one I got a call from sister Lin last night. I asked her, are you very busy and tired at the end of the year? She said with a relaxed face that it was actually ok because Xiao Wang helped support the project. Xiao Wang and sister Lin used to be colleagues at the same level. Sister Lin was jealous of Xiao Wang because of her outstanding work achievements. Xiao Wang always makes trouble for sister Lin and makes trouble for her everywhere. Before long, sister Lin was promoted. At that time, Xiao Wang was very afraid that sister Lin would retaliate against her. But sister Lin told Xiao Wang very frankly that as long as we work hard, we will let bygones be bygones and start from scratch. Xiao Wang was overjoyed. Next, she really cooperated with sister Lin's work like a new person, which lightened her burden. After I know the whole story, I admire sister Lin very much. I finally understand why sister Lin meets more and more distinguished people and her career is becoming more and more successful. If you want a better future, you need strength, effort, broad-minded and generous personality. If you give others a step and leave yourself room, you will gain more popularity, support and recognition from more people. two I know an aunt who was divorced from her ex husband more than ten years ago. Later, she remarried with her son. The present husband also took a son and they formed a new family. The aunt treats the two children equally. Sometimes, in order to take care of the sensitive and fragile heart of her illegitimate little son, she will stand more on the side of her little son. At first, the youngest son rejected the aunt, but people's hearts were full of flesh. Later, he slowly felt the sincere love of his aunt for him, and his attitude gradually changed. The biological mother of the youngest son was also very pleased to know. The year before last, my aunt's son graduated from college and was worried about looking for a job. The biological mother of the youngest son just had this information, so she took the initiative to recommend him to an enterprise for internship. In life, the bigger and more tolerant you are, the more likely you are to get opportunities and good luck. Because those who are only good to themselves are loved by themselves at most; Those who are also good to others will be loved by more people. This is a simple truth, but many people can't. three A reader once told me that in the past, her grandmother hated that her mother didn't have a boy, so she showed great indifference since her mother was in confinement. At that time, the mother not only had to cook and wash clothes by herself, but also had to take care of her children. And even if grandma is idle, she won't help. Mother really felt wronged, even when she was angry, she thought that she would never be good to grandma when she was old. But in recent years, grandma has grown old, her eyes can't see clearly, her hands and feet are inflexible, and even her memory is bad. Mother not only didn't take this opportunity to export her evil spirit, but helped her grandmother with vegetables at dinner, reminded her to take medicine on time every day, and always led her when she went out for fear that her grandmother would be lost. Once, she asked her mother, don't you really hate grandma for treating you like that? Mother said, after all, we are a family, the past is over, care about so much, can we live well? The larger the emotional pattern, the easier it is to be happy. The most important thing for a family is to be harmonious, not to quarrel and entangle with each other. Let go of the unpleasant past, and you will become yourself now. four In fact, how far a person can go in the future, how he will be treated by others and what kind of life he will live are related to the size of his pattern. Usually, people with a large pattern think of the big picture and don't haggle over every detail. They have a more cooperative spirit and team consciousness. Those who gain the Tao will get more help, while those who lose the Tao will get less help. Many times, when you are lenient to others, you actually open a way for yourself. People with a small pattern like to haggle over every penny. They are easy to get stuck in trivial things. They not only embarrass others, but also can't get along with themselves. Such competition will not only hurt harmony, but also limit your future. People with a large pattern are kind to others without malice. When they give warmth and love to others, they will also react on themselves. People with a small pattern can't accommodate others and are not easy to understand others. They only think of themselves everywhere, and it's difficult for others to be grateful to them. Your pattern, from a shallow point of view, is the bottom line and principle of your life; To think deeply is your cultivation and height. Your pattern determines what kind of life you will have.

one I got a call from sister Lin last night. I asked her, are you very busy and tired at the end of the year? She said with a relaxed face that it was actually ok because Xiao Wang helped support the project. Xiao Wang and sister Lin used to be colleagues at the same level. Sister Lin was jealous of Xiao Wang because of her outstanding work achievements. Xiao Wang always makes trouble for sister Lin and makes trouble for her everywhere. Before long, sister Lin was promoted. At that time, Xiao Wang was very afraid that sister Lin would retaliate against her. But sister Lin told Xiao Wang very frankly that as long as we work hard, we will let bygones be bygones and start from scratch. Xiao Wang was overjoyed. Next, she really cooperated with sister Lin's work like a new person, which lightened her burden. After I know the whole story, I admire sister Lin very much. I finally understand why sister Lin meets more and more distinguished people and her career is becoming more and more successful. If you want a better future, you need strength, effort, broad-minded and generous personality. If you give others a step and leave yourself room, you will gain more popularity, support and recognition from more people. two I know an aunt who was divorced from her ex husband more than ten years ago. Later, she remarried with her son. The present husband also took a son and they formed a new family. The aunt treats the two children equally. Sometimes, in order to take care of the sensitive and fragile heart of her illegitimate little son, she will stand more on the side of her little son. At first, the youngest son rejected the aunt, but people's hearts were full of flesh. Later, he slowly felt the sincere love of his aunt for him, and his attitude gradually changed. The biological mother of the youngest son was also very pleased to know. The year before last, my aunt's son graduated from college and was worried about looking for a job. The biological mother of the youngest son just had this information, so she took the initiative to recommend him to an enterprise for internship. In life, the bigger and more tolerant you are, the more likely you are to get opportunities and good luck. Because those who are only good to themselves are loved by themselves at most; Those who are also good to others will be loved by more people. This is a simple truth, but many people can't. three A reader once told me that in the past, her grandmother hated that her mother didn't have a boy, so she showed great indifference since her mother was in confinement. At that time, the mother not only had to cook and wash clothes by herself, but also had to take care of her children. And even if grandma is idle, she won't help. Mother really felt wronged, even when she was angry, she thought that she would never be good to grandma when she was old. But in recent years, grandma has grown old, her eyes can't see clearly, her hands and feet are inflexible, and even her memory is bad. Mother not only didn't take this opportunity to export her evil spirit, but helped her grandmother with vegetables at dinner, reminded her to take medicine on time every day, and always led her when she went out for fear that her grandmother would be lost. Once, she asked her mother, don't you really hate grandma for treating you like that? Mother said, after all, we are a family, the past is over, care about so much, can we live well? The larger the emotional pattern, the easier it is to be happy. The most important thing for a family is to be harmonious, not to quarrel and entangle with each other. Let go of the unpleasant past, and you will become yourself now. four In fact, how far a person can go in the future, how he will be treated by others and what kind of life he will live are related to the size of his pattern. Usually, people with a large pattern think of the big picture and don't haggle over every detail. They have a more cooperative spirit and team consciousness. Those who gain the Tao will get more help, while those who lose the Tao will get less help. Many times, when you are lenient to others, you actually open a way for yourself. People with a small pattern like to haggle over every penny. They are easy to get stuck in trivial things. They not only embarrass others, but also can't get along with themselves. Such competition will not only hurt harmony, but also limit your future. People with a large pattern are kind to others without malice. When they give warmth and love to others, they will also react on themselves. People with a small pattern can't accommodate others and are not easy to understand others. They only think of themselves everywhere, and it's difficult for others to be grateful to them. Your pattern, from a shallow point of view, is the bottom line and principle of your life; To think deeply is your cultivation and height. Your pattern determines what kind of life you will have.