Even if life brings endless pain and suffering, I still feel more happy.

Love has always been an important topic in life. Love or not love has always been an unsolvable doubt in many people’s hearts. It can bring happiness, but it is often accompanied by endless troubles.

The difference between the two lies in whether the heart is certain.

Teacher Zhou Guoping said:

“The ultimate purpose of love is not to find the feeling of heartbeat, but to find a closest relative with whom you can spend the rest of your life.”

True love will give you the certainty to spend the rest of your life together.

True love is not just hidden in the heart, it often has traces to follow.

Just as men have the most real physiological response to whether you really love or not, they can’t hide it.

Respect you and be responsible for you

Canadian writer Eliot. Katz wrote in “men should have a sense of responsibility”:

“The man a woman wants is a strong man. This man must have responsibility, be able to rely on and create a happy life for his lover, rather than boasting and inconsistent words and deeds.”

In case of anything, first put the responsibility on the woman, let the woman rush to the front in everything, or take care of everything and compete with each other everywhere. Such a man will undoubtedly be a woman’s disaster and bring endless pain.

When a man loves a woman, he will have an instinctive desire to protect her. He can’t bear to see a woman wronged and see a woman because he is unhappy. Therefore, he will instinctively respect a woman.

He will never take himself as the leader, will not ignore each other’s efforts, and can see each other’s emotions and heart requirements.

He will know how to keep a distance from other heterosexuals and how to feed back each other’s information, so that women have a sense of existence in this relationship.

He will pay all his heart to each other, do not hide his true thoughts, and do not ignore each other’s feelings.

In short, with him, you can see his responsibility and strength.

Dote on you and give you a sense of security

I have seen two literary and artistic young people who like poetry talk about love. One of them is plausible: the beauty of love lies in heart cracking and painful struggle.

At that time, young people still felt that there was a trace of sad and beautiful artistic conception, but after more experience, they found that all love that makes people tear their hearts and lungs and struggle with pain and beauty are not on the same channel at all.

As the writer Yi Shu said:

“The love that really belongs to you won’t make you suffer, and the one who loves you won’t make you worry about gain and loss. If you feel hard, you are forcing. Real love makes people happy. If you feel pain, you must have made a mistake.”

If a man loves you, he will make you happy.

In his eyes, you will be a child who needs to be taken care of everywhere. He will pity you when you are sick, he will not give up when you are sad, he will comfort you when you are lost, and he will accompany you when you hesitate.

With such a man, you will have enough sense of security and have a place in your heart.

You will put away the sensible things in front of others, act coquettish towards him, put away your heart’s guard, and tell him everything. If you can’t make up your mind, you’ll ask him for advice.

You will even be self willed and occasionally unreasonable, and you will no longer have to hide your true self because of that person.

As long as he is there, he will give you strength in the bottom of your heart.

Cherish you and make progress with you hand in hand

Love includes the excitement of the past, the satisfaction of the present, and the expectation of the future.

To determine whether a man really loves you, it depends on whether he cherishes you enough, regards you as a gift of life, and is willing to write a better future with you.

Some people keep saying they love you, but they always show alienation at the critical time. You are not in his life plan.

Whether you are happy or not is not in his care, and your choice is not in his choice. All kinds of information are uncertain.

Law doctor Luo Xiang said:

“If love is just a feeling, then when he meets a challenge, this feeling will soon disappear. Real love must not be an instant touch, but must be a constant commitment, sacrifice and achievement.”

Love will not always be in the passionate state of pulling hands and saying a word. It will eventually return to eating, dressing and sleeping.

It will face the choice of employment, the pain of illness, the loss of depression, and even the contradictory moments of fatigue and mutual disgust caused by triviality. If it is not true love, it may let go at any time.

If a man will stand by your side and make progress with you under any circumstances, that is the ultimate goal of love.

True love is a physiological reaction, so whether a man really loves you or not, only you know the answer best.

True love may not be vigorous when it exists, but it will make you rely on, firm in your heart and predictable in the future.

Zhang Xiaoxian wrote in “I love you after all”:

“Love is a hundred years of loneliness, until you meet the person who will unswervingly protect you. At that moment, all bitter loneliness has a way back.”

I believe that when you meet that person, you will understand what is called: even if life brings endless pain and suffering, I still feel more happy.