Have you noticed? The feeling of love is always sweet at the beginning, always feel finally no longer alone. At least there is someone who thinks about you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as we can be together, is good. But slowly, as we get to know each other better, you begin to find each other's shortcomings, so the problems occur one after another, you begin to get tired and tired, and even want to escape. Some people say love is like picking up a stone, always want to pick up a suitable for themselves, but how do you know when you can pick it up? She is suitable for you, then you are suitable for her? In fact, love is like grinding stones, perhaps just picked up when you are not so satisfied, but people are resilient, many things can change, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of going around to pick up unknown stones, it is better to well sharpen and polish the stones you already have, you started grinding?

Some people say: when drinking, six points drunk slightly drunk is the most comfortable. When eating, the satisfaction of seven points full is the most comfortable. If you continue to eat, you are likely to have an upset stomach and completely lose the pleasure of eating. When you love someone, love to eight points is definitely just right. All expectations and hopes are only seven or eight points, leaving two or three points for loving yourself. If you continue to love more, it is likely to give each other heavy pressure, so that each other can not breathe, completely lost the joy of love. The other day my friend asked me: what exactly should I do to be considered to love someone? I laughed and told him: in fact, everyone's view of love is different, say the right call to enlightenment, but afraid to say the wrong turn into misguided! If you are also confused about love, perhaps the following passage can give you some insight: love someone, to understand, but also to understand; to apologize, but also to say thank you; to admit mistakes, but also to correct mistakes; to considerate, but also to understand; is to accept, but not to endure; is tolerant, but not indulgent; is to support, but not to dominate; is to condole, but not to question; is to confide, but not to accuse; is to remember, but not to forget; is communicate with each other, not everything accounted for; is silent prayer for each other, not to each other many requirements; can be romantic, but do not waste; can always hold hands. But do not just break up if you do, even if you no longer love a person, there is nostalgia, and will not harbor hatred ~ ~