In fact, the sense of ritual is very important in life, and the more important thing is to respect each other.
Fairy tales always end with a sentence that the prince and princess lived a happy life together.
However, in real life, determining a love relationship is often just the beginning of the story.
In a relationship, it’s always easy to meet someone at first sight, but it’s hard to get tired of it for a long time.
If you don’t know the skills of getting along with both sexes, you will only be frustrated in your feelings one after another.
It often happens that the more you love, the fuller you love, but love flows out of your hands like sand.
Some truth can only be understood after falling in love; Some “restricted areas” must be lost before anyone knows they can’t be touched.
I summarized some of the most common mistakes in love. Only by learning in advance and avoiding them in time can we make the relationship go more smoothly and will not be trapped by bad love.
Pretend to like each other
Some girls always play the image of the perfect girlfriend in each other’s heart in order to please the people they like.
Obviously, he is careless in private, but he wants to pretend to be a lady;
Obviously he is a big eater, but he has to pretend to eat very little;
Clearly he only likes eating, drinking and having fun, but also pretends to be knowledgeable;
Please, sister, don’t you feel tired living with makeup 24 hours a day?
Love must be if two people peel off all the external disguises and can spend it comfortably together.
Like a person, we must accept his true all.
If you play the role of others because you are afraid that your true self will not be accepted, how can you face the huge contrast in the later stage of love?
No one is perfect. Showing yourself bravely and frankly is the meaning of intimacy.
Think of each other as an ATM
The other party is willing to buy for you to make you happy because they value you and like you.
But if you take all this for granted and ask for flowers endlessly,
Completely treat each other as your personal free ATM. Also from time to time and other people’s boyfriends do comparison, this love will not go too long.
There is no one in the world who deserves to pay, and no one is born to owe you.
Remember to learn to be independent before you fall in love.
What you want to have, you should strive for it through your own efforts, not in the name of love.
After all, your father is the only man in the world who can take whatever you want.
Over sensitive
Feelings are like this. The more you want, the less you get. The more you want to hold on to that person’s heart, the faster he will slip away from you.
Girls are too sensitive in their feelings, which is to put chains on your feelings. Finally, if they can’t bear the heavy pressure, they can’t help but want to escape.
If someone adds his wechat, you think you are teasing him. If he replies to wechat a few minutes late, you think he is cheating,
From time to time, I ask hysterically: do you not love me?
Too sensitive, give each other endless pressure, but also hurt yourself.
The most important thing in adult love is to give yourself enough sense of security.
Too reasonable
In feelings, self righteous and reasonable will only arouse the endless anger of the other party.
In fact, many girls are not as unreasonable as you think, but when they are controlled by emotion, no girl can calmly listen to your so-called truth.
What they need more is emotional expression, and what they want more is your care and comfort.
If you have to go against her will, put the facts in a self righteous way, reason things out, and try to solve the problem,
The end can only be that you are blackmailed by her.
Win the truth, but lose the feelings, is it worth it?
First bear down to coax, a hug is always more effective than a hundred words of truth.
After all, girls come to fall in love with you, not negotiate! okay?
When both sides calm down, talk to her in a gentle voice about your so-called truth, and she will be able to listen.
And the opposite sex do not know how to avoid suspicion
Everyone knows why toothbrushes and girlfriends can’t be lent out.
After all, as long as you’re not in a fake relationship, it must be full of jealousy and possessiveness.
Because I care about you, I hope only I know your beauty and shortcomings.
After all, love is a matter of two people, and the world of three people is too crowded.
Having a boyfriend / girlfriend is the minimum respect for your partner and the source of each other’s sense of security.
If you think you’re open and you’re tangled with others, don’t dislike your boyfriend / girlfriend for being too jealous.
“When you find your beloved shell, don’t go to the beach.”.
I hope people with boyfriend and girlfriend can understand this truth.
Do not respect each other’s ideas and habits
Boys dislike that girls like to buy some impractical little things and waste money. They think it’s vanity to ask for gifts on holidays.
Girls dislike that boys don’t understand amorous feelings. The things they often buy are not aesthetic. The gifts they give will never be the one she wants.
In fact, the sense of ceremony is very important in life, and the more important thing is to respect each other.
If you love someone, don’t you want to try your best to make her happy?
You don’t want to create romance for her, and don’t complain that she wants to find someone more romantic.
Girl, if you don’t like the gifts he gives you, don’t always attack others’ enthusiasm. Respect his mind and give him more clear tips.
It is said that a woman’s heart is a needle. Sometimes he really can’t guess your mind.
Everyone’s thinking mode and living habits are very different. Facing this gap, respecting different habits and thinking more for each other is a necessary lesson to achieve happy feelings.