A camel went through the desert hard. A fly lay on the camel's back and came without any strength. The fly sneered, "camel, thank you for your hard work to camel me. Bye!" The camel looked at the fly and said, "I didn't know when you were on me. You don't have to say hello to me when you left. You don't have any weight at all. Don't take yourself too seriously. Who do you think you are?" English writer Bernard Shaw had nothing to do all day. He played and talked with ...

A camel went through the desert hard. A fly lay on the camel's back and came without any strength. The fly sneered, "camel, thank you for your hard work to camel me. Bye!" The camel looked at the fly and said, "I didn't know when you were on me. You don't have to say hello to me when you left. You don't have any weight at all. Don't take yourself too seriously. Who do you think you are?" English writer Bernard Shaw had nothing to do all day. He played and talked with ...

I often hear many friends complain about various "problems" in life. Later, I simply studied all the "problems". Finally, I came to this conclusion: There are two kinds of problems in the world. The first is called temporary problems, and the other is called permanent problems. For example, when you are eating, you accidentally spilled soy sauce on your clothes and soiled a piece. What is the problem? Of course, it's called a temporary problem, because as soon as you wash the clothes, th...

I often hear many friends complain about various "problems" in life. Later, I simply studied all the "problems". Finally, I came to this conclusion: There are two kinds of problems in the world. The first is called temporary problems, and the other is called permanent problems. For example, when you are eating, you accidentally spilled soy sauce on your clothes and soiled a piece. What is the problem? Of course, it's called a temporary problem, because as soon as you wash the clothes, th...

One morning, the car stopped and an old man came up. He was about 60 years old and smiled kindly. He stood on the steps of the door and said loudly while putting in coins: "it's great today. Just go out and don't wait, so he got on the bus! It's like taking a taxi." Looking at his expression, it seems how lucky it is to meet the bus as soon as you go out. Everyone on the bus looks at his energetic face with a smile. Yes, it's equivalent to taking a taxi. After two stops, i...

One morning, the car stopped and an old man came up. He was about 60 years old and smiled kindly. He stood on the steps of the door and said loudly while putting in coins: "it's great today. Just go out and don't wait, so he got on the bus! It's like taking a taxi." Looking at his expression, it seems how lucky it is to meet the bus as soon as you go out. Everyone on the bus looks at his energetic face with a smile. Yes, it's equivalent to taking a taxi. After two stops, i...

We are often faced with various choices in life, work and emotion. Every choice will make us hesitate. Moreover, sometimes, some choices come with temptation, which makes it more difficult for us to judge. Therefore, the wrong choice has become a great regret. The first regret is not to choose. There is a simple situation, whether to go or not, accept or not, agree or disagree. In other words, the door is there. You just have to choose whether to enter or not. This seemingly simple problem al...

We are often faced with various choices in life, work and emotion. Every choice will make us hesitate. Moreover, sometimes, some choices come with temptation, which makes it more difficult for us to judge. Therefore, the wrong choice has become a great regret. The first regret is not to choose. There is a simple situation, whether to go or not, accept or not, agree or disagree. In other words, the door is there. You just have to choose whether to enter or not. This seemingly simple problem al...

Sometimes we feel very tired because we are "bound". We will work hard because of an unnecessary thing, waste a lot of energy because of a trivial thing, and toss and turn because of an unworthy relationship. But we can't have it all. Like many things, you think your life will be very inconvenient without it, but when you are ready to move but can't bring too many things, you will find that things will become dispensable. Like many things, you think you must fight for right and wron...

Sometimes we feel very tired because we are "bound". We will work hard because of an unnecessary thing, waste a lot of energy because of a trivial thing, and toss and turn because of an unworthy relationship. But we can't have it all. Like many things, you think your life will be very inconvenient without it, but when you are ready to move but can't bring too many things, you will find that things will become dispensable. Like many things, you think you must fight for right and wron...

In cold winter, boil a pot of hot soup for your lover; Under the warm sunshine, sew a button for your lover. Don't underestimate these little things! Your ability and love in these small things will enhance the warmth of your family. The mundane world always makes our hearts covered with too much smoke and gray. Only those who always remember to wipe their hearts can maintain a good state of life and maintain an optimistic attitude towards life. With what to wash our hearts? You may need...

In cold winter, boil a pot of hot soup for your lover; Under the warm sunshine, sew a button for your lover. Don't underestimate these little things! Your ability and love in these small things will enhance the warmth of your family. The mundane world always makes our hearts covered with too much smoke and gray. Only those who always remember to wipe their hearts can maintain a good state of life and maintain an optimistic attitude towards life. With what to wash our hearts? You may need...

