Not Every Theory Is Harmless — and Not Every Thinker Is Immune The beginning of sorrows Bonnie Nettles was born on August 29, 1927, and raised in Houston, Texas, into a Baptist family. As an adult, she moved away from the religion. After becoming a registered nurse, she married businessman Joseph Segal Nettles in December 1949, with whom she had four children. Their marriage remained mostly stable until 1972, at which time, according to The New York Times, she began attempting to contact dece...