that no one's life can be smooth and complacent. It is also possible that the mental structure can be reconstructed, and the changing self is ultimately growth and beauty. People's fate is often inspired by the impermanent situation, see hope, and finally explore their own light. If you can be lucky enough to reshuffle your life, you can't say it's unfortunate. You can only say that there is no special conclusion in your life. Everything is changing. Just to find a way to live for yourself, not to survive. All situations and changes in life are not fixed and changed in the continuous shuffle. For example, the change of power, the rise and fall of society, the alternation of personnel and personal changes. Because of these, life is full of hope and new opportunities, just like the rebirth of flowers and trees. That's what it means. To some extent, life reshuffle, need to pay a price, do not reshuffle, also have to pay a price. The choice in the middle depends on your own requirements and expectations for life. However, it is undeniable that fate has its specific attributes. We believe that God is fair and that everything can come back. Of course, you also need to understand that it is obviously a good blessing to live a good present