01 I have to admit that some "diseases" are really thought out, such as anxiety. Confucius told us that thinking without saying is dangerous, which is really reasonable. Too much worry, too much worry, and even wasted time. A few days ago, a reader contacted me on wechat and said: "I feel very anxious recently. In my late thirties, I am facing the pressure of housing loan and car loan to support my family. I want to change my career and change to a high paying career, but I don't know wh...

01 I have to admit that some "diseases" are really thought out, such as anxiety. Confucius told us that thinking without saying is dangerous, which is really reasonable. Too much worry, too much worry, and even wasted time. A few days ago, a reader contacted me on wechat and said: "I feel very anxious recently. In my late thirties, I am facing the pressure of housing loan and car loan to support my family. I want to change my career and change to a high paying career, but I don't know wh...

We can't change our destiny or our ending, but we can choose our future life path and change our future destiny.Enrich your day. Do not decadent, do not degenerate, you will find that everything is so beautifulNo matter who you are, you should keep your word, but don't promise casually. Don't promise anything you can't do easily; If you promise, you should be responsible for your promise, even if you can't do it; Moreover, keeping promises has a great impact on a pers...

We can't change our destiny or our ending, but we can choose our future life path and change our future destiny.Enrich your day. Do not decadent, do not degenerate, you will find that everything is so beautifulNo matter who you are, you should keep your word, but don't promise casually. Don't promise anything you can't do easily; If you promise, you should be responsible for your promise, even if you can't do it; Moreover, keeping promises has a great impact on a pers...

A neglected truth is that it is much harder to spend money than to earn money. Three years after graduation, my monthly salary has increased from 3000 yuan to more than 10000 yuan. I can earn some income by writing and planning for others. In short, the so-called personal income and assets have increased several times over three years ago, and my daily expenses have also increased several times: I equipped myself with a full set of apples, I bought books for thousands of yuan, I bought a bunc...

A neglected truth is that it is much harder to spend money than to earn money. Three years after graduation, my monthly salary has increased from 3000 yuan to more than 10000 yuan. I can earn some income by writing and planning for others. In short, the so-called personal income and assets have increased several times over three years ago, and my daily expenses have also increased several times: I equipped myself with a full set of apples, I bought books for thousands of yuan, I bought a bunc...

There are many things worth pursuing in this world. However, when you are running on the road of pursuit, don't get stuck with yourself. Do what you want to do according to your will, love the people you want to love, and achieve the career you want. There is no regret in such a life. Although we have no ability to reject all misfortunes and sorrows. Life is rich and colorful, difficult and tortuous; Life is beautiful and heavy. Success or failure, honor or disgrace, sorrow or joy, but u...

There are many things worth pursuing in this world. However, when you are running on the road of pursuit, don't get stuck with yourself. Do what you want to do according to your will, love the people you want to love, and achieve the career you want. There is no regret in such a life. Although we have no ability to reject all misfortunes and sorrows. Life is rich and colorful, difficult and tortuous; Life is beautiful and heavy. Success or failure, honor or disgrace, sorrow or joy, but u...

There are many kinds of people who work hard for life. Effort itself is neither right nor wrong, nor good or bad. But the problem is that we have too many biases in our understanding of efforts - thinking that all efforts are good is one kind of bias. Efforts that are relaxed and agreeable are completely different from those driven by anxiety and panic. I call those who are driven by anxiety "anxious workers". Anxious and hardworking people usually have harsh parents or elders and teachers wh...

There are many kinds of people who work hard for life. Effort itself is neither right nor wrong, nor good or bad. But the problem is that we have too many biases in our understanding of efforts - thinking that all efforts are good is one kind of bias. Efforts that are relaxed and agreeable are completely different from those driven by anxiety and panic. I call those who are driven by anxiety "anxious workers". Anxious and hardworking people usually have harsh parents or elders and teachers wh...

Born for love Only love can make the world round; Only love can create miracles. If you can see the good of others, you will improve your own good; Being able to say the good of others will strengthen the relationship between each other and yourself. Love is the driving force of everything. (Note: love is not just love)Simple life You don't really need that much, Anything extra is useful to others, Send it out, or donate it to a charity sale, so that those who really need it can make goo...

Born for love Only love can make the world round; Only love can create miracles. If you can see the good of others, you will improve your own good; Being able to say the good of others will strengthen the relationship between each other and yourself. Love is the driving force of everything. (Note: love is not just love)Simple life You don't really need that much, Anything extra is useful to others, Send it out, or donate it to a charity sale, so that those who really need it can make goo...