It was supposed to be romantic. Candles flickering, soft music playing, a celebration of another year together. Instead, it ended with me grabbing my purse and hailing a cab, leaving my husband staring at me, bewildered, over a plate of half-eaten pasta. What went wrong? The gift. Oh, the gift.The Great Gift DebacleWe'd been together for five years. Five years of inside jokes, shared dreams, and knowing glances. I’d dropped hints about wanting a weekend getaway, a piece of jewelry, anyth...