One day, my girlfriend who had been a deputy in the unit for many years asked me, now I have the opportunity to be the top leader. I was hesitant, should I go for it? You know my character as a human being. Do you think my character is suitable to be the number one? The girlfriend has a bright and sunny personality, but lacks a bit of deep scheming. She has always been able to do her deputy job with ease and leisurely. She also enjoys such a position without much responsibility. She is more than 40 years old, her husband is excellent and her children are outstanding. Sometimes she has dreams and passion, and sometimes she is reluctant to make progress. Facing the sudden opportunity, she was particularly troubled.
I thought about it and said, in fact, there is nothing suitable or unsuitable. If you think you are suitable, you can find many suitable reasons, such as your honesty and integrity, such as your excellent business, such as you are graceful, these are the qualities of being a good leader; if you think you are not suitable, you also It is also possible to find many unsuitable reasons. For example, you lack the necessary scheming, for example, you are sometimes not meticulous. These will become the shortcomings of your future work. Many people are accustomed to blaming success or failure, happiness or misfortune on character. In fact, they are all excuses. Personalities are of course different, but they are both double-edged swords. How can there be such clear advantages and disadvantages?
It is not what kind of character you are that suits what kind of position and what kind of life you are suitable for; but, what kind of job you want and what kind of life you want, you can work hard to adapt your character to that job and life. Because in the process of your hard work, you will consciously or unconsciously change a little bit, slowly overcome the character that restrains and affect your goal, and improve the character that promotes your goal.
Let character be the reason for choosing one's own life, the excuse for deciding one's own destiny, that is the attitude of ordinary women. Although this is more worry-free and labor-saving, it is always passive. Actively choose your own life, use your choices to improve and correct your character, and make your character more adaptable to your career and destiny. This is the attitude of a goddess.
Going back to your career, I don't think you have to consider whether your personality is suitable or not. You should ask your heart, what kind of life do you want? If you are willing to make life full of challenges and passions, of course, it is also full of hardships and dangers, you go for it; you enjoy the ease and ease of attachment to the present and give up. In any case, this is your own active choice, no matter the future success or failure, plain or ordinary, you have no regrets, because this is the life you want